Do your folks know?

[Ihaveagun]

Sorry if this has been brought up before, tried to search, but didn't find anything.

So, my question for you boys and girls out there:

Do your folks know that you masturbate? And if so, how do they cope with it?

My folks know, and they're fortunately cool with it.

Your turn. :cool:

[KellyNC]

Mom does from walking in on me but she's cool with it and assured me it was normal and nothing to be ashamed of. Dad doesn't but it's not really the sort of thing he would bring up to me anyway, and I couldn't imagine his reaction would be any different than my mom's if he walked in.

[teen.jpg]

No, no they don't.

[Jennythethird]

Nope, well at least I dont think they do

[kiwiboy]

most parents will know you do masturbate but they shouldn't mind as its a normal thing to do and they would have done it at our ages

[Rainbowfairy]

Both mum n dad know both walked in on me and just told me to lock my door in future no more ever said, it's normal at our age

[tovaris]

Do your folks know that you masturbate? Afcors.
And if so, how do they cope with it? theyr cool with it why shouldnt they be.

[bubble .]

Heck no

[arthur1]

I have a feeling that they do but we've never mentioned it. My sister and I talk about it from time to time, but that's it - I'm not that open really.

[JamesSuperBoy]

Sorry if this has been brought up before, tried to search, but didn't find anything.

So, my question for you boys and girls out there:

Do your folks know that you masturbate? And if so, how do they cope with it?

My folks know, and they're fortunately cool with it.

Your turn. :cool:

good your folks are cool

mine are to - no prblemo

[Kriz]

My folks... well.
My Dad once asked me if I did and I lied and said no. Then my mom said that if I didn't I would be highly unusual.
So in a sense, yes.
But I never get caught.

[Awesomeguy7777]

I have a feeling that they both know. But luckily they have never really said anything about it. Although sometimes they make jokes about it. Which can be a little uncomfortable

[MikeSpace]

Well, I have never told them but they were young once so I figure they know already.. Would I want to get caught doing it tho? Nope! :P

[Special K]

My dad knows mom doesn't.

[PinkFloyd]

My family isn't really open about stuff like this, but they know their shit. I mean statistics are probably enough for them to know that I do.

[riverboy]

My folks have never seen me masturbate or talk about it. But statistics are probably enough for them to know that I do. Thanks Purple Floyd

[Luminous]

Well I guess they might assume, if they have though about it. I've never told them!!

[fast8]

Yea I'm sure all parents know they may not say anything to u but they know

[jeremy96]

I know about my dad that he does it. I found porn on his history.

[SammyG17]

My parents taught me, so I assume they know I do lol

[Luminous]

Oh btw they may have heard me.
My parents taught me, so I assume they know I do lol

They.. taught you? Like told you about it and that it's healthy and stuff like that?

[anonteen]

mine dont, i dont think :p

[ClaireMarie]

My parent know since a long time ever ;)
They caught me very often and there is no problem with that. If it's Mom, sometimes I don't stop and continue :cool:

[jason111]

My parents taught me, so I assume they know I do lol

no offense but just curious to know what u do mean that they taught you?

[Adam1998]

Nope hehe

[JamesSuperBoy]

Mine do - we all got a puberty vid which showed

all cool with us

[Kelsey1031]

my dad does know, i've been walked in on, he didn't care he just said oops sorry i'll come back when you're done.

[Zsofia]

Yeah sure they do. Since it's natural, I'm sure every parents know about this. It's harder to imagine that they also do it, but of course since it's natural to them aswell :)

[ksdnfkfr]

............

[honeybear]

yes and they are fine with it...after all they do it too

[Thelizzerd]

Umm....I don't..mastubate...um yeah..

[Ihaveagun]

If it's Mom, sometimes I don't stop and continue :cool:


That.... is awesome. :D

[byee]

Masturbation is a universal activity, it's completely normal, 100% of all people do it. That includes your folks. Or at least before they got married. I know that's a gross thought...

So, even if they never caught you or discussed it with you or otherwise came right out and acknowledged the reality, they still know you do it...and probably enjoy it a lot too.

