GIRLS: What impresses you/endears you to a guy?

[gabzas331]

So,
Say a fine young gentleman wished to gain the affection of a beautiful young woman, how should he approach his interest in order to achieve his goal?

Seriously though how do I appear attractive to a girl I like? I'm clueless :l

Gabe

[Silicate Wielder]

Dress nicely, wear deodorant (Most if not all girls like a guy who smells nice.) but don't overdo-it either. find oyt her interests and hang out with her. Being able to make her laugh doesn't hurt either.

[gabzas331]

Thank you burrito :D

[PinkFloyd]

Make sure to be confident.

[Cygnus]

wear deodorant

This could literally kill a relationship, the most vital thing ever.

[Camazotz]

I know we're all guys, but you deserve a response since this topic is of the utmost importance.

1. Dress nicely- pick clothing that matches your personality and/or the personality of the girl you're trying to attract. Don't go around in sweats. In my experience, I'd say that a "preppy" clothing style is the way to go.

2. Personal hygiene- choose deodorant that you think will not turn off girls; shower at least once a day; brush your teeth; keep your hair neat (if that's the style you're going for); take care off your skin, nails, teeth, etc; mints/gum for good-smelling breath; work out somewhat often to be in "decent" shape

3. Confidence- act comfortable in front of girls. That doesn't mean you have to act like a tool by bragging; you need to look and feel good. As long as you can smoothly talk to girls without much stuttering and stammering, and can talk about normal things that they enjoy, you're in good shape. Funny is always good.

4. Compassion- even if you want to act "tough" and "confident", show that you know how to treat girls by knowing what they like (be willing to go shopping if they ask, give advice if they're having problems, etc.)

5. Respect- respect her, yourself, and others. Treat everyone like you want to be treated. Your reputation matters, and you don't want to look like a babbling idiot by saying something stupid to friends that you might not mean. Just be an upstanding guy.

And lastly, have positive expectations for yourself and others, but don't expect 10/10 girls to like you if you're not a 10/10 guy. It's very rare for that kind of thing to happen, meaning be realistic- if you're not going to put in the time to try to be a 10/10, then maybe you don't deserve the same. (I say this because there are tons of people that think their personality is flawless and that they only deserve perfection, when they refuse to make themselves less "date-worthy."

[gabzas331]

Thank you all, and thank you Matt especially:)

[desti_cakes]

Confidence of course (but not to the point where someones cocky, I love it when my guy has a bit of humility)

A sense of humor (Not like Zack Galifinakis or Kevin Hart, but I'd love to have a little chuckle)

Personal hygiene (You don't have to be OCD and scrub every part of your body with a small toothbrush, but a shower once a day and a fresh smell can have a girl going wild)

Girls love guys who give them compliments and other than that...well you could get plenty of chicks with all of these done so good luck!

[gabzas331]

Thank you! :)

[ImZui]

I don't know why but I like shy guys or when they act like they shy.Compliments are so important for girls&and u have to make her feel like she's the hottest chick and she's beautiful.Generally women like when guys say funny things.Just be yourself and show her that u care but don't be pushy and don't rush w/ anything :)

[Twilly F. Sniper]

This could literally kill a relationship, the most vital thing ever.

Depending on the person ;) Wouldn't kill it for me.

I like guys who gentleman-like and extremely kind towards other people. Also, similar interests has a way of attracting me to guys (and women as well.)
{Even though I'm a boy, I still offered that up when the thread specifically said girls}

[LouBerry]

So,
Say a fine young gentleman wished to gain the affection of a beautiful young woman, how should he approach his interest in order to achieve his goal?

Seriously though how do I appear attractive to a girl I like? I'm clueless :l

Gabe

I like guys who are silly, playful, sweet, clean, and I will not even consider a guy if he can't sing.

[KattAttack]

If your good friends, talk to her often, and text her good night and good morning. And cuddling. Also, never pressure her.

[gabzas331]

Thanks everyone!

I will not even consider a guy if he can't sing.

That's incredibly shallow. You need to rethink your approach to guys if that is so important, not trying to start a flamewar but it's the truth

[TinyDancer]

Confidence of course (but not to the point where someones cocky, I love it when my guy has a bit of humility)

A sense of humor (Not like Zack Galifinakis or Kevin Hart, but I'd love to have a little chuckle)

Personal hygiene (You don't have to be OCD and scrub every part of your body with a small toothbrush, but a shower once a day and a fresh smell can have a girl going wild)

Girls love guys who give them compliments and other than that...well you could get plenty of chicks with all of these done so good luck!

100% agree! I would definitely feel comfortable giving the same back to him. PS: A guy's clothing style is a big plus for me but certainly not a deal breaker.

[LouBerry]

Thanks everyone!



That's incredibly shallow. You need to rethink your approach to guys if that is so important, not trying to start a flamewar but it's the truth

No actually it's not. There are things that everyone can't handle, and I can't handle wrong notes and bad pitches.
I got my heart broken by someone I loved more then anything, and after that, I set my standards high. There is nothing wrong with looking for specific qualities. For the record, I'm engaged, so I don't think I need to rethink anything. ;)