first time for both of us and we need some help please :)

[seanio118]

me and my girlfriend are in a serious relationship. ive never met anyone like her before, shes the meaning of perfect, and weve been speaking about going the step further. like fingering and seeing and tossing me off. but its the first time for both of us and
A) I dunno what I should do to please her ( a little help please)
B) she's scared of seeing my dick but she wants too. and whatshould I do to help her?)

all help is greatly received. thanks

[Zsofia]

Just relax. Apart from some "usual" staff, every girl is a different instrument. Make sure you have the privacy, sit down, and experiment. Be gentle and soft, watch the reactions. And make sure you talk freely about the feelings, if something doesn't feel good, just say and try differently. The first time foreplay is very important, and afterplay is even more important.

[Swagging god]

communication is key, go slow and your bodies will let you know the rest as time goes by you will learn all the ins and outs of fingering, my advice if she's scared to see it try having her feel it without looking at it until she gets more comfortable. Good luck!

[Lost in the Echo]

Asking for any kind of sex/masturbation tips or techniques is prohibited. Please read the Puberty 101 posting guidelines. (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/announcement.php?f=129&a=241)

But i'll add this: It honestly doesn't sound like either of you are ready to take the relationship to the next level. But, if you decide to, don't worry about whether or not you're able to please her, if she truly loves you, she won't make a big deal about it. She's probably equally as nervous as you are.
But like I said, it doesn't sound like you two are ready. But that's nothing to be ashamed of, the time will come eventually when you are ready. Just have patience, don't rush into anything.
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