[Mariebme]

My mom knows I'm sure, she's cool with it and respects my privacy

[Gorechild]

Masturbation is a universal activity, it's completely normal, 100% of all people do it.
Don't go assuming stuff like that, not everyone does masturbate even though most people do.

Now for some OnT, my parents does know. My mother walked in on me doing it once, but I always assumed they knew even before that.
Kind of like I assume my younger brother masturbates.

[byee]

[QUOTE=Gorechild;2490187]Don't go assuming stuff like that, not everyone does masturbate even though most people do..[/QUOTE

Ah, you are forgiven for not knowing that I typically don't go around "Assuming"!:cool:

Every study ever done about human sexuality has concluded that everyone really does masturbate and that it is a universal activity. That is because the urge that causes it is entirely biological, like blinking or being hungry.

[GypsyGirl]

Mom found my electric toothbrush wrapped in a shirt I don't wear at the back of my drawer (why was she looking there?!) and said "what's this doing here" I said "I don't know..." She hasn't said anything else about it and left it there... I assume she knows.

[JessZ]

Nope they don't know, and hopefully never will.

[Gorechild]

[QUOTE=Gorechild;2490187]Don't go assuming stuff like that, not everyone does masturbate even though most people do..[/QUOTE

Ah, you are forgiven for not knowing that I typically don't go around "Assuming"!:cool:

Every study ever done about human sexuality has concluded that everyone really does masturbate and that it is a universal activity. That is because the urge that causes it is entirely biological, like blinking or being hungry.


So for starters, some spewing booshit:
I'm just going to say that you're wrong. Flat out wrong. Why?
Ever heard of penile agenesis and testicular agenesis for example? If you're born with penile agenesis and testicular agenesis you're not going to masturbate.

And a tad
And now for what I was acually thinking of earlier, I know some people (two-ish? Masturbation is not what I usually talk about with my friends.) who simply does not masturbate for various reasons. Of course, they used to at some point in their life, but they haven't for a 'while'.
They do still have sex with their significant other though.

[beatlemania]

Probably, though I like to think they dont

[karl]

I don't think parents have to 'know' to know. They were teenagers once. Maybe they just don't think about it as we do.

[byee]

[QUOTE=IAMSAM;2490806]


So for starters, some spewing booshit:
I'm just going to say that you're wrong. Flat out wrong. Why?
Ever heard of penile agenesis and testicular agenesis for example? If you're born with penile agenesis and testicular agenesis you're not going to masturbate.

And a tad
And now for what I was acually thinking of earlier, I know some people (two-ish? Masturbation is not what I usually talk about with my friends.) who simply does not masturbate for various reasons. Of course, they used to at some point in their life, but they haven't for a 'while'.
They do still have sex with their significant other though.

I do not mean to challenge you, so please back down. I am merely stating accepted fact. Everyone masturbates, even if they stop. Your point about people with health issues is well taken, though...even though it's both obvious and besides the point .

Sexuality (which is what causes the urge to masturbate) is a biological drive, we all have it, it's very powerful, and it's normal. My point is that even though the urgency is new to puberty, both it and the need to gratify it thru masturbation is normal. As normal, actually, as sweating (or any other physiological response to internal stress).

[Gorechild]

[QUOTE=Gorechild;2491347]
Sexuality (which is what causes the urge to masturbate) is a biological drive, we all have it, it's very powerful, and it's normal. My point is that even though the urgency is new to puberty, both it and the need to gratify it thru masturbation is normal. As normal, actually, as sweating (or any other physiological response to internal stress).

Eating meat is normal, but not everyone does that.
Surely you can't think that everyone, there being roughly 7,1 billion people on planet earth (excluding everyone that's too young, or for other physical reasons can't masturbate, of course), masturbates?
You're starting to sound an awful lot like a friend of mine who thinks that all guys taste their own cum because five out of five of her ex boyfriends did.

[schoolgirlz]

My mom is cool with it.

[Alyssa9]

I don't think my mom knows, and at times one of her friends will bring it up and she thinks its gross so I don't think she'd like it but hey its a natural thing and sometimes I talk about it with my friends.

