Does this connect together and mean something?

[clueless_one]

The girl I like went to the school ball with another guy and didn't ask me (the girls invite the guys to the ball and the unlucky guys who were not asked couldn't go). The boy who went with this girl had added/sent me a request on Facebook a long time ago.

Just recently I saw a photo on Facebook with the girl I like in a group of people at a party, separate from the guy she asked to the ball. The photo was taken during the night and it was posted in the afternoon, which meant it was the night before. The night before the photo was posted, the guy who had gone to the ball with the girl I like re-added/re-sent me a friend request (most likely during the party).

I know that when you usually send a request to someone and they are yet to accept, their profile can not be found unless you search for the person because you had sent a friend request and its in the process of being accepted. The boy who the girl I like had asked to the ball never spoke to me in almost a month.

Could it be that the girl I like had spoken about me to this guy?
Could this incident actually be proof that she might like me back or does she like the guy she had asked to the ball?

[clueless_one]

Anyone please help me... :help: :cry:

[clueless_one]

Anyone..... :(

[clueless_one]

:cry:

[Plasma]

You should just talk to her. That's a pretty far-fetched conclusion you made.

[clueless_one]

You should just talk to her. That's a pretty far-fetched conclusion you made.

I thought that possibility she had told him that she likes me. There is really no other reason to why he re-sent me a request on Facebook, he never talked to me or told me about the friend request. The thing that got me was he had already sent me a request long ago.

Just recently the girl I like and her friends were all staring and looking at me without smiling or laughing. When I caught them they just looked away and went back to talking. When I had moved, the girl I like sat down in a way that she could look at me (which I caught her do that also).

This incident had occurred after this staring had happened.

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She doesn't seem to like you. Move on with your life.

[teen.jpg]

I thought that possibility she had told him that she likes me. There is really no other reason to why he re-sent me a request on Facebook, he never talked to me or told me about the friend request. The thing that got me was he had already sent me a request long ago.

Just recently the girl I like and her friends were all staring and looking at me without smiling or laughing. When I caught them they just looked away and went back to talking. When I had moved, the girl I like sat down in a way that she could look at me (which I caught her do that also).

This incident had occurred after this staring had happened.

You do know that conclusion is ridiculous, right? There is not a single guy on the planet that would FB add someone who the girl they like has a crush on, it doesn't work that way.

Maybe he knows you and just wants to add you? Or he could just randomly add anyone on FB. You're thinking too far into things and setting yourself up for failure.

[clueless_one]

fuck this!!!!!

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fuck this!!!!!

What do you mean? o.0

[clueless_one]

What do you mean? o.0

I've given up!

There. I'm a weak person who wants to be exact about things and it doesn't go my way at all. I hate it.

If you thought that he just added me just like that... HE RE-ADDED me.

WHEN YOU ADD SOMEONE OF FACEBOOK THAT PERSON CAN NOT BE SEEN BY YOU UNLESS YOU SEARCH FOR THEM MANUALLY. I ALREADY KNOW THAT.

This guy had sent me a request on Facebook a long time ago. So by re-adding me, I obviously thought that she might have been talking about me to him and therefore he wanted to make sure on exactly which person, he searched me, noticed I didn't accept him yet and he sent a request again. It couldn't be anything else. But if thats how you take it with your advice... I've given up :( :cry:

[teen.jpg]

I've given up!

There. I'm a weak person who wants to be exact about things and it doesn't go my way at all. I hate it.

If you thought that he just added me just like that... HE RE-ADDED me.

WHEN YOU ADD SOMEONE OF FACEBOOK THAT PERSON CAN NOT BE SEEN BY YOU UNLESS YOU SEARCH FOR THEM MANUALLY. I ALREADY KNOW THAT.

This guy had sent me a request on Facebook a long time ago. So by re-adding me, I obviously thought that she might have been talking about me to him and therefore he wanted to make sure on exactly which person, he searched me, noticed I didn't accept him yet and he sent a request again. It couldn't be anything else. But if thats how you take it with your advice... I've given up :( :cry:

1. He could also find your page by using the Friends of Friends and Suggestions stuff.

2. Giving up isn't going to get you anywhere. I told you to move on. You're wasting your time in this situation and it's much needed stress you don't need. But that doesn't mean you should give up. Eventually you'll find someone who's right for you.

