bj and age

[stoneflowe96]

This is something that confuses me very much. Why are here a lot of girls who gave her first bj in the age between 11 and 13? I think this is very early. I know there are always girls who consider themselves als mature with 13, but nearly all of you? If I belive the last bj survey. Sure in that age you start exploring your sexuality, but with yourself. What are your. opinions?

[emily-candace]

I'm 17 and haven't even done it yet and not planning on it anytime soon either. even before 17 is too early I think.

[Tiffanyroz]

I was also kinda surprised when I read the survey I think 11-13 is too young...but you know, every girl is different and every girl's life is a different situation..

[Abgail 16]

I have been shocked too but I just assumed that 99.9% of the girls here are more experienced than I am so it's a good place to learn without getting embarrased about it.

[JessTom]

I am pretty surprised that people that young have tried it, kind of. Well. 11 year olds esp. I still haven't tried it.

[Realisticality]

Personally, I think anyone 14 and under should not be doing anything sexual with another person. Or is that because I'm a jealous virgin?
I do think that's way too young though.

[Tarannosaurus]

Apparently having sex under 15 including oral sex puts you at a higher risk of getting STDs so I'd say definitely not younger than that for their own safety.

[stoneflowe96]

Apparently having sex under 15 including oral sex puts you at a higher risk of getting STDs so I'd say definitely not younger than that for their own safety.

This I did not know, where do you have this info from? Ok the age of consent is in my country at 14 but more than the half have theire first sexual contact with 16 and there are more who are even older. I also say 15 is a age there to start is ok.

[Tarannosaurus]

This I did not know, where do you have this info from? Ok the age of consent is in my country at 14 but more than the half have theire first sexual contact with 16 and there are more who are even older. I also say 15 is a age there to start is ok.
I got it from avert.org a HIV and AIDS website yeah I didn't know before that either but I've seen it in other places since.
Here's one of the places its mentioned you have to scroll down a bit http://www.avert.org/age-of-consent.htm

[uglyinsideandout]

I first did it when I was 10 or 11 but it wasn't really my idea. Personally I don't believe about half of what is posted in the "surveys" here and most of the time the questions don't make any sense, like what does bra size have to do with what kind of underwear you like or wear. And not everyone has alot of control over what kind of underwear they have, so... yeah.

[bubble .]

... Wtf?! When I was that age, I had sad little pity relationships that meant nothing. Before me, they played with dolls. Now this? Will 8 become the next average age to have kids? [/SIZE]

[stoneflowe96]

... Wtf?! When I was that age, I had sad little pity relationships that meant nothing. Before me, they played with dolls. Now this? Will 8 become the next average age to have kids?

I hope not. My older sis told me something about this in a essay of Mark Greif, maybe the one of you in the USA heard of him. The Essay is called "Afternoon of the sex children" from the magazine n+1.

[Tarannosaurus]

... Wtf?! When I was that age, I had sad little pity relationships that meant nothing. Before me, they played with dolls. Now this? Will 8 become the next average age to have kids?

You never know...atm the youngest girl to give birth was 5 years 7 months old and there have been quite a few 8 year old mothers...

[bubble .]

o.-' Ehh..

[Sandra Main]

I did oral at age 12 he was 13. but nothing else happened I'm still a virgin
I agree might have to young to know any better.
But i enjoyed it
It it was a one time thing

[uglyinsideandout]

... Wtf?! When I was that age, I had sad little pity relationships that meant nothing. Before me, they played with dolls. Now this? Will 8 become the next average age to have kids?

This wasn't your average kind of relationship, and like I said not really my idea. And FWIW I'm pregnant now.

[honeybear]

I was 11 when I lost my virginity and my first experience with bjs was with him for almost a year previous. I was so infatuated with him (he was a lot older) that I let him talk me into both the oral and the sex..I don't know that I regret it but if he hadn't been so convincing I probably would not have done it

[Jennythethird]

I wouldnt be surprised if some girls were lying I know bj and sex and all was taboo in middle school most would just hook up

[suicidalbutter]

I hope most girls are lying on that survey it would really awkward to walk around the mall now thinking "most of these little girls have probably gotten further than me with a dude" :|

[RakshaMalayka]

Well I was 14 and that was only due to him being incredibly persuasive. I actually think that you should be around 15-16 before doing that stuff but everyone is different and can't exactly stop them

[Jadee_xo]

13 is quiet young depends on situation though

[Mariebme]

Everyone is different, and their life situations are different, so it's hard to judge I guess. Rather, I hope :P

[Mell1na]

Well i wouldnt say 13 is young but 11 yes it is :) but i dont have problem :) everoyne explore their sexuality in his own way :P

[Zsofia]

In my opinion, as soon as you want to experiment, you're not young anymore.