[Azalez070]

Now, they don't ... i guess they assume i do, but i havent tell them---

[Mutah]

My parents might assume it but I doubt they would think of it in the first place. If they knew they wouldn't be so open about it and would want me to stop. My sister knows I do it since we've talked about porn and masturbation before.

[countryboi9]

yes my dad and my brothers know I jack off, they taught me how to do it

[Strelok]

My parents do not know. They still think I'm a good little boy who'd never do anything sexual etc.

[merlin1]

I've never told them. Whether they've heard me idk

[Laquifa]

I've never told them. Whether they've heard me idk

Story of my life.

[drmindfreak]

no and i dont think he would care at all whether i do or not. why would they

[joshylandon]

I haven't been caught by my parents but I guess they know I wank lol

[martogogo]

I hope no :)

[BrentF]

Never been caught but I'm pretty sure they don't know. At least I hope they don't

[ashdyn]

I'm pretty sure they know. I never asked them their opinion about it though lol

Basically it's understood that as long as it's not brought up...don't bring it up!

[Miri]

I've never been caught doing it, and my parents and I don't talk about it. I mean my family jokes about it and stuff, and there's lots of talk because I have a lot of brother, but they never really say anything in front of my parents, nor do I.

They probably know that we all do though, I mean they were teens once too, but they've never mentioned it, and frankly I prefer it that way.

[Collins1]

I think mine do know, but they don't say anything about it.

[jcs5943]

i'd imagine they know, we don't talk about it though

[stoneflowe96]

Well my parents caught me so they. know. Well and even if they never caughted me, I think they would. assume I do it or know it.

[tarheelboy8888]

My parents don't know that I masturbate, and I am so glad that they don't!

[irogers707]

My parents don't want to know. It's like sex. Hey know I have sex but they don't wanna hear about it.

[Wyatt 13]

I dunno never talked with my Dad about it

[enriqueroxx]

hope not!!!!

[The Clown Prince]

I'm pretty sure my mom knows but she hasn't confronted me on it or anything.

[luq_]

I don't know. Maybe. They've never caught me, and we didn't have one of those awkward conversations.

[Tylor lakon]

My dad walked in on me and told me it's perfectly normal.

[kitten13]

yes they do. they all know.

kim

[ksdnfkfr]

I have no doubt that my parents masturbated
when they were teens the same as all other teens.
And I am sure my parents know that all teens
masturbate which would include me.
And I am sure if I become a dad I will know my
teenagers masturbate the same as I know all do.

[sqishy]

I implied it, along with loads of once-secret facts about me, in a book. So they know, but I guess they already guessed so years ago.

Practically all teens have masturbated at least once, so parents should know because they were once teens too.

[Lodan]

I've never told them, and I've never been caught.. so they don't know in that sense.

[EneasR]

Dont think they know

[Waleedbt]

My mum caught me once, she started yelling at me and cried.
Well... Its a taboo to do it where i'm from, so since that time ive been scared to do it.
Plus, i did it when i just turned 16 :p

[hockeyfan]

I'm 14. My dad says its fine and he did it at 10 or 11.

[CoolCaliGuy]

mine do and theyre chill.
not like they have caught me, but theyre not dumb and they remember when they were kids

[misteryme]

They know nothing, but i do know my brother does, i found him hahah.

[ninja789]

i am pretty sure they do but we dont discuss it

[Sandra Main]

They probably know but we don't talk about it.

[satarra3180]

They probably dont want to know but most likely assume.

[ElijahMouth]

I don't understand what you mean by using the word 'cope,' it shouldn't be something that is overly shocking to your parents.

I haven't ever talked to my parents, but I'm pretty sure they assume I masturbate.

[Trace]

My mum's only made the mistake of finding my unattended Kindle once, so I'm sure she knows.

[CheekyLinda]

My mom has caught me red-handed (or is it wet-handed? :P ) multiple times, so... yeah, she knows.

As for my dad, idk, but I'm pretty sure he does too

[ugaboy]

Well, not like I told her or anything. But I am sure she knows. Maybe I should like leave her a not on the refrigerator or something!

