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jacksonthelan
August 12th, 2013, 04:33 AM
ive been dating my girlfriend for the last 6 months and i really love her, but lately i feel like we are drifting apart because she has droped out of school and started working, mean while one of my close guy friends came out to me as bi, i was at his house this afternoon and we were talking and things got sexually heated and we kissed and so on, we ended up giving each other a bj and a hj, i want to know if there is a nicer way of telling her then just, i cheated on you with one of your close friends, who is a guy?
im more mad at myself than anything and i just want away to tell her

laurakoller0815
August 12th, 2013, 04:40 AM
ohh thats a serious thing especially you cheated on her with a guy..... at the end of the day the truth come up. you should tell her the truth but may be you can keep some details out of that convo:)

shellsxo
August 12th, 2013, 04:53 AM
Just be upfront with her about it. And hope she'll understand
Truth hurts but ya know :)

1_21Guns
August 12th, 2013, 06:25 AM
Just tell her the truth, believe me there's nothing worse than it coming out anywhere but from you.

NikosamA98
August 12th, 2013, 08:13 AM
Omg I don't know if there is an "easy" way to tell her. The easiest way is to say nothing about it and wait till the truth comes up. The right thing to do is to tell her and accept the consequences and learn. Remember that maybe you won't receive you want but you will receive what you need :P

BrockRock
August 12th, 2013, 08:37 AM
You got to tell her the truth man, if you don't then she finds out you will never forgive yourself.

My advice is to tell her everything and just see where it goes from there.

Meganium
August 12th, 2013, 01:10 PM
ive been dating my girlfriend for the last 6 months and i really love her, but lately i feel like we are drifting apart because she has droped out of school and started working, mean while one of my close guy friends came out to me as bi, i was at his house this afternoon and we were talking and things got sexually heated and we kissed and so on, we ended up giving each other a bj and a hj, i want to know if there is a nicer way of telling her then just, i cheated on you with one of your close friends, who is a guy?
im more mad at myself than anything and i just want away to tell her

If she finds this out by any other means except for you telling her, shit will smack the fan VERY hard.

While this may have the same unfortunate outcome either way, at least if you tell her you have a bit more of a shot at forgiveness. Or hell, just her not hating you too much for too long.

Point is, the truth has to come out some way, so bring it out in the best way possible for the future of your relationship/friendship.