why... gays?

[Hawk1248]

Why do some people disinclude gay people?? This really hurts some people:'( like me:(

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What do you mean? Exclude you from what?

[Harley Quinn]

P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality.

[Hawk1248]

How do I change it?? And u know like sports and group activites if people know

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How do I change it?? And u know like sports and group activites if people know

Fuck them then. If they're your friends or not, you don't need to be treated that way.

[Brazilianboy]

I'm gay and I told just to few friends. I am shamed to be 'cause people from my school are ridiculous and I don't have proud to be, but people reproach every time it. :'(

[Hawk1248]

Ya that's what I mean:'(

[Xavier2]

Sadly people just deliberately exclude people for many things, their sexuality being just one. If it isn't that it's their appearance, how they dress, if they're poor or wealthy, basically anything that could make them "different" from the rest of the group, even if that "difference" is very minor. :(

[Hawk1248]

Yes and I understand this but Idk y... Why would others purposely hurt others:'(

[Xavier2]

Because believe me, some people are just like that. They get a real kick just out of making others miserable for the fun of it. Just a fun hobby for them, sadly. :/

[Magnus Bane]

Its because some people cant handle difference

[Hawk1248]

I really appreciate all your responses thanks

[Xavier2]

Don't let it get to you mate, those kind of people just aren't worth bothering with. There are plenty of people around who are not like that, unfortunately the minority that do exclude people for those kinds of things tend to be the vocal ones. Just keep being a really nice person like you say in your sig and you'll meet people who will want to hang out with you and will embrace your sexuality rather than judge you for it.

Perhaps check out if there are any LGBT/LGBT friendly school or community groups around where you live, and you can make some good connections and contacts through there. If it's people like in sports activities leaving you out of things like you said then report it, if nothing changes then move on and you can tell others to avoid it as well. Don't put up with being discriminated against like that. Just some suggestions, might not work out but hey doesn't hurt to try and check around. Good luck. :)

Would like to know how it goes for you as well. ^_^

[oneDay]

Honestly Trey, people who don't include you as a peer, friend, team member, etc. are not worth being bothered with. Think about it, you being gay makes people who discriminate more transparent and, thus, give you good reason to avoid them. If you were straight would you like to be their friend... not likely. Being gay, or rather, being yourself makes those around you be themselves just a little more and sadly the person you get to see is not what you thought; the truth may not be nice but at least they show their ugliness before you've befriended anyone who will only hurt you later on. Sometimes being in that position is better for you than you may think. Don't worry about being excluded by anyone, just enjoy yourself any way you can. :)

[DepartInSecret]

Why do they do it???? Well they do it because it makes them feel big, powerful, and in some cases normal. The reason they pick on sexuality is because of how western culture has been convinced that it is wrong by different sources. It is not no wrong but natural and this idea is dated and will fade away.
An example of a group that used to get heavily discriminated against but now don't are left handers. If you wrote with your left hand it used to be many school policy to tie it behind you back until you learnt to use your right one and that doesn't happen any more. Here's hoping for the future. :D