younger boy

[matshorter]

So, there is this younger boy I met a few times at the local public outdoor pool. He's 14 (I'm 17) and he's pretty cute. He also seems to be quite curious about me.
Is it okay to meet him to get to know more about each other? Or is this weird?

[NikosamA98]

I think it depends on how he looks like l. I mean, you don't want a 12 years old looking boy right? Anyways, in terms of age you're both teens so its not a huge difference. I would recommend to be his friend first so you see how it goes and how his personality really is. I like younger boys too (14 or 15 and I'm 15..)

P.D.: No, you're not a pedo

[DerBear]

I personally think the age gap is a little too big.

[Curious1234]

I rly do not get opssesion with the age difference.I personaly think that if 2 sides are ok with something (jerking off or just goding out for a drink or anything else) than age doesn't metter.

[Hawk1248]

I personally don't feel that the age differnce is to big... But get to know him and if its really love don't let anything inbetween u too... That's just how I feel.

[riverboy]

I think it be ok. You might just like doing things with him that are not sexual. Be a big brother to him.

[Coolboi]

The age gape is big an at 14 an u 17 your like almost a adult . use your judgment as soon u will be 18 .. be nice to him an maybe he's looking for some help so get to no him as a friend .

[chelsea99]

So, there is this younger boy I met a few times at the local public outdoor pool. He's 14 (I'm 17) and he's pretty cute. He also seems to be quite curious about me.
Is it okay to meet him to get to know more about each other? Or is this weird?

its fine aslong as nothing happens that shouldnt ...

[countryboi9]

hey sounds ok to me, my best friend is like 21, im 16

[yerman]

Yeah.. That doesn't sound like too big of a gap.. I'd say it's ok

[chicohunter]

go for it. It doesn't sound weird to me

[RunnerRunner]

well i think the gap is a bit too but idk for sure. i think 3 yrs of differnce is enough.

[JonasBe]

I don't see any problems with it at all.
14-17 is not that much different. People claiming 17 is nearly adult... Come on, he's still a teenager, don't try to grow up too fast... It's not weird at all liking younger boys, I also like younger boys and some boys like older boys...

[Jevon]

I would have to say that that is pretty weird

[Biscuithead13]

I speak from experience, that the problem would be the younger ones maturity level is just gonna be too much less than yours. There is such a huge maturity gap between those years that its just not worth the trouble. All my experiences with 14-15 yr old guys (Im 17) ended poorly, and its just cuz they aren't MENTALLY mature enough.

[fredboy]

It sounds ok to me. I have older friends and some younger, so I think it's fine.

[lukene]

I speak from experience, that the problem would be the younger ones maturity level is just gonna be too much less than yours. There is such a huge maturity gap between those years that its just not worth the trouble. All my experiences with 14-15 yr old guys (Im 17) ended poorly, and its just cuz they aren't MENTALLY mature enough.

In my experience most males between 13-19 have a pretty similar maturity level... And it's pretty low. People assume I hang out with girls because I'm gay, but it is actually because I can't stand how immature all the guys are. I don't like to blow my own trumpet but I'm very mature for my age... Always have been, people call me Manny off Modern Family haha. I really don't think this age gap is that big, three years really isn't that big. When he is 23, the younger boy will be 20. That is barely even a difference and the maturity levels will not be that different either, that's if there is any difference at all.

[smithers]

i have the same problem.... but my guy is 13
i know in my case i would never sexually act n him maybe i would jerk of with him but not jerk him off
its jsut that he was my camper and thats just like a line i wouldnt cross

[BakeBake]

It seems to me that you guys may be friends. There is nothing wrong with that.

[justin 13]

Im 13 im looking 4 to know someone like you, cuz I like olders. lucky boy ur friend.

[jerry102]

I see nothing wrong with this, go get them

[Curious1234]

Im 13 im looking 4 to know someone like you, cuz I like olders. lucky boy ur friend.

Message if you wanna chat sometimes,i am 17

[islandguy06]

I would say wait until you are really close. It's a small enough age diff.

[Cameron14]

From the info you've given us, I don't see a problem.

