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smithers
August 18th, 2013, 01:44 AM
so i know its a big age differnce but im 17 and when i was a counsellor at camp i had a crush on one of my 13 year old campers
he had a crush on me also we r both gay
i didnt want to act on it but like i didnt know what to do
hes really hot and pretty far in puberty
is it legit to do something with him or should i wait a couple years

xXMajor_PancakesXx
August 18th, 2013, 02:15 AM
Idk I'm 13 and gay and wouldn't mind messing around with an older guy. But unfortunately that's not how a lot of people think. It's your choice anyway though.

(But do you know for a fact that he wants to mess around too? If not you should find out how he feels about it first lol)

Lost in the Echo
August 18th, 2013, 02:25 AM
P101 :arrow: Relationships & Dating

Maybe in a few years it would be fine to pursue a relationship with him, but for now, he's too young for you. There are a lot of other guys your age whom you can engage in a relationship with. You'll likely forget about this boy as time goes on, anyway. This is probably just a crush.

smithers
August 18th, 2013, 07:21 PM
i know for sure he does cause i got him staring at me jerking while i was asleep naked and i asked him about it and he told me everything
i dont know i really like this guy and he looks old for his age and im young for my age and i really want something to happen

MilitaryBoy
August 18th, 2013, 07:29 PM
Well, here's how I see it. You should talk to him to see if he'd want to be in a relationship with you. Now I'm not going to tell you what to do, just talk with him and do what you think is best/right. If you two would be happy together then by all means get together. People may not like it but always remember this. You control your life, no one else does. Live your life free and happy. Good luck to you bro. :)

suicidalbutter
August 18th, 2013, 08:36 PM
He's too young for you to date at the moment. He would be overly influenced by you, not only that but you'll be 18 soon enough and he'll only be turning 14. And then it's a legal matter. it's probably just a crush, and can easily be forgotten in just a short time.

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August 18th, 2013, 09:00 PM
It's risky, but technically he's not TOO young.

justin 13
August 19th, 2013, 07:06 PM
I dunno I guess I will go forward cuz I like older guys, Im 13.

Tarannosaurus
August 22nd, 2013, 07:32 AM
4 years isn't too bad. However I don't think you should do anything on camp. If other staff found out about it they might see it as you taking advantage him.