He got crazy! I don't how to feel about this!

[Dawn01]

I was just texting him normaly, I tried to call him but he said he is not in a mood to talk, I asked why and he said he doesn't want to be my friend because he is thinking it's doing him bad :confused:

I told him "but you are the frist guy I ever truly loved!" and he said "I apreciatte your feelings for me, but I just can't keep like this, it's doing me harm"

WHAT?? That was so suddenly, seriously! He kept saying that he couldn't talk to me anymore!!

I asked if it as because of other girl and he denied, asked if he had realized he was actually gay *back story: many people think he is gay* and he denied too.

WHAT THE F#CK??!!


*back story: he is one of my best male friends, once I kissed him and he kissed me back and them told me that was wrong because he was with another girl, the girl probably was told about the incident, many people in his school went mad at him and I wouldn't have kissed him if I had known about this*

[Plasma]

There's probably something you don't know about. It would be good to give him his space until maybe he wants to tell you what's up. If that's not the case, some guys are just jerks. It's how the world works. You'll find a better guy eventually.

[DDAx]

I think I know what he's feeling.
Since he was with another girl while you kissed him and vice versa, He would have lost friends at school... Which may have made him sad since no one would like to talk to him.
Another factor that you haven't thought of is maybe his family is also made him a little sad so to stay close to friends and family, he would like to stay away from you...

I know this because I said this to my girl best friend.. I loved her and she loved me but I lost my best mates and my family were usually mad at me like 24/7 so I lost communication with her and everything became better.

-Good Luck with him anyways :)

[Dawn01]

There's probably something you don't know about. It would be good to give him his space until maybe he wants to tell you what's up. If that's not the case, some guys are just jerks. It's how the world works. You'll find a better guy eventually.

I think you are right, I do believe it's all because something that it's not related to me. But the hardest part of being mad at him is that I'm going to study at the same University he is studying, and in the same building! Our classes will start in a feel weeks, so I think we had this fight in a terrible time :(

I think I know what he's feeling.
Since he was with another girl while you kissed him and vice versa, He would have lost friends at school... Which may have made him sad since no one would like to talk to him.
Another factor that you haven't thought of is maybe his family is also made him a little sad so to stay close to friends and family, he would like to stay away from you...

I know this because I said this to my girl best friend.. I loved her and she loved me but I lost my best mates and my family were usually mad at me like 24/7 so I lost communication with her and everything became better.

-Good Luck with him anyways :)

It makes sense, I just wish he wasn't so rude to me :/ It's okay not to be okay, but be rude to people will never be something okay! I also said to him that I would like him to help me in my first days in college, but he said he doesn't want to help me, like... WHAT?! Terrible way to end a friendship :(

[Hermes96]

Give him some space to work things out if he comes back then great if not then you can find someone more desiving of your love

[DDAx]

I think you are right, I do believe it's all because something that it's not related to me. But the hardest part of being mad at him is that I'm going to study at the same University he is studying, and in the same building! Our classes will start in a feel weeks, so I think we had this fight in a terrible time :(



It makes sense, I just wish he wasn't so rude to me :/ It's okay not to be okay, but be rude to people will never be something okay! I also said to him that I would like him to help me in my first days in college, but he said he doesn't want to help me, like... WHAT?! Terrible way to end a friendship :(

It may be a terrible way and slightly rude, however, he did answer your questions truthfully (I hope) so I guess you have to respect him for that
Just lay low/away from him for a while, I'm sure he will miss you.

[Dawn01]

It may be a terrible way and slightly rude, however, he did answer your questions truthfully (I hope) so I guess you have to respect him for that
Just lay low/away from him for a while, I'm sure he will miss you.

I'm not going to wait for him, not anymore! If he comes back and says he regrets saying that, great, if not, fuck him! He was horrible, I was trying to make him feel bad by being really nice, but he just became rude and revealed to be someone very different, it's not the guy that I loved anymore.

Yeah, he will haunt me in the University, and I'll haunt him as well, but whatever...