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ChrisSpain
August 12th, 2013, 05:40 PM
I once met a girl ironically over facebook and we talked for hours on end every day when ever i saw her name my heart beat like mad and i got sweaty palms so after 4 weeks of chatting we met up on christmas eve. She looked so amazing in her red coat and her long blonde hair and il never forget her smile. I fell for this girl, wheather she liked me i dont know. When i talked to her we would be on the phone hours and when we wernt i missed her. Was this love??
And since i got in trouble i lost contact with her and i write this with tears because i miss her so much someone help me here what can i do to move on?

CharlieHorse
August 12th, 2013, 05:42 PM
Why did you lose contact with her?

And yes that sounds like you like her.
Just be careful throwing love around.

ChrisSpain
August 12th, 2013, 05:45 PM
Why did you lose contact with her?

And yes that sounds like you like her.
Just be careful throwing love around.

I lost contact because i was an idiot and hung out
With the wrong crowd and got in trouble with police and when you say be careful could you ellaborate on that?

Meganium
August 12th, 2013, 06:00 PM
I once met a girl ironically over facebook and we talked for hours on end every day when ever i saw her name my heart beat like mad and i got sweaty palms so after 4 weeks of chatting we met up on christmas eve. She looked so amazing in her red coat and her long blonde hair and il never forget her smile. I fell for this girl, wheather she liked me i dont know. When i talked to her we would be on the phone hours and when we wernt i missed her. Was this love??
And since i got in trouble i lost contact with her and i write this with tears because i miss her so much someone help me here what can i do to move on?

It sounds like you like her a fair bit. I'm sure you have some methods of contact with her aside from the ones from which you are restricted. If you could see her once, you can probably see her a bit more. If you really want to go for her, there's really no reason to not do so at the moment unless you really believe that you have lost touch with each other entirely.

Otherwise, if you DO have to go without talking with her for a long while, and you want to pick it back up, just explain why you couldn't contact her and she should understand. Just don't give TOO many details about your predicament. Just enough to show why you were gone.

I lost contact because i was an idiot and hung out
With the wrong crowd and got in trouble with police and when you say be careful could you elaborate on that?

By "be careful", you don't want to throw the word "love" around all willy-nilly. It tends to be a strong word, and when said at the wrong time, can ruin a friendship, relationship, or bring obligations onto you that you aren't prepared for yet.

CharlieHorse
August 12th, 2013, 06:06 PM
I lost contact because i was an idiot and hung out
With the wrong crowd and got in trouble with police and when you say be careful could you ellaborate on that?

So how does that make you lose contact with her?
And that guy ^ explained the love thing.

ChrisSpain
August 13th, 2013, 02:43 AM
Thanks guys and we lost contact because she moved away soo yeah

Meganium
August 13th, 2013, 09:10 AM
Thanks guys and we lost contact because she moved away soo yeah

Oh. Well that's different. Really there's not much to do about that. :(

You'll just have to talk to her over a distance as a friend like before, if you can. In this case, just try to chill for a bit and start seeing other people.

ChrisSpain
August 13th, 2013, 09:13 AM
Oh. Well that's different. Really there's not much to do about that. :(

You'll just have to talk to her over a distance as a friend like before, if you can. In this case, just try to chill for a bit and start seeing other people.

Well i only have three weeks to do it as im moving to spain in three weeks but thank you both for your advice really helpful:)

Meganium
August 13th, 2013, 09:14 AM
Well i only have three weeks to do it as im moving to spain in three weeks but thank you both for your advice really helpful:)

Any time.