Am I silly?

[LouBerry]

I don't know if anyone besides Stephen reads my blog, or if anyone has seen the word fiancé in some of my posts, but I'm engaged!

Seth is going to college and he wanted me to know that just because he was going to be away from me, he was still fully committed to me.

Thing is, I'm seventeen, and a Senior in high school. So, we're hiding the engagement from our parents until June.

My question is, am I being silly? Am I too young to be planning all this?

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Congrats! And I don't know whether you're too young or not, if you're really in love then you can never be too young.

[Meganium]

I'd suggest a LOT more consideration. Piled on top of more consideration. Piled on top of more consideration. Topped off with some consideration.

This isn't unheard of, and in many cases, it does work out very well, even those situations that are completely negative.

So long as you feel that you can move on with your life in a much more fulfilling way, and that this isn't something that you're going to regret, then I don't think it's silly at all. Congratulations.

I would advise against telling your parents right now. It is quite sudden and really you're not of age yet. So their initial reaction could very well be to put a stop to this while they still can. Unless they approve of your boyfriend very thoroughly.

[unnamed94]

i think you are too young. he doesnt need to do that to make you see he will still be there for you. if he's going to college im assuming hes a little older than you, which still seems pretty young. you are both too young to be planning that, just keep on going like you have until now and see how things are in a couple of years. it's a big commitment. that doesnt mean it couldnt work out but as branden said you should think this all again, you still have a lot ahead of you. if you decide you want to go through with it, then good luck and hope everything works out. congrats

[LouBerry]

Congrats! And I don't know whether you're too young or not, if you're really in love then you can never be too young.

Thanks Jayson!(: I'm so incredibly happy.


I'd suggest a LOT more consideration. Piled on top of more consideration. Piled on top of more consideration. Topped off with some consideration.

This isn't unheard of, and in many cases, it does work out very well, even those situations that are completely negative.

So long as you feel that you can move on with your life in a much more fulfilling way, and that this isn't something that you're going to regret, then I don't think it's silly at all. Congratulations.

I would advise against telling your parents right now. It is quite sudden and really you're not of age yet. So their initial reaction could very well be to put a stop to this while they still can. Unless they approve of your boyfriend very thoroughly.

Yeah, it's not something we're going to rush into. If we still feel the same way in June, we're telling our parents and setting a date, but the actually marriage wouldn't be for, Jeez, around two years from now.

i think you are too young. he doesnt need to do that to make you see he will still be there for you. if he's going to college im assuming hes a little older than you, which still seems pretty young. you are both too young to be planning that, just keep on going like you have until now and see how things are in a couple of years. it's a big commitment. that doesnt mean it couldnt work out but as branden said you should think this all again, you still have a lot ahead of you. if you decide you want to go through with it, then good luck and hope everything works out. congrats

Well, like I said above, we aren't going to jump into anything quite yet, we're giving it till June.