my dad

[Hawk1248]

this is really hard for me to say but I have never had a dad because my mom was raped at age 16 and I have been to a rape child. And everytime my mom date a guy he always leaves then I got it connected to that dad figure and it just hurts even more every time. Now my mom is fighting with her fiance and I don't know if he's going to leave too:'( so I geuss what I'm asking is there anyone else who feels how I do? And if so I want to talk to someone who knows what I'm going through:(

[NeuroTiger]

It's very sad what's happening to you. But my friend, keep hope and remember "believe is the key".

[Hawk1248]

Ok:/ ill do my best

[1_21Guns]

I'm not in your situation nor do I know anyone that is, but remember it gets better. I know it's horrible not to have a father figure in your life, or to be missing one parent especially at a younger age but it does get better, I promise :hug3:

[LouBerry]

this is really hard for me to say but I have never had a dad because my mom was raped at age 16 and I have been to a rape child. And everytime my mom date a guy he always leaves then I got it connected to that dad figure and it just hurts even more every time. Now my mom is fighting with her fiance and I don't know if he's going to leave too:'( so I geuss what I'm asking is there anyone else who feels how I do? And if so I want to talk to someone who knows what I'm going through:(

I know what you mean. My Mom died when I was a kid, and my dad used to bring women into my life all the time. It was horrible. I've have four stepmoms, and I loved everyone of them, and they all left me, and I couldn't understand. But, it wasn't my fault, and it's not yours.

[Hawk1248]

Thanks I feel a lol better

[NeuroTiger]

Ok:/ ill do my best

That's the correct attitude dude. Be strong. I'm certain you can get through.
Another precious advice: be careful with drugs, alcohol or cigarettes. If not handle properly, they will be what will cause your downfall. So,please, do keep away from them for your own sake ;)

[Hawk1248]

Ok:)

[Green Arrow]

I haven't been in your situation but I know those who have. What you've got to do is to be strong, not just for you but for your mother. It's probably just as hard for her (possibly even worse). Keep your head up high and look to the stars, I'm sure the fight with her fiance is just a little thing that got out of hand like they usually do.

[Hawk1248]

Ya but what if he leaves like the rest:'( its always that same question

[NikosamA98]

Ya but what if he leaves like the rest:'( its always that same question


I always had my mom and dad with me but they divorced when I was 3 years old, so I lived all my life with my mom. She had 2 real boyfriends since then and i lost the count of my dad's girlfriends. Anyways, all my life i wished my mom and dad were together again, specially because i felt abandoned by my dad, even though he went with me to the movies, gave me presents, and hang out with me. I always saw the movies with all those happy complete families, with dads who took their kids to play football and with younger brothers and hugging their kids...my dad never did that stuff (he tries to be hard and tough so he never express his emotions). I don't know if you feel the same, specially because I do have a stable dad, but now he is going to marry and I'm going to have 2 stepbrothers and I'm afraid he leaves me or love more my stepbrothers than me. Sometimes he plays with them and does things we never did together and well...somehow I'm afraid of losing him too

[numbness]

this is really hard for me to say but I have never had a dad because my mom was raped at age 16 and I have been to a rape child. And everytime my mom date a guy he always leaves then I got it connected to that dad figure and it just hurts even more every time. Now my mom is fighting with her fiance and I don't know if he's going to leave too:'( so I geuss what I'm asking is there anyone else who feels how I do? And if so I want to talk to someone who knows what I'm going through:(

I don't know if you think this is the same thing but when I was two my dad died and I suppose since then mum has wanted to have some male support so there's always a man around and I feel like I have got to know him,but then they argue and he leaves and doesn't come back. afterwards its like another little piece of me has gone to because everytime I think maybe this time he will stay.but he never does