[anyone50]

My dad knows mom doesn't.
That's kind of interesting that your dad would know but not your mom did he walk in on you or something or just more open with him than your mom

[Pete_Dude]

Yeah they both know, and have both walked in on me doing it before.

[anyone50]

Yeah they both know, and have both walked in on me doing it before.

somehow I get the feeling you don't really care if they walk in on you or not have you no locks on your doors LOL

[Morgans Big Bro]

My parents have never walked in on me but statistics are so high yeah they probably know lol.

[bethgirl1986]

Yeah, my mom knows alright :whoops:

[Kochanek]

Hope they don't.

[CheekyBird]

They don't... but they probably think that I do, but they haven't said anything to me ( I don't know how to explain)

[Pete_Dude]

somehow I get the feeling you don't really care if they walk in on you or not have you no locks on your doors LOL

Yeah your right I really don't care, the first few times I did but now I'm like whateva. :yes:

[tim13531]

i hope not

[WintersuN]

Not a chance :P

Although, I don't even do it much anymore to tell you the truth.

[Katelyn6]

I hope not. but I'm sure they would be fine with it, I mean they were our age once.

[milo03]

I'm sure they do, but they haven't caught me yet.

[Alexx99]

Yea they know, because they've both walked in on me before. We haven't really talked about it though.

[mermaidfairy]

They don't know but I can imagine them finding it weird.

[cherylcherylX2]

I'm pretty sure for most families it's a DADT policy on masturbation.

[Cowboycalfroper70]

my parents dont know

[nicole97]

Mom saw me one on accident and didn't make a big deal out of it and perfectly fine with it. Never come up since but she is considerate to my privacy, so it's not like she wants to either. Hasn't ever had to come up with my dad, but I see any reason that he'd react any differently.

[tvsigeys]

Never been caught but I can't imagine they're naive enough not to know

[Seahawks15]

I think my dad knows

[The_Alpha]

Probably, I don't really care and I'm sure they don't either.

[Loca]

Mine do but via me looking at masturbation sites

[Rowlo]

I think so. Never been caught but they caught me watching gay p0rn once haha, that was out of curiosity however!

[Aleks96]

I'm pretty sure my dad knows. He has joked about it so I think he's cool about it.

[Soccer43]

my brothers do and my parents probably do

[AbyssalLight7]

There's a chance they may have herd me but as far as I know, they know nothing

[Stardust]

Probably

[Willweston]

i think my parents assume but im kinda carefull! ;D

[maddogmj77]

I'm not sure if my dad knows but I assume he does. I'm pretty sure he is/would be fine with it.

[Ben101]

No, Atleast I dont think so.

[AlexOnToast]

Yes, my parent knows. What parent doesnt these days?

[Dwemer]

I never realy talked about it with them . But I am sure they know. They probebly dont know how much though :)

[Brenda1997]

My mom knows for sure since she caught me once.
Said it was natural though and she doesn't have a problem with it.

[Philleeep]

They know but don't mind

[HUSTLEMAN]

My parents know.

[Abnormal]

My mom knows but she never comments on it.

[Zachary G]

I am sure that my parents know that I do, but they dont say much of anything, just respect my privacy when my doors are shut

[ImAurora]

I hope not! Haha

[Jay98]

Do your folks know that you masturbate? And if so, how do they cope with it? Yes, its just not a big deal to my family, masturbation isnt something that needs to be hidden. Its a natural and healthy part of life.

[Sean4U]

I think all parents know that their teen -- BOY or GIRL -- masturbates....but knowing doesn't necessarily mean they want to acknowledge it does it? But my parents know that all of us boys (4) do and have talked with each of us about it...no judgement, just fact

[DarkHorse4eva]

i think my mom knows, my bed is a mess from all the cum and she washes is once in a while

[Jeonard]

I have never been caught and they have never found any evidence but I presume they know I do because of my age

[countryboi9]

of course my dad knows that I masturbate, he has seen me often doing it and encourages it

[Ethan]

Yeah, my parents know that I masturbate. They're okay with it.