[LouBerry]

I was Sixteen, and I didn't like it, it was the most disgusting think I've ever done, so I was like, sorry hun, no. I think if you're old enough to have sex, you're old enough to have oral. So, if you're fourteen or fifteen, eh, you probably should be doing it. But after you're over the age of consent, eh, it's just part of the deal.

[emily-candace]

I'm still waiting to even see or touch my first one.

[lucy96]

I first gave one when I was 13 not cos I wanted too but because my then boyfriend was desperate for me to do it

[Alexaluvsya]

Yeah it's way to early. I'm 15 and I haven't gotten one yet. Not planning on getting one anytime soon either

[lauren1]

I agree with Emma. I'm still 14 and I want to wait a LONG time. :)

[Special K]

Waiting is good. So is doing it for a guy you love or like.

[scentoftheplains]

I think that's way too fing early because your still a Kid for crying out loud. I think that's way too close to getting preggers in sixth grade type a stuff.

[ShannanThaLoca]

I did oral at age 12 he was 13. but nothing else happened I'm still a virgin
I agree might have to young to know any better.
But i enjoyed it
It it was a one time thing

Hey I'm 15 and I'm gonna give one to this boy.Umm could you give me tips or something,I may be too young but thats my choice really,so dont talk me out of it...anyways,or like tell me about your experience.anything helps thanks;)

[Jennboh]

I gave me first bj when I was 14 and the boy was 13. I didnt think it was too young.

[Theekshana]

I was 11 when I lost my virginity and my first experience with bjs was with him for almost a year previous. I was so infatuated with him (he was a lot older) that I let him talk me into both the oral and the sex..I don't know that I regret it but if he hadn't been so convincing I probably would not have done it

I can sooo relate to you. I was smitten for him for as long as I remember and he was a lot older. Oral sex started when I was 11, I was curious and he was convincing. I don't regret it but maybe I was taken advantage of. But one thing is for sure, I enjoyed all of it. He never forced himself and didn't try to have sex with me or anything like that until I asked him to when I was 13. So I guess it depends on the situation you are in.

[martine98]

I b.j first time when i was 10, its their own choise, i had no problem whit it, i was 10 and he was nearly adult, but i have no prob whit it, if a 10 y.o wants to b.j a gay, so let them do it, its never a prob before someone says it,

[highschool]

i see what you mean. I was actually 13 when i did it, but my boyfriend was 16 and really persuasive. I'm still a virgin though

[anyone50]

I agree with one poster that not everything you read here can be taken as gospel as well as everyone is who they say they are but in general I think girls are giving BJ's at a younger age because they don't want to go all the way and it's a compromise to keep their guy happy. I saw a TV show a few years ago when they interviewed girls 11 to 13 and almost half had admitted to giving a BJ for the exact reason I mentioned.

[ClassyBlasian]

I think it's wrong for girls especially 13 to do so. But then again, everyone matures at different rates. I feel like they do it for the wrong reason which is to feel cool.

[melissa13]

My first time to give a bj was at 12, it was kool, first taste was strange but love it now.

[ShannanThaLoca]

i asked this to a boy,but i wanna hear a girls point of view.when you give one and he cums in your mouth,would you spit it out or swallow?Also is it bad if you do swallow?

[LilAllyJ]

I was 13 when I gave my first bj... I think it was young because it only made me more curious about doing other things and I had sex about a year later. I don't necessarily regret having sex young, I just wish I wouldn't have been so eager for it to happen because then I would have waited for someone special.

Shannon, I'll let the guy cum in my mouth but I spit it out. I just have a towel or something ready before I start. It's not bad to swallow, it won't hurt you. I just don't care to try it.

[Baby-Kitten]

Well I was 14 when I gave my first bj... I thought it was gross.idk why I think the reason why I think that is cause I'm bi!

[Katiya]

Am I the only person who finds the idea of a BJ disgusting? I mean sex is one thing but putting your mouth on that end of the body? Just uck! I don't see where this would be enjoyable for a girl. They guy I could see but for the girl?

Idk that's just unsanitary! I would never put a dick or va j j in my mouth, ever. I'd say the guy should at least wear a condom like normal sex. Good way to get oral STDs.

Nope not my cup of tea.!

[stepht]

Well, I've never had the opportunity to give any guy a bj myself but I guess my first reaction is that it seems pretty young for that. But I def don't want to judge either - everybody's situation is different so who am I to say?

[Jennboh]

Am I the only person who finds the idea of a BJ disgusting? I mean sex is one thing but putting your mouth on that end of the body? Just uck! I don't see where this would be enjoyable for a girl. They guy I could see but for the girl?

Idk that's just unsanitary! I would never put a dick or va j j in my mouth, ever. I'd say the guy should at least wear a condom like normal sex. Good way to get oral STDs.