[clueless_one]

1. He could also find your page by using the Friends of Friends and Suggestions stuff.

2. Giving up isn't going to get you anywhere. I told you to move on. You're wasting your time in this situation and it's much needed stress you don't need. But that doesn't mean you should give up. Eventually you'll find someone who's right for you.

Yes I have this girl...

Why don't I tell you this.

I had previously asked out another girl before liking this new girl. She had lied and I moved on. This new girl I like found out that I asked out a girl and possibly knew she might have lied. She called her my girlfriend and also said "I wonder why no guys have asked me out?". After this, she never really spoke to me after she found out that she actually did lie. Then, she has suddenly spoken to me a lot more and has been staring at me along with her friends. Whenever I catch them staring, they look away. This happened just recently.

My gut told me she liked me and also told me that there is a possibility that she spoke to the guy about me. That is why he searched for me and added me.

But if you take it like that. I've given up. I am already alone being an only child and now I will never be loved by someone I actually like. NEVER!!! :cry:

[teen.jpg]

Yes I have this girl...

Why don't I tell you this.

I had previously asked out another girl before liking this new girl. She had lied and I moved on. This new girl I like found out that I asked out a girl and possibly knew she might have lied. She called her my girlfriend and also said "I wonder why no guys have asked me out?". After this, she never really spoke to me after she found out that she actually did lie. Then, she has suddenly spoken to me a lot more and has been staring at me along with her friends. Whenever I catch them staring, they look away. This happened just recently.

My gut told me she liked me and also told me that there is a possibility that she spoke to the guy about me. That is why he searched for me and added me.

But if you take it like that. I've given up. I am already alone being an only child and now I will never be loved by someone I actually like. NEVER!!! :cry:

Seriously, stop feeling sorry for yourself and actually make it better for yourself. Instead of rushing into things, take it slowly and try to find someone who likes you as much as you like them.

[clueless_one]

Seriously, stop feeling sorry for yourself and actually make it better for yourself. Instead of rushing into things, take it slowly and try to find someone who likes you as much as you like them.

That is never going to happen because I get to know them first and then once I know them good enough then that is it I ask them out. But at times the signs that they show me confuse me and I come one this for advice (I can see none of the advice is actually helpful).


It seems you might be thinking that this girl was with this guy the whole time. Well actually that is wrong. The girl I like was with her girlfriends and the boy who she asked to the ball was with another group of girls. So now what do you think...

But from your advice... I've given up. Fuck all girls, fuck them they are worthless pieces of crap. (from your advice)

[teen.jpg]

That is never going to happen because I get to know them first and then once I know them good enough then that is it I ask them out. But at times the signs that they show me confuse me and I come one this for advice (I can see none of the advice is actually helpful).


It seems you might be thinking that this girl was with this guy the whole time. Well actually that is wrong. The girl I like was with her girlfriends and the boy who she asked to the ball was with another group of girls. So now what do you think...

But from your advice... I've given up. Fuck all girls, fuck them they are worthless pieces of crap. (from your advice)

Um, I don't recall ever saying that. I said move on from this girl and find someone else.

And by the way, being in a relationship isn't as important as you think. You're only gonna get a lot of heartbreak if you chase after it all the time.

[clueless_one]

Fuck this shit. Fuck my life. kills self

[uglyinsideandout]

(I can see none of the advice is actually helpful)

I wouldn't say it's unhelpful, it's just not what you want to hear. And saying you're killing yourself is very wrong. I'm seriously considering blocking you becasue saying that is emotionally abusive to everyone reading this thread.

[Luminous]

I wouldn't say it's unhelpful, it's just not what you want to hear. And saying you're killing yourself is very wrong. I'm seriously considering blocking you becasue saying that is emotionally abusive to everyone reading this thread.

^ I agree. About the first part, the second, I'm not sure about emotionally abusive to those that don't have anything to trigger to (never been depressed or anything) but it is a much more serious topic than the way you make it sound, if you're considering killing yourself over some crush you should get your priorities straight.

