Best friends sister

[Lonely teen]

Ok so I've been thinking to myself that for a while I think I like my best's friend sister how do I like work with this should I pursue or forget thx guys

[Meganium]

I don't see any reason why you can't pursue. Unless your friend isn't comfortable with you around their sister. Only way to find out is to ask

[Lonely teen]

That's the point I don't know if he'll be ok with that

[Meganium]

Ask. Or just causally explain that you like his sister and ask if he's ok with that. Don't ask if he's ok with you asking her out or anything, just that you like her. Then go from there.

[Lonely teen]

Ok I see thx

[Cygnus]

If he is a true friend he would understand, however he would still be protective towards her and you could risk your friendship at some point. However you could just tell him and listen to his opinion.

[kylem1229]

Go for it. Talk to hIm about it too...he might be able to give you some tips about her. Just don't let it ruin both of your friendships

[Lonely teen]

Yah him and I get along pretty well we just disagree on politics lol I just don't want to ruin the friendship it there mom is a bit on the nut side do you think it would be best to do it one on one where my other friends are not in the call

[MikeSpace]

Definitely talk to your best friend first, you don't wait it turning into an awkward situation.. Find out what he thinks about it and go from there!

[Nick24]

Is it just me or did this remind any one else of the show friends?

[Camazotz]

Definitely talk to your best friend first, you don't wait it turning into an awkward situation.. Find out what he thinks about it and go from there!

I definitely agree with Mike. If you really care about your friend, he deserves to at least to get a heads-up. It'd be real strange for you to just start going out with his sister without some sort of notice. He probably won't mind if you're not doing inappropriate things, but just be respectful and cooperative (if he tells you that he's not comfortable with it, back off).

Is it just me or did this remind any one else of the show friends?

Yes.

[janman1]

Well if you really serious about her with good intentions and see her as a potential life partner, then talk to him and her. Let him know you really serious and would like to be with his sis, so you wanted to give him a heads up. It happens all the time and if you truthful then I think he should be ok. But be mindful cuz he will be watching you.

[ashdyn]

I've actually been in this exact situation before. I just brought it up casually. I was like "Bro...would it be completely weird if I dated Alyssa?" And at first he was all like wtf ewww. Then he kinda realized that I was serious and we talked it out. I just told him that idk how serious it was but that I kinda had a crush on her and I just wanted to make sure everything was cool with him first. He ended up being okay with it and in the end nothing serious really developed

[gabzas331]

Well I'd tell your best friend, but ONLY once you actually start getting together. No point risking anything if there isn't anything making it worth the risk.

[Paladino]

Well, this is a really interesting thread for me as the girl I am going with is my best mates sister. Before we started going out I had liked her since I first met her like 4 years ago, I had other girlfriends but deep down always had feelings for her, anyway enough of my shit. My mate didn't like it to start with I don't think but he said to me "Theres nothing I can do about it so just go for it if you want to" and we've been going out for about 5 months, if hes a true friend he will understand and you will be able to keep your friendship as me and this guy have been good mates for years and we still are good mates so I'm sure it will be the same for you!

[FroMan641]

Look Man O had the same situation myself... and mostly likely your friend will not care, due to the fact that he is your best friend...and even if he isn't okay with it don't let that stop you. He should have the power to forgive you. But definitely go for it man you wont regret it. The only thing you will regret is Not going for it. I could tell you my story which actually is pretty crazy now that i think about it... But learn from my mistakes...If you do end up being in a relationship, don't hide it tell your friend. That wasn't my mistake however, we were all on vaca and um he kinda woke up (He was sleeping next to us..)Well we where making out...yeah where cool now, and he didnt care, but man did i feel like a dick... Peace

[Lonely teen]

Look Man O had the same situation myself... and mostly likely your friend will not care, due to the fact that he is your best friend...and even if he isn't okay with it don't let that stop you. He should have the power to forgive you. But definitely go for it man you wont regret it. The only thing you will regret is Not going for it. I could tell you my story which actually is pretty crazy now that i think about it... But learn from my mistakes...If you do end up being in a relationship, don't hide it tell your friend. That wasn't my mistake however, we were all on vaca and um he kinda woke up (He was sleeping next to us..)Well we where making out...yeah where cool now, and he didnt care, but man did i feel like a dick... Peace
Cool thanks I still like her but I don't think its the right time for this yet... I need to lose some more weight or find a nudist to date lol