Helpme96
August 14th, 2013, 07:15 PM
Hi guys, I don't even know if this forum is still active but I could really need some advice. It's probably gonna be a long story and english is not my first language so I'm sorry if it's unbearable!
So I had this crush on a girl, it was not to serious but I had the feeling that she liked me too, so I hung out with her a lot. Now, time has passed real quickly and I just realized that I've already been hanging out with her for like half a year. Now 1 month ago I asked someone to ask her best friend if she likes me back the way I like her, she told me that she tought she could like me at first but she doesn't anymore.
Sadly for me I've grown some real feelings for her and I could not just move on, so I kept hanging out with her. Now the vague part for me is that she keeps flirting with me. When we are at parties together, we always end up with just the two of us talking about some pretty personal stuff but in a fun way, it's never dramatic. She knows that I have feelings for her and she teases me with that, I react to that with flirty comments witch she gratefully accepts.
So this messes with my head, she said she doesn't like me but purposely keeps flirting with me. Now this example wasn't to great, but a little while back at a party we both ended up in the toilet, turned off the lights and locked the door. To be honest I can't even remember why we went in there but I do know that I sat down on the toilet seat lid thing and she sat on my lap. I held her pretty close to me and she stroked my hair. At this point it was obvious to me that she is definitely in to me.
However, when I talk to her on Whatsapp it looks like she doesn't want to hang out and she's always "Busy". We do hang out sometimes but it always has to come from my side, when we hang out tough... everything is fine she is super nice to me, still makes flirty comments and I return them. We still have the same situations at party's but however she NEVER asks me to hang out, I always have to do it. I just don't understand it at all... Sometimes I just feel that she is annoyed that I talk to her on Whatsapp again and keep asking her to hang out, it feels so desperate and I know that's not attractive so I don't want to be begging but the truth is that over the past months I've grown so many feelings for her that I bassicly dream about her everynight, wake up thinking about her and the only thing I look forward to is hanging out with HER!
I can't live like this but I'm afraid that if I talk to her about it, all of this might be over... While I could just try to make a move at one of the parties and see what happens (Altough I'm to much of a pussy to do that :') )
Anyway sorry for the long/ weird post... I just needed to share my story and I would really like to hear what you guys think is going on and what is the best thing to do!
- JD
So I had this crush on a girl, it was not to serious but I had the feeling that she liked me too, so I hung out with her a lot. Now, time has passed real quickly and I just realized that I've already been hanging out with her for like half a year. Now 1 month ago I asked someone to ask her best friend if she likes me back the way I like her, she told me that she tought she could like me at first but she doesn't anymore.
Sadly for me I've grown some real feelings for her and I could not just move on, so I kept hanging out with her. Now the vague part for me is that she keeps flirting with me. When we are at parties together, we always end up with just the two of us talking about some pretty personal stuff but in a fun way, it's never dramatic. She knows that I have feelings for her and she teases me with that, I react to that with flirty comments witch she gratefully accepts.
So this messes with my head, she said she doesn't like me but purposely keeps flirting with me. Now this example wasn't to great, but a little while back at a party we both ended up in the toilet, turned off the lights and locked the door. To be honest I can't even remember why we went in there but I do know that I sat down on the toilet seat lid thing and she sat on my lap. I held her pretty close to me and she stroked my hair. At this point it was obvious to me that she is definitely in to me.
However, when I talk to her on Whatsapp it looks like she doesn't want to hang out and she's always "Busy". We do hang out sometimes but it always has to come from my side, when we hang out tough... everything is fine she is super nice to me, still makes flirty comments and I return them. We still have the same situations at party's but however she NEVER asks me to hang out, I always have to do it. I just don't understand it at all... Sometimes I just feel that she is annoyed that I talk to her on Whatsapp again and keep asking her to hang out, it feels so desperate and I know that's not attractive so I don't want to be begging but the truth is that over the past months I've grown so many feelings for her that I bassicly dream about her everynight, wake up thinking about her and the only thing I look forward to is hanging out with HER!
I can't live like this but I'm afraid that if I talk to her about it, all of this might be over... While I could just try to make a move at one of the parties and see what happens (Altough I'm to much of a pussy to do that :') )
Anyway sorry for the long/ weird post... I just needed to share my story and I would really like to hear what you guys think is going on and what is the best thing to do!
- JD