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mymainman
August 18th, 2013, 01:57 AM
I find girls very attractive but not so much the sight of a vagina, will i grow to like them or is this never gonna change (im 14) :confused:

NzForever
August 18th, 2013, 02:10 AM
There's always tits & ass.

mymainman
August 18th, 2013, 02:12 AM
no i love all of those things its just i dont find vaginas very good looking

Harley Quinn
August 18th, 2013, 05:28 AM
To be honest, no genitalia is exactly good looking.

roadwarrior
August 18th, 2013, 10:59 AM
it's hard to find a good looking vagina, it's soo very hard ...

Plasma
August 18th, 2013, 11:13 AM
it's hard to find a good looking vagina, it's soo very hard ...

That's kind of shallow. And you must see a lot of vaginas then?

johnsmith1
August 18th, 2013, 02:04 PM
There is more to the female body than just the vagina. I'm sure you will meet a girl for a lot more reasons than just that...

Tyler97
August 18th, 2013, 02:51 PM
There is more to the female body than just the vagina. I'm sure you will meet a girl for a lot more reasons than just that...

I agree with this. The face, and body with clothes on can be very attractive. My first time seeing a vagina in person made me curious, I didn't find it attractive, but because I didn't have one I was interested. The face, personality of the person and the rest of the body makes the attraction, the vagina is only one part.

kylem1229
August 18th, 2013, 03:13 PM
You dont have to like it..you can still have the enjoyment of sex without looking.

Luminous
August 18th, 2013, 04:05 PM
I don't think you have to be attracted to the appearance of a vagina, it's the person that matters.
Though I must say, I am rather attracted to vaginas.

mymainman
August 22nd, 2013, 10:40 AM
thanks guys for the help

punker_25
August 22nd, 2013, 01:02 PM
youll get over it, trust me

Trenton_
August 22nd, 2013, 01:44 PM
thanks guys for the help

youll get over it, trust me

Yup, you'll get over it. Genitals are like coffee, you might not like them very much at first, but it grows on you and the next thing you know you have to have it.

SCHS1998
August 22nd, 2013, 01:45 PM
I completely understand i am more of an ass and boob person

proverbs31
August 22nd, 2013, 02:03 PM
Vaginas aren't necessarily pleasant to look at, but then again no private part is. But you're 14, just wait it'll happen.

NeverFazed
August 22nd, 2013, 02:13 PM
Idk but i love vaginas ..love the word too.

Gajomc
August 22nd, 2013, 11:37 PM
You will probably grow into liking them...I didn't really like the appearance first time I saw one(13 at time), now I like them all, and want to see them all, lol

Elysium
August 22nd, 2013, 11:43 PM
Aside from everything everyone else has said, there's also the possibility that you won't come to like it.

I'm reluctantly beginning to identify as asexual, which means I'm not physically attracted to anybody, or at least thus far I haven't been. There is definitely more to a relationship than the physical aspect of it; it's between you and your partner how significant a role sex and physicality is in your relationship.

However, what I try to tell everyone struggling with sexuality or gender issues: keep in mind, you're 14, which is young to be 100% certain of your sexuality, gender, turn ons, etc. Even adults well into their lives find themselves unsure. Things will change, but at this point, it's difficult to say what those things might be. Don't rush to put a label on anything now (hence my reluctance) because you might find yourself deviating from the definitions of that label later on, which will only cause you more confusion and distress.

"To define is to limit." - Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

If you must label yourself, say something along the lines of "curious," "unsure," etc., open and flexible words that you can define yourself and not have defined for you.

LuisFer
August 22nd, 2013, 11:46 PM
You don't need to like vaginas

ovoxo23
August 22nd, 2013, 11:55 PM
I look for a good personality and a lot of stuff before I even care about what their vagina looks like. But honestly, I love vaginas and I'm REALLY attracted to them

DerBear
August 23rd, 2013, 01:23 PM
To be honest, no genitalia is exactly good looking.

Yeah unless someone decides to get a designer vagina (That was actually a TV program) lol

itschilled
August 23rd, 2013, 01:46 PM
Well i've noticed that there are different types, and personally i don't like all, but there are a few that i like.. but you can't go around and ask every girl "how does you're vagina look like" its just not right.. Just like the girl for her personality, you don't have to jump into sex at the first moment, and you don't even have to look at it.. *sex under a blanket* and gods finest creations also have boobs and asses..

skylerlovelegacy
August 23rd, 2013, 05:18 PM
if you have seen the porn vagina i wil understand it but a normal girls vagina is majastic