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clueless_one
August 14th, 2013, 06:18 AM
SIGNS TO ME SHE LIKES ME

I had asked out a girl who said yes but lied about wanting to go out with me. The girl I like now was surprised that I asked out a girl saying that I have a girlfriend but now, she doesn't know that the girl I asked out lied. On the same day a boy told me that the girl I asked out was lying about wanting to go out with me. This girl (who I like now) said "Talk to her and find out if she has mutual feeling for you and if she actually wants to go out with you. Just to make sure. She is a nice girl, I don't think she will be lying." saying it with a sad face and tone. On the same day, she said she wondered why guys don't ask her out. (She said this when I was close to her but not directly to me).

The day or two after finding out I asked out a girl, she was talking about our essay project to me and another girl. She read one of the paragraphs and she looked at the girl 3-4 times and to me 7-8 times when reading it. I told her that I thought it was a good paragraph and she was smiling a bit.

Before she found out I asked out a girl she showed signs that to me told me she likes me...

When talking to me about my schoolwork, she touched/tapped my arm and later my back (this has never happened with other girls). Also her hand was close to mine and she didn't move her hand away and when passing pencils and pens to each other, she always made a way for me to touch her hand or her to touch my hand.

She talks to me and asks questions about my life (If I have brother or sisters) and random questions (If I can do cross eyes, How many children I want when older, about the sport we both like)

She looks at me a lot. She also leans backwards towards me when sitting in class (she sits in front of me).

We were talking in a group and I did something and she said we have to have dinner before we go there and was laughing/smiling

she yelled my name out in a public place (school excursion) when she was with her girl friends and also in class (when in class she yelled my name out a lot throughout the lesson). It was also someones birthday on that same day as the excursion and her friend offered me some cake and she said that she made it.

She also enjoys the sport I like and the girl I asked out doesn’t really talk about the sport. (Seems to have things in common to me)

One of her good girl friends stare/look at me in one of the classes I'm in with her. When I walked passed her group, one of her girl friends looked at me as I walked passed.

I have been having exams and every time I see her after the exam she looks/stares at me. Every time I catch her staring she looks away. This also happened with her friends. One of her friends looked at me including the girl I like, caught them and they looked away and started talking to each other. Then all her friends looked at me, I caught them and they all looked away and carried on talking again.

When in class one time, I sat next to this girl and randomly she asked how many kids I would like to have when older. I said how many my partner wants to have but below a certain amount. Without me asking her she just randomly said she wanted a certain amount of children. She was sitting next to one of her girl friends in the class and she didn't really notice anything happen and the question wasn't directed to her.

If I ask her out will she say yes or no?

indoxyl
August 14th, 2013, 12:25 PM
Holy crap can someone seriously ban this kid for a week or something? Like I'm sure you're a cool guy and whatever but you're coming off as desperate and youre constantly flooding the forums with the same threads over and over and it's ridiculous. People have given you some great advice with the last fifty threads you made but you absolutely REFUSE to take anyone's advice and continue to make threads

I'm not trying to be a mod or anything I'm just trying to make this kid realize that he's clogging up the four with his constant threads of the same stuff

teen.jpg
August 14th, 2013, 12:33 PM
Holy crap can someone seriously ban this kid for a week or something? Like I'm sure you're a cool guy and whatever but you're coming off as desperate and youre constantly flooding the forums with the same threads over and over and it's ridiculous. People have given you some great advice with the last fifty threads you made but you absolutely REFUSE to take anyone's advice and continue to make threads

I'm not trying to be a mod or anything I'm just trying to make this kid realize that he's clogging up the four with his constant threads of the same stuff

Yeah, I agree with you, but you're coming off obnoxious by saying it that way.

Dude, we've given you the same advice 20 times already. Just ask her the fuck out already.

Geez, you've been at this for weeks ....

Tze-
August 14th, 2013, 12:39 PM
Yes. She's madly in love with you and do anything to get with you. It's amazing she hasn't asked YOU out yet.

There. Is that what you wanted to hear? Stop making threads.

teen.jpg
August 14th, 2013, 01:11 PM
Yes. She's madly in love with you and do anything to get with you. It's amazing she hasn't asked YOU out yet.

There. Is that what you wanted to hear? Stop making threads.

:lol: That was funny ...

unnamed94
August 15th, 2013, 12:33 AM
are you finally going to ask her out?!?!?!?!?! i thought this day would never come. just go up to her and ask her, anything you can read here about her possible answer doesnt mean shit. good luck and i hope i can come here tomorrow and see that you finally did it.

clueless_one
August 15th, 2013, 01:40 AM
are you finally going to ask her out?!?!?!?!?! i thought this day would never come. just go up to her and ask her, anything you can read here about her possible answer doesnt mean shit. good luck and i hope i can come here tomorrow and see that you finally did it.