It's one in the morning and I'm half asleep so I'm still kind of trying to process what happened (I just saw a lot of this girl, that girl, that crush, etc) but judging from replies I think you're overthinking this whole thing. It's a friend request on Facebook. Say yes or no and move on with your life.

Sorry if this seems harsh, I'm not trying to be harsh with you at all. Or if you can't understand this. I'm going to sleep. G'night and g'luck

[clueless_one]

I wouldn't say it's unhelpful, it's just not what you want to hear. And saying you're killing yourself is very wrong. I'm seriously considering blocking you becasue saying that is emotionally abusive to everyone reading this thread.

^ I agree. About the first part, the second, I'm not sure about emotionally abusive to those that don't have anything to trigger to (never been depressed or anything) but it is a much more serious topic than the way you make it sound, if you're considering killing yourself over some crush you should get your priorities straight.

It's one in the morning and I'm half asleep so I'm still kind of trying to process what happened (I just saw a lot of this girl, that girl, that crush, etc) but judging from replies I think you're overthinking this whole thing. It's a friend request on Facebook. Say yes or no and move on with your life.

Sorry if this seems harsh, I'm not trying to be harsh with you at all. Or if you can't understand this. I'm going to sleep. G'night and g'luck

Well actually after being pissed off by some of the replies on this thread. I decided to do some research and well... The guy that the girl I like asked to the ball is well in a relationship with another girl, not the girl who I like. :)

Actually the problem is that I was all prepared about going to ask her out and then hearing that I have to move on ended it for me. I had the feeling the guy was in a relationship with some other girl and that the girl I like actually likes me.

But now narrowing it down a little more. I didn't care that she went to the ball with another guy. The question was all about the Facebook request and if any of you think that there is some connection between her talking about me to that guy and he re-sent the request. Its just weird how it all connected with the party which is what my question was about.

Now back to my question. Do you think that there could be a connection between him RE-SENDING the request and the girl I like talking about me.

[uglyinsideandout]

Now back to my question. Do you think that there could be a connection between him RE-SENDING the request and the girl I like talking about me.

Here's a novel idea... ask him why or ask her out. All this 'I want to be exact' doesn't fit with the way you're approaching this 'problem'. I understand everyone's problem is a big deal to them and I'm not trying to minimize whatever pain you happen to be in, but seriously there is a very simple solution that doesn't involve any guessing. And saying you're going to kill yourself over it is irresponsible in so many ways I can't even count them all. Regardless of anyone having any suicide triggers (and I have several) you put all of us in a position of responsibility for your actions and there's nothing we can do about it. That is emotionally abusive and I for 1 will not put up with it from you or anyone else.

[MoonMan]

That is never going to happen because I get to know them first and then once I know them good enough then that is it I ask them out. But at times the signs that they show me confuse me and I come one this for advice (I can see none of the advice is actually helpful).


It seems you might be thinking that this girl was with this guy the whole time. Well actually that is wrong. The girl I like was with her girlfriends and the boy who she asked to the ball was with another group of girls. So now what do you think...

But from your advice... I've given up. Fuck all girls, fuck them they are worthless pieces of crap. (from your advice)
Advice is purely electable, if you feel it's not helpful, simply don't fucking follow it. I don't understand why you even have to criticize advice, it's completely unnecessary. People here are only tring to help and you shoot them down by belittling their advice and setting up a random suicide trigger to make people feel guilty for simply giving their insight and opinion on what to do in the situation. Then, when there is a situation your limited range of social skills can't handle, you all of a sudden "need" advice again and another one of these threads pop up for this bullshit cycle to continue. You're not asking for advice, you're asking for someone to confirm exactly what you want to hear when you want to hear it, which isn't going to happen anytime soon.

[Meganium]

The girl I like went to the school ball with another guy and didn't ask me (the girls invite the guys to the ball and the unlucky guys who were not asked couldn't go). The boy who went with this girl had added/sent me a request on Facebook a long time ago.

Just recently I saw a photo on Facebook with the girl I like in a group of people at a party, separate from the guy she asked to the ball. The photo was taken during the night and it was posted in the afternoon, which meant it was the night before. The night before the photo was posted, the guy who had gone to the ball with the girl I like re-added/re-sent me a friend request (most likely during the party).

