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radcom
August 17th, 2013, 06:23 PM
OK, this is difficult to write out. There’s this girl that I have liked since we met almost four years ago, we went out twice about two/three years ago but that was just young immature stuff.

I’m confused as to what to do. I don’t know whether she likes me or not, but that’s not so much the issue. Just talking to her is brilliant, but I just don’t know what to talk about! She said to me ‘I love talking to you on Skype because even if we don’t have anything to say, there’s still something there.’ But I still feel like I need to say something! What can I say to her to hint to her that I like her? I think I love her to be honest and have for a year; I won’t shower you with the details. I’m not even sure she wants to talk to me! How can I talk to her and be interesting?

plebble
August 17th, 2013, 06:36 PM
In my opinion, I think she likes you. I think that was the hint.

What I think you should do is ask her to hang out some time, that will inform her that you like her, possibly as a friend, but also possibly as a lover (couldn't think of a better word than "lover").

The more you hang out together, the more you'll like each other, and before long I think you'll start a relationship.

I'm no expert, but I have witnessed many things like this before, I think she's into you :)

kylem1229
August 17th, 2013, 06:56 PM
Oh yeah...that's the sign that she likes you. Find out what she likes, and have a conversation about it. If you feel comfortable, ask her out. Just don't wait too long.

Camazotz
August 17th, 2013, 09:42 PM
Oh yeah...that's the sign that she likes you. Find out what she likes, and have a conversation about it. If you feel comfortable, ask her out. Just don't wait too long.

Do this, OP. She sounds interested, so gauge her reaction to some light flirtation and just talk about things she likes, you like, or you both like. There are tons of things to talk about, so just be brave, take initiative to get her to like you, and ask her out.

You can do it! :D

justin 13
August 20th, 2013, 01:45 PM
Dude show your feelings to her.