I'm not sure if I should ask her out now. I come on these fucking forums for advice. If any of you have had enough of me message some mods tell them to fucking delete my account and threads. Go ahead. With what you are saying i'm not going to ask out this girl at all. I HAVE FUCKING GIVEN UP. Thats right. You all have taken me to jump over the cliff. I'm not asking her out. All I ask from these forums is advice on the questions. If you feel its annoying you. Simple on what to do. EGNORE THE FORUM. DONE. I may post on it to gain attention for some answers from the nice people. But other wise fuck it.

From all of this i've come to the conclusion that using these fucking forums won't help me and that you will just take the piss from every thing I post for help and make my life even harder.

I'VE HAD IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

Croconaw
August 15th, 2013, 03:04 AM
You got the same advice like 300 times. Calm down

WeAreOneRepublic
August 15th, 2013, 03:16 AM
Hey man, why can't you honestly bump 1 thread and not create a new one every 2 days because the last one got 7 posts with advice and is not at the bottom of the page? Hey that's a great idea. You need to be more accepting to advice and take the advice already given. What makes you even more immature is that you also go blame us for telling you not to create new threads and you don't have advice because you can't look at posts on your thread or don't even take it. I am sorry if I come off as harsh but seriously dude.

Cygnus
August 15th, 2013, 10:12 AM
I am going to say ask her out and end with it, better do it at once than never do it, its always the same answer so you can stop making these threads.

Matt_97
August 15th, 2013, 10:31 AM
Look if you feel so strongly for this girl and you think she feels the same way, then why not just ask her out!! The worst that could happen is that she says no, but you can just say 'well it was jus a thought' and then laugh it off!! Seriously from what you've said i think she likes you and i think you should just ask her out :D

Croconaw
August 15th, 2013, 11:20 AM
Do you want us to ask her out FOR you or something?! xD

teen.jpg
August 15th, 2013, 11:46 AM
Dude calm down. Just ask her out already. It's not that serious.

unnamed94
August 15th, 2013, 12:04 PM
I'm not sure if I should ask her out now. I come on these fucking forums for advice. If any of you have had enough of me message some mods tell them to fucking delete my account and threads. Go ahead. With what you are saying i'm not going to ask out this girl at all. I HAVE FUCKING GIVEN UP. Thats right. You all have taken me to jump over the cliff. I'm not asking her out. All I ask from these forums is advice on the questions. If you feel its annoying you. Simple on what to do. EGNORE THE FORUM. DONE. I may post on it to gain attention for some answers from the nice people. But other wise fuck it.

From all of this i've come to the conclusion that using these fucking forums won't help me and that you will just take the piss from every thing I post for help and make my life even harder.

I'VE HAD IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

just ask her out. there's no way you could get a better advice here because no one knows what she may say

Camazotz
August 15th, 2013, 01:49 PM
From all your threads that I've read, it sounds like she has some interest in you, but you're too shy to do anything about it. Don't ask her out, she sounds like she deserves a more decisive, less awkward boyfriend.

plebble
August 17th, 2013, 01:30 PM
I read this like 2 hours ago and forgot almost all of it since then and I can't be bothered to read it again.

My advice:
If a girl likes you but you don't like her back, give her a chance, but warn her and say it's just casual. You might actually get to like her.
If a girl doesn't like you but you like her, you can ask her out, but expect to be disappointed.
If a girl likes you and you like her back, obviously ask her out.
If neither of you like each other, don't even bother.

MoonMan
August 17th, 2013, 03:02 PM
I'm not sure if I should ask her out now. I come on these fucking forums for advice. If any of you have had enough of me message some mods tell them to fucking delete my account and threads. Go ahead. With what you are saying i'm not going to ask out this girl at all. I HAVE FUCKING GIVEN UP. Thats right. You all have taken me to jump over the cliff. I'm not asking her out. All I ask from these forums is advice on the questions. If you feel its annoying you. Simple on what to do. EGNORE THE FORUM. DONE. I may post on it to gain attention for some answers from the nice people. But other wise fuck it.

From all of this i've come to the conclusion that using these fucking forums won't help me and that you will just take the piss from every thing I post for help and make my life even harder.

I'VE HAD IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:
You go ahead and do that. It's obvious you're trying to make people feel guilty for giving their opinion, because I'm not sure why you would allow random people on the Internet decide your fucking fate. We didn't put you in this situation, you put yourself there with your indecisive manner and your perfectionist aims to be quite honest. It's been said a million times before: just ask her out and see how it goes. If she says no it's not the end of the world, if she says yes, great. Who cares what your chances are, if you like her then go for it. If you're really that scared to ask her out that you have to calculate your fucking chances on the Internet, perhaps you're not ready for dating. Keep treating and analyzing human emotions like it's some sort of math problem to be solved and you'll continue to be disappointed. There's your advice, but I doubt it's what you want to hear (i.e. an immediate solution to all your problems) so carry on sulking and blaming people for your problems.