Difficult choice between girls

[Hardstyle4Life]

Hi guys I am new on the forums and I really need ur help,

I have been in a Relationship with a wonderfull girl that I am very much in love with for about 10 months now. This is the longest I have ever been in a Relationship with someone and we totaly trust each other, so went sexualy aswell as emotionaly pretty far. This is not the problem ofcource tough.

The problem is that I think the relationship may have lasted a bit to long, and altough i really do still love her, I dont know if I can still be in a relationship with her. This holiday when I went to france for two weeks I found this other great looking, funny, cute and smart girl who is from Holland as am I. After the holiday we met again twice and it just feels really good. Maybe even better then with my GF atm. On the one hand I really don't wanna let loose of what I got, but on the other hand I don't want to spend my whole teen years stuck to a girl not being able to do what I really want to do.

Pleas help me guys I still very much love my GF but I don't know if this can last. CHEATING IS NOT AN OPTION. And please don't say follow your heart becouse that won't help me sry. ;)

Thanks already guys, I really love these forums so far!

[thewhiteyeezus]

Well if you do love her you shouldnt really leave her, there will be times where u find somebody that has potential to be better than ur gf, and some people leave for that reason but realize that they only touched the surface of the other and realize their former gf/bf was much better love wise

[Hardstyle4Life]

Thanks for the reply, I understand what you're saying but I don't know if I want to be in the relationship anymore becouse it isn't working out lately. It's not so much about the other girl but more about me thinking I am to young for such long relationship.

[plebble]

Hi guys I am new on the forums and I really need ur help,

I have been in a Relationship with a wonderfull girl that I am very much in love with for about 10 months now. This is the longest I have ever been in a Relationship with someone and we totaly trust each other, so went sexualy aswell as emotionaly pretty far. This is not the problem ofcource tough.

The problem is that I think the relationship may have lasted a bit to long, and altough i really do still love her, I dont know if I can still be in a relationship with her. This holiday when I went to france for two weeks I found this other great looking, funny, cute and smart girl who is from Holland as am I. After the holiday we met again twice and it just feels really good. Maybe even better then with my GF atm. On the one hand I really don't wanna let loose of what I got, but on the other hand I don't want to spend my whole teen years stuck to a girl not being able to do what I really want to do.

Pleas help me guys I still very much love my GF but I don't know if this can last. CHEATING IS NOT AN OPTION. And please don't say follow your heart becouse that won't help me sry. ;)

Thanks already guys, I really love these forums so far!

If you were my ex girlfriend, she'd say go after the new girl... sigh...

Ok sorry about that, seriously now, I think you should stay with your current girlfriend for the time being, but keep seeing this new girl (do not kiss or anything, simply be friends). I think you should see how it goes with the new girl and if you feel like you're falling for her, go for her.

If you do go for the new girl, my advice would be to gently break up with your current girlfriend, and do not tell her about this new girl. That would break her heart and she's too young for that.

I haven't had much relationship experience, but that's just my opinion

[pieman10]

People always think the grass is always greener on the other side, most often its not.

[Hardstyle4Life]

If you were my ex girlfriend, she'd say go after the new girl... sigh...

Ok sorry about that, seriously now, I think you should stay with your current girlfriend for the time being, but keep seeing this new girl (do not kiss or anything, simply be friends). I think you should see how it goes with the new girl and if you feel like you're falling for her, go for her.

If you do go for the new girl, my advice would be to gently break up with your current girlfriend, and do not tell her about this new girl. That would break her heart and she's too young for that.

I haven't had much relationship experience, but that's just my opinion

Thank you for the reply you guys are really hepling me out on this one. See the thing that is making this a problem is that I am under a bit of timepressure... I kinda made out with the other girl and she wants to know who i want to go for :whoops: I know I made a mess of this myself, but I would love to make it right again. BTW my GF knows of this other girl but not that I like her somewhat.

[Plasma]

Thank you for the reply you guys are really hepling me out on this one. See the thing that is making this a problem is that I am under a bit of timepressure... I kinda made out with the other girl and she wants to know who i want to go for :whoops: I know I made a mess of this myself, but I would love to make it right again. BTW my GF knows of this other girl but not that I like her somewhat.

You say cheating is not an option, yet you've already done it... It amazes me that you do this and don't tell this girlfriend that you "love" about it, or how you say that you love her at all.

[Hardstyle4Life]

You say cheating is not an option, yet you've already done it... It amazes me that you do this and don't tell this girlfriend that you "love" about it, or how you say that you love her at all.

I know that I went wrong, it just happened. I was tipsy, she more then so, and I liked her. I feel really bad for doing so. I just want to finish this without breaking my own heart or anyone elses.

And I btw do really love my GF more then anything in the world, except maybe for my freedom. I just feel like I'm to young to be stuck to someone, even to someone that I know I will probably never find a girl for that is as great. (altough this other girl comes close)

[Plasma]

I know that I went wrong, it just happened. I was tipsy, she more then so, and I liked her. I feel really bad for doing so. I just want to finish this without breaking my own heart or anyone elses.

And I btw do really love my GF more then anything in the world, except maybe for my freedom. I just feel like I'm to young to be stuck to someone, even to someone that I know I will probably never find a girl for that is as great. (altough this other girl comes close)

Maybe tell her you need a break? It saddens me to hear this, really.

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Break up with her if you're cheating on her. She doesn't deserve that.

[Hardstyle4Life]

Yes I see her tomorrow so I will see how it goes. If it feels a lot better then I might give it a try otherwise I think it is indeed time for a break. I have never felt so bad...

oh and I am definatly never cheating on anyone ever again.. I learned from my mistakes.



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