Piachu
August 13th, 2013, 10:33 AM
Hey, so I have a problem.
Some background info:
I'm Pia, a 15yo introvert with depression and social anxiety. I'm currently in an online relationship with Ant, who's 16 and pretty much the same as me. While I live in Norway, he lives on the other side of the planet in Australia. We've been together a while now and we love eachother a lot.
Last week (august 5th - august 9th) I went to a confirmation preparation camp. I met a lot of amazing people, and they were so understanding and non-judgmental. I wasn't even anxious and they were so easy to talk to. They liked me for me, and it was really awesome.
These people also include a special guy. His name is Martin, and he is about the first guy I've met IRL that has liked me like this, and I like him back! He makes me feel special and perfect, and I love that so much. He lives close, he's the sweetest person, has the best sense of humour and - honestly - he's really attractive! So I fell in love with this guy here and this is what happened when I told my boyfriend.
At first he got mad and jealous and told me to forget about my "stupid camp crush", to which I replied I couldn't, as he made me feel happy. I really like Martin, and he likes me back. He lives close enough for us to be in an actual relationship, and not just a long distance one. My boyfriend begged me not to leave him, told me he'd cut if I did, and then gave me an ultimatum. I'm clueless about what to do. I don't want Ant to be miserable becasue of me but I want an actual relationship, physical things like holding hands and kissing included.
(TL;DR: I have a boyfriend. I fell in love with a guy and I want to be with him, but I don't want to hurt my boyfriend. My boyfriend is begging me to stay. Help)
Can someone help me? quick!
Some background info:
I'm Pia, a 15yo introvert with depression and social anxiety. I'm currently in an online relationship with Ant, who's 16 and pretty much the same as me. While I live in Norway, he lives on the other side of the planet in Australia. We've been together a while now and we love eachother a lot.
Last week (august 5th - august 9th) I went to a confirmation preparation camp. I met a lot of amazing people, and they were so understanding and non-judgmental. I wasn't even anxious and they were so easy to talk to. They liked me for me, and it was really awesome.
These people also include a special guy. His name is Martin, and he is about the first guy I've met IRL that has liked me like this, and I like him back! He makes me feel special and perfect, and I love that so much. He lives close, he's the sweetest person, has the best sense of humour and - honestly - he's really attractive! So I fell in love with this guy here and this is what happened when I told my boyfriend.
At first he got mad and jealous and told me to forget about my "stupid camp crush", to which I replied I couldn't, as he made me feel happy. I really like Martin, and he likes me back. He lives close enough for us to be in an actual relationship, and not just a long distance one. My boyfriend begged me not to leave him, told me he'd cut if I did, and then gave me an ultimatum. I'm clueless about what to do. I don't want Ant to be miserable becasue of me but I want an actual relationship, physical things like holding hands and kissing included.
(TL;DR: I have a boyfriend. I fell in love with a guy and I want to be with him, but I don't want to hurt my boyfriend. My boyfriend is begging me to stay. Help)
Can someone help me? quick!