Asked a girl out! But actually dont like her

[QuantumPhysics]

This girl has asked me out over 20 times and I was feeling really awkward everytime i sed no. So i thought up a plan to ask her put so tht she would nver ask me out again. So i did tht. Then shes all lovey dovey and giving me stamps (i colect stamps) And i feel like I am a bad person. we agreed at the beginning tht we would break up before school starts again. But I felt uncomfortable with this relattionship and tried to break up wiv her. I did. For an hour. Then I sed we will stay together for a bit. I feel uncomfortable now. I want to break up wiv her. Does all this make me a bad person?

[WeAreOneRepublic]

I've asked someone out I didn't really have feelings for either. Now for one, if you talk to her and state facts like you don't have feelings for her but say it in a nice way then you should be fine, tell her you want to be friends and would rather not have a relationship. Good luck :)

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Why would you lead her on? Just tell her you're not interested.

[Croconaw]

It's not right to lead her on like that. She probably thinks you have a thing for her now. If you have no interest in dating her, then it's best to break up with her as soon as possible. It's better that you get it over with right away instead of staying in the relationship pretending to like her. I wouldn't say it makes you a bad person, there were just much better ways to go about this situation.

You need to confront her and tell her that you're not interested. Tell her you're sorry that you lead her on and that you don't really want to have a relationship with her at the moment. It might hurt her feelings, but she'll have to get over it.

[Cygnus]

The simple fact that you did ask her out without being interested in her is a bad thing to do, however if you reveal your initial plan to her then maybe she will permanently leave you alone.

[kylem1229]

Just tell her you don't like her. Plain and simple

[Camazotz]

You need to confront her and tell her that you're not interested. Tell her you're sorry that you lead her on and that you don't really want to have a relationship with her at the moment. It might hurt her feelings, but she'll have to get over it.

There's really nothing else for me to say.

OP, you done goofed. You can't be a pushover when it comes to these kinds of things. You need to say from the beginning "I think you're a nice gal, and I appreciate your interest me, but I don't share the same feelings that you do." Basically, you have to friend-zone her if you don't feel mutually interested. It sounds like you've been confused of your feelings over this situation, but now that you know, apologize for leading her on, and get over it.

[Kasp]

There's no point in being in the relationship if you're not happy aboutnit

[plebble]

Dude this is what happened to me. I was with a girl for a few months and she just started to not like me anymore which I sensed, but she never admitted it until she broke up with me on Monday.
It's really not nice being with someone you don't like, because they will get heartbroken. You have to be honest with her and let her go before it goes on for too long.

[JamesSuperBoy]

maybe you are not ready for a steady thing - but it does not make you bad

[MikeSpace]

Just tell her your true feelings and take it from there! There is no point in leading her on, she deserves to be with someone who cares about her, and so do you..