Nope not my cup of tea.!

Well obviously it's gotta be clean! If my ex bf's penis wasn't clean or smelled, I would totally make him take a shower before I gave him a bj.

[Katiya]

Well obviously it's gotta be clean! If my ex bf's penis wasn't clean or smelled, I would totally make him take a shower before I gave him a bj.

Ehhh, I still wouldn't do it. There's a place to put it other than your mouth IMO. I don't care what others do. I just find it ick!

[ellawood]

I'm 14 and done it

[Sandra Main]

Wow that was young.
I thought i was young at age 12.

[satarra3180]

I was also 12 but he wore a condom. I think someone's readiness is not necessarily based on their age.

[Emily15_xoxo]

i did my first BJ when I was 13, it wasn't so bad.

[highschool]

Ehhh, I still wouldn't do it. There's a place to put it other than your mouth IMO. I don't care what others do. I just find it ick!

when you have a bf/husband you'll probably have to do it..and its not as bad as you think, it can be fun.

[JessDaly]

16 for me

[Katiya]

when you have a bf/husband you'll probably have to do it..and its not as bad as you think, it can be fun.

Haha! Nooo, no bf/husband of mine will ever force me to do anything. If that is so he's out the door. I'd much rather live alone than be forced to do sexual acts or anything else. I figure if its meant to be I'll want to do it and if I don't want to it just isn't meant to be. I strongly believe I or anyone else should not 'have' to do anything. That's pushing a relationship along that isn't going to work IMO.
Not to say some people don't do things just to please a partner because they enjoy pleasing a partner. I don't see that as a 'have to'. But BJs are just something a bf of mine would have to be content to live without. Unless at some point down the road I changed my mind on the subject. But it wouldn't be anything I'd do right away, I'd have to really really love that person to do it.
Its not something I'd just jump right into, I'm surprised by how many who do but what ever floats ur boat! B)

[Sandra Main]

I am 13 now and about 6 years ago I gave my first bj. He is my brother and is now 19. We were raised very open and sex is not a bad thing.
I have not been hurt and still like sex alot. I like to get in touch with others to chat about stuff.

Love Kait

WOW. That was kinda young .

[boop95]

I think thats crazy really, expecially those girls..

[emilysut]

i was 10

[Amazerful]

Never

[jackthorpe]

i was 17 when i had my first one and the girl was 16

[jenna123]

i did it first when i was 15, but tbh i think doing it before you are 14 is quite young but that just my opinion. I am too suprised by the large number of 11-13 year old who have done it

[San1998]

begining on the age of 13 is more or less ok, but before?! I think it is strange. I had my first one with nearls 15

[San1998]

i was 10

why so young?

[hollsbells]

Gave my first bj when i was 11 - pretty much got pressured into it cos my 13 year old mate who i was hangin out with was giving them

[TheGoth]

Did i pass the apocalypse? 11-13? Jesus... I wish there actually was nuclear war between USSR and usa...

[Mich015]

I was 13

[Miri]

I've never given one.

I mean I've kind of gotten... requests, but I've always declined. I'm not against it and probably would if I was actually to the guy, but I wouldn't let myself be pressured into it.

[Pensive]

I've never given one.

I mean I've kind of gotten... requests, but I've always declined. I'm not against it and probably would if I was actually to the guy, but I wouldn't let myself be pressured into it.

That sounds highly repellent.

[jessicaann]

Bjs are something that gets done a lot around ages 11-12. Whether to express affection, express sexuality, maybe be rebellious. A lot if girls I know gave Bjs to keep guys interested. This may seem disgusting to some, sometimes bjs were part of party games. I guess I've done it more than a few times, but did not let it lead to more unless I specifically wanted. I totally love giving head.

[Pensive]

Bjs are something that gets done a lot around ages 11-12. Whether to express affection, express sexuality, maybe be rebellious. A lot if girls I know gave Bjs to keep guys interested. This may seem disgusting to some, sometimes bjs were part of party games. I guess I've done it more than a few times, but did not let it lead to more unless I specifically wanted. I totally love giving head.

How do they even find a quiet place to do that? Do the parents let the guys sleepover and it happens at night? You seem to know a lot of girls that sucked guys at that age... I know None

[hoboliz]

I hate stuff like this. You wanna know why I started young? My mom's bf started touching me when I was 6. 6. That wasn't my choice and I couldn't fight back. My means of taking control was to learn to enjoy it. So I started experimenting with my best (girl) friend. And when he got caught and sent to jail, that's when I started experimenting with boys. I was 11 when I gave my first bj, and honestly I felt relieved to finally be in control of a guy. That's why. Judge me if you want.

[sugar]

17 and with my boyfriend :)

[Elysium]

17 and with my boyfriend :)
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