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Eccentricity
August 11th, 2013, 03:34 PM
To cut a long story short..

I'm a bisexual and there is this boy from a local school that I thought was good looking. I said it to his friend and then his friend told him and he was determined I was crushing on him and now he's being weird. Him and his friends kinda mock me for it, and it's irritating because it was just a comment...

Even worse, he is an identical twin, and his brother thinks I fancy him too!

How do I handle this?

teen.jpg
August 11th, 2013, 03:38 PM
Tell him how you feel, see what he says, and act accordingly.

Eccentricity
August 11th, 2013, 03:43 PM
I have. About his friends mocking, and he was like "it's okay" and he said he'll sort it. Too much charm on him if you ask me... because now he is doing it.

teen.jpg
August 11th, 2013, 03:45 PM
Tell him to fuck off. You don't deserve that. Is there anyway you can just stop talking to him in general?

Eccentricity
August 11th, 2013, 03:48 PM
I don't want that, I don't like being like that. To be honest I'd like to be his friend.

StoppingTime
August 11th, 2013, 03:52 PM
Well you can't force someone to change their mind or opinion about you. If they're going to believe something that is untrue no matter what you say, then to be honest I think it's best not to be friends with this person. They clearly don't trust you or what you say if they won't believe you and that isn't what you need.

Abyssal Echo
August 11th, 2013, 04:09 PM
Well you can't force someone to change their mind or opinion about you. If they're going to believe something that is untrue no matter what you say, then to be honest I think it's best not to be friends with this person. They clearly don't trust you or what you say if they won't believe you and that isn't what you need.

I know you don't want to not talk to them. But, I don't think they are your friends because real friends wont treat you that way.
I also agree with Stopping time.

Xavier2
August 12th, 2013, 12:49 AM
I don't want that, I don't like being like that. To be honest I'd like to be his friend.

To be quite honest it doesn't sound like he'll be much of a friend to you anyway if you've already told him you dislike the way his friends were treating you, he says he'll "deal with it" and comes right back doing the same as them. He obviously didn't take you seriously when you said you wanted them to stop and it's likely trying to keep talking to them will just get you more of the same crap. Not really worth it mate. :/

Magnus Bane
August 12th, 2013, 11:16 AM
I would leave them alone for a little while and let the whole thing pass.