[awesomeness14]

They don't know as far as I know.

[Body odah Man]

My mom suspects. I am just VERY VERY VERY VERY grateful she doesn't approach me on it-I'd die. I rlly would

[alecbramham]

I know mum has caught me once or twice, but I don't think she minds. She just said to not let my sister catch me.

[Croconaw]

My dad caught me once.

[countryboi9]

my dad taught me about masturbation, so yes he knows

[Karkat]

Ha, no. My mom almost caught me once, and she said if I ever had that "problem" that she wanted to "help" me.

Well see mom, I'm not going to tell you this, but I'm in a sexual relationship with someone I haven't seen for the past month (due to practical house arrest over my unknown illness) and I don't get to get under the sheets with him much as it is, so I really need something to help my hormonal wreck of a person to get to the next time each time without brutally murdering someone.

You could help me by letting me move in with him >:3

[Kurgg]

I've never have caught on masturbating, but I'm pretty sure they know. I mean, everyone does it.

[hotgirlwtits]

I don't think they know, I know my siblings know but I am the middle child and they are each a year apart from me.

[backjruton]

A lot of people know.

I'm not bothered by it

[RRP13]

my parents help me!: lube, vibrators, playboys

[countryboi9]

yes, my dad and brothers know I masturbate, they taught me how to do it, they r super cool with it

[Pulp501]

Once my stepdad walked in, and I covered up and tried to act normal, I'm not sure if he knew what I was doing. As for my actual parents, neither has ever caught me, and I'm not sure if they think I do. They probably figure I do, but we don't talk about that stuff. My sister knows I do it.

[Lisa R]

I don't think they know but my twin brother does know.
He has never caught me but we talk and share a lot of information.

[Tyler97]

my parents know and told me it's normal and it should be done in private and by yourself.

[everlong]

Only one of my close friends know

[Rascaldog24]

Yes, they don't care they know not to come home early and if they do don't go into my room.

[Verloren101]

I'm not sure. I really don't like thinking about it though. xD

[MakksKidd832]

I think most parents assume their kids do it.

[mrpieface2]

I don't think so and i really hope they don't find out anytime soon

[Danagal]

My mom knows I have talked to her about it and other things she's alright with it.

[mrpieface2]

My parents would kill me if they found out I think.

[Curious.kid]

Yes because they caught me and they cope by telling me I cannot masturbate at all.

[ksdnfkfr]

Do not get parents who act like is a crime or something.
Right around the time I started puberty, my dad came into my room and put a box of kleenex on the nightstand. Was like huh? and he says "you'll thank me later" and walked out. Asked my friend who asked his older brother who laughed really loud and explained my dad knew/guess had started masturbating.

[mattdude_12345]

I keep it quiet, so no they don't know.

[tom17]

I haven't tell them but I can tell they might suppose it. It's a normal thing.

[LifeOfLove]

Mine don't know for sure that I masturbate, but they know I've had sex so I'm pretty sure they think/believe I do.

[emily-candace]

My mom has caught me like 6 or 7 times and just peaks in the door and smiles and says shhhhhhhh. hold it down, I can hear you in the kitchen and closes the door. Hahaha.

[cutie123]

well my mom knows, because she has walked in on me doing it! She was very cool about it and said that its normal and everyone does it

My dad I dont think knows but I'm sure he suspects it!

[Bmble_B]

Ive never been caught by my mom, but I'm 100 percent sure she knows I do. Like come on, parents were all teens once as well :D

[backgammon]

mym mom has caught me

[vickilynn]

Masturbation is not a big deal in my home. My family is clothes less all the time. At first, when I started I wanted to be alone, but my older sister would do it anywhere at home. She would do it as we watched tv, as long as she doesn't a scene. I know most people think that this should be done in private, but we all comfortable around each other and know that everyone does it. When my mom walked in my room and saw me for he first time, I'd jumped up and she said I shouldn't be scared of doing that. And I should not stop. She went back downstairs. We don't close/lock doors in our house.