[Jaiv6]

Haha whatever makes you happy

[Ballboy]

Well, I'm 13 and although I have some friends who're around 16, we're not all that close. I mostly like guys of 12/13/14 . But then I'm pretty hetero, so what do I kno?

[clandry]

You're not too many years apart really, there's nothing wrong in my opinion. It may seem like a weird age gap now, but later on it's really nothing.

[nino51300]

That's not too weird as you both are under 18, 18 is when things get legal and crap, but I see nothing wrong...

[teen.jpg]

I dunno, it's really up to you if you want to pursue it.

[tom17]

Why would it be weird? Go for it, man!

[roadwarrior]

That's not weird, and there's no wrong about it...

[eckiboy]

i don't know what i would do in that case...

[snowtrax]

The age difference isn't that big but a little bit younger of a boy is such a turn on plus you could see how far through puberty he is

[The Flash]

Dont do it. In the States, there's this girl who's 18 (now 19), and she had sex with her girlfriend who was 14. And now its a big mess. She's in court and stuff.
So if you turn 18, and he's still underage, and something happens, the outcome wont be too good.

[gamerdudeW]

i think just depends on the guy.its normal to want to hangout and know more about guys that are a little older than u. im 15 and have friends who are 16 and 17 so i think thats pretty normal. 12 or 11 might be weird tho lol

[Ballboy]

Hmm. I think I'd maybe find it a bit uncomfortable if a 16 yo was interested in me (I'm 13 so comparing age differences...)
But then any interest from anyone might be nice too. Hard to say.

[McAK101]

Personally, I don't think the age difference is too bad. 14 & 17? That's not bad at all. What I can suggest though is get to know him, talk with him before anything else.

[Scottish-Boy]

I dont think its a problem, but others may be a little perceptive - its not their life so dont stress about it - have fun!

[Catholic Guy]

There's nothing wrong with going to meet him, as long as he's up for it it's fine!

[GeorgeBoy]

if you see that you can do it .. do it :)

[henry5331]

So, there is this younger boy I met a few times at the local public outdoor pool. He's 14 (I'm 17) and he's pretty cute. He also seems to be quite curious about me.
Is it okay to meet him to get to know more about each other? Or is this weird?

Don't do it.

[Rabbit2016]

I think it's fine as long as you're both okay with it

[jeremy96]

in my reasonable theory I think he is to young and in 1 more year you are a full adult and he is going to be 15 and that's still young maybe wait but be friendly to him

[The Trendy Wolf]

So, there is this younger boy I met a few times at the local public outdoor pool. He's 14 (I'm 17) and he's pretty cute. He also seems to be quite curious about me.
Is it okay to meet him to get to know more about each other? Or is this weird?

As long as you don't "get to know him" any more than you should. It's fine to socialize with younger guys, it isn't weird.

[Jamie_P]

The age gap doesn't seem like its too big, so i guess it would be fine to get to know him better. However be careful not to take things too far sexually. Act as an older role model to him, he's probably confused about puberty and whatnot and is probably looking for someone who is better matured that he can aspire to physically, and see what a more matured body looks like. So yeah, just be careful.

[Verde]

All depends on what your intentions are. If you just want to be friends, thats totally fine.

[steve21]

i think the age gap is fine as long as you are both okay with it.

[Soldier212]

Technically some US states only allow a 2 year age gap between minors so u need to check ur states law but u have my approval if that counts for anything in ur books

[cwwdr95]

Age is just a number when it comes to friends, I have close mates ranging from 15 to 28. I'm sure as long as things don't turn sexual it's fine but people might look at differently if you become really close :/

[matshorter]

Thx for all your posts. We are now good friends, hanging out a lot together and just sometimes doin' stuff boys ;). It's fine for both of us. No worries.
I'm like the older brother he has never had.

[JamesSuperBoy]

cool = I have 2 brothers and would really think it is good.

[Reg_]

Well ur not 18 yet so i say go for it

But when u turn 18 u might wanna stop

[Living For Love]

Please don't bump old threads. :locked: