Going into High School

[Tendencies]

This is going to make me sound really bad but I couldn't care less. I start my first year of High School this week and really, i've never had a girlfriend. I've always had crushes on people but they are in a certain crowd of people that I wouldn't be able to fit in with. I'm always so jealous of my friends having awesome relationships and being happy with someone and then i'm just there alone. So here's my question. Do you think it will be easier to find someone in high school, and is it even worth trying to find someone?

[PinkFloyd]

Keep in mind that you're still only like 14, and you'll be turning 15. Getting a girlfriend isn't something you should be worrying about because if you got one, what would you do; Go to a gas station on bikes? I mean without a car, you can't do much.

All I'm saying is that you're still kind of young to be that worried about getting a gf.

[Meganium]

This is going to make me sound really bad but I couldn't care less. I start my first year of High School this week and really, i've never had a girlfriend. I've always had crushes on people but they are in a certain crowd of people that I wouldn't be able to fit in with. I'm always so jealous of my friends having awesome relationships and being happy with someone and then i'm just there alone. So here's my question. Do you think it will be easier to find someone in high school, and is it even worth trying to find someone?

It's not even something to worry about. People thrice your age have yet to look in a girl's direction. You have plenty of time, and it's not worth your stress. Take it easy, go through school, and if something happens within that time, then make a move.

[CMac]

In high school it is somewhat easier because there are a lot more people and therefore more chances of finding someone who you connect with. However some people think that if you go into high school you get a girlfriend just like that but that really isn't how it works. But keep in mind you are only 14. Even the so-called relationships your friends have are not real relationships, they're middle school flings. In the future looking back you'll realize that that hardly qualifies as a relationship. So don't worry, you've got time.

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Keep in mind that you're still only like 14, and you'll be turning 15. Getting a girlfriend isn't something you should be worrying about because if you got one, what would you do; Go to a gas station on bikes? I mean without a car, you can't do much.

All I'm saying is that you're still kind of young to be that worried about getting a gf.

Isn't that ironic? :P

But anyway, it's not that big of a deal, especially freshman year. If it happens, cool, if not then don't worry about it.

[dontfiguremeout]

Sorry bro, I have to agree with everyone else. Honestly you should get to know your school the first year. Live in the moment being single freshman year. I know you will probably think I hate being single, but trust me, just enjoy the time being single. Plus you can scope out the girls, find someone you might like for the future! But if you do go in a relationship have fun with it! haha :P

[BrockRock]

Bro im gonna be honest with you and say that a lot of guys who spend all their times looking for girl friends don't get many guy friends. My advice is to try and meet as many people as possible and if you happen to meet someone special then go for it.

[PinkFloyd]

Isn't that ironic? :P

But anyway, it's not that big of a deal, especially freshman year. If it happens, cool, if not then don't worry about it.

Yeah... it is very ironic. Keep in mind that mine had known me for 10 years already. She wasn't some random chick that I asked out because all my friends were.

[Feeq]

Well, I start my first week of high school on August 20th and just wondering if anybody could give me a few tips on how to adjust from the transition from Middle school (5th, 6th, 7th, and 8th grade) To high school

[Jess]

It's really early for you, you don't need to worry. I went through high school without going out on a single date or being in a single relationship. Never had a boyfriend. There's no need to rush