I know that when you usually send a request to someone and they are yet to accept, their profile can not be found unless you search for the person because you had sent a friend request and its in the process of being accepted. The boy who the girl I like had asked to the ball never spoke to me in almost a month.

Could it be that the girl I like had spoken about me to this guy?
Could this incident actually be proof that she might like me back or does she like the guy she had asked to the ball?

I've given up!

There. I'm a weak person who wants to be exact about things and it doesn't go my way at all. I hate it.

If you thought that he just added me just like that... HE RE-ADDED me.

WHEN YOU ADD SOMEONE OF FACEBOOK THAT PERSON CAN NOT BE SEEN BY YOU UNLESS YOU SEARCH FOR THEM MANUALLY. I ALREADY KNOW THAT.

This guy had sent me a request on Facebook a long time ago. So by re-adding me, I obviously thought that she might have been talking about me to him and therefore he wanted to make sure on exactly which person, he searched me, noticed I didn't accept him yet and he sent a request again. It couldn't be anything else. But if thats how you take it with your advice... I've given up :( :cry:

Well actually after being pissed off by some of the replies on this thread. I decided to do some research and well... The guy that the girl I like asked to the ball is well in a relationship with another girl, not the girl who I like. :)

Actually the problem is that I was all prepared about going to ask her out and then hearing that I have to move on ended it for me. I had the feeling the guy was in a relationship with some other girl and that the girl I like actually likes me.

But now narrowing it down a little more. I didn't care that she went to the ball with another guy. The question was all about the Facebook request and if any of you think that there is some connection between her talking about me to that guy and he re-sent the request. Its just weird how it all connected with the party which is what my question was about.

Now back to my question. Do you think that there could be a connection between him RE-SENDING the request and the girl I like talking about me.

...I'm done.

You continue to seriously over examine the situation you're in, and every minor detail that doesn't go in you favor, you go apeshit about it, and try to find ways to fix what doesn't need to be fixed. You're creating these nonexistent "obstacles" for yourself, and that only keeps you away from your goal.

If you GENUINELY want this girl, then you need to stop "calculating" your odds and just do what you need to do.

I could see you acting like this if you ALREADY ASKED HER OUT, and you want things to go perfectly, but your not even at that point yet, and refuse to go to that point, because you are denying yourself ability to go up to this girl and make it happen.

Stop making excuses, stop looking for them. If you want this girl, go get her. If not, keep doing what you're doing. We don't know what this guy or what that guy says means. Nor do you. You don't need to because it's irrelevant. If you think things will go wrong then you will find out for sure when you get to her. IF you get to her and decide to change your attitude. It doesn't need to be perfect, and it never will be. Putting all your time into making something absolutely perfect is basically pointless. Good in thought, but all it will do is stress you out and delay what you want to happen.

Chill the fuck out, clear your mind, and then rethink what you have to do.

Peace and good luck. You shouldn't need it, but if you keep this up, you're going to need a bit more than that just to de-stress yourself.

[unnamed94]

...I'm done.

You continue to seriously over examine the situation you're in, and every minor detail that doesn't go in you favor, you go apeshit about it, and try to find ways to fix what doesn't need to be fixed. You're creating these nonexistent "obstacles" for yourself, and that only keeps you away from your goal.

If you GENUINELY want this girl, then you need to stop "calculating" your odds and just do what you need to do.

I could see you acting like this if you ALREADY ASKED HER OUT, and you want things to go perfectly, but your not even at that point yet, and refuse to go to that point, because you are denying yourself ability to go up to this girl and make it happen.

Stop making excuses, stop looking for them. If you want this girl, go get her. If not, keep doing what you're doing. We don't know what this guy or what that guy says means. Nor do you. You don't need to because it's irrelevant. If you think things will go wrong then you will find out for sure when you get to her. IF you get to her and decide to change your attitude. It doesn't need to be perfect, and it never will be. Putting all your time into making something absolutely perfect is basically pointless. Good in thought, but all it will do is stress you out and delay what you want to happen.

Chill the fuck out, clear your