[Snydergate]

I have never been caught nor told my parents. But I think they are smart enough to know that I do and don't care, and it has never been brought up, I mean, if I was a father to a teenage son, I wouldn't have to ask or walk in on him to find out. I would figure he did it anyway

[Hazard9997]

My dad tell me he remembers what it's like being a teenagers, so I guess he does ahah.

[NeuroTiger]

Probably...;)

[Body odah Man]

They suspect but I hope to GOD they don't know. I'd be mortified

[Seth Green]

They might, but I do my best to hide it.

[Emmaxxoo]

i have no ideaa id assume so

[HSJock206]

yeah my dad knows and has caught me a few times and isnt bothered by it. He jokes about it sometimes. I share a room with a brother so of course he knows.

[rprsupercar]

Yeah, they do. They were cool with it.

[jampandrada]

I think they do, I don't know that they care, but I'm pretty sure they know

[plebble]

It's never been mentioned in conversation and I'm very careful, so I doubt it

[Hey-Im-Connor]

i think they probly know. we dont talk about it tho

[Rocket Raccoon]

I have a masturbation station in my room.

[Suave]

Pretty sure most parents know whats up. They just don't talk about it unless they catch you in the act. My mom knows I do because when I was in school she went to vacuum my floor she threw away my lube.

[Ethe14]

Pretty sure they don't know, but they haven't caught me so that's nice.

[Snowfall]

I hope my mom doesn't know. That'd be awkward. She might know though.

[Hermes96]

yes i they do but they don't care as they say that every one does it

[Awesomeguy13]

Pretty sure mine do, but they have told me they don't mind as it's a normal part of life and that people shouldn't be ashamed to do it. So I'm cool with it. (:

[Azanama]

Back when I was around 7 I found a porn site and didn't know what to think about it. My mom saw me looking at it and ever since I was eight I realized what it was and how the average person responded to it. I became so careful you could almost call it paranoid because I didn't want to reach an awkward situation like that with either of my parents ever again. They knew back then that I was somewhat an abnormal child but now its pretty much normal for kids my age. As a teenager its something that I might do three times a week or less and hopefully they have both forgotten that incident from eight years ago. I will never forget any detail of that moment because I was shunned for a good week afterwards and it influenced how I've turned out almost completely. My parents ade both Christians though and I'm atheist so they are generally against anything I say or do. You probably created this topic because you got caught or someone walked in on you during your time of privacy: don't feel bad about it, even some animals other than humans masturbate so you can't call it abnormal or gross. It's more of just a calling of nature and without this calling none of us humans would be alive, along with other organisms that are sexual.

[Hardcatch]

I just live with dad and brother and masturbation is fairly common. We don't comment on it to often but it does come up. Dad is very cool about it since he does it also.

[ChaseDakoda]

My parents know that my twin bro and I masturbate, 3 older brothers and a older sis

[douglaseverett1998]

I have no idea if they know. If they do, they haven't mentioned it.

[Cats123]

My sister suspected me "masturbating" twice, when I wasn't actually masturbating, so my parents probably suspect I masturbate, but they've no proof because they have never actually caught me.

[vickilynn]

My parents know. My mom and sister help teach me. We never close our bedroom doors and none of us wear clothes. So if I am somewhere in or out the house and I do it, they don't care, they allow my time to finish before talking to me.

[Tendencies]

They haven't said anything but i'm pretty sure they know.

[PandorasClock]

We have an open household so if you feel like masturbating while youre in the living room or family members are around it's fine. We don't treat it as a closed door thing.

[Izofthebeholder]

What's the saying 95% of people masturbate and 5% lie about it. Ya mypRents probably know but it's never been brought up

[CrazyPerson101]

I don't masturbate so I don't have to worry about anyone knowing.

[Daniella98]

They know and theyve made me feel comfortable with it, so I dont have to feel awkward or guilty

[mrmee]

My mom has seen cum stains on my bed, I that's kinda a dead give away. She just told me I need to wash my sheets. Other that's that, my stepdad looked through my Internet history after my bro used my laptop and foun porn, but I told him it was my bros. Not sure he believed me though.

[swimmerguy72]

They probably know. But they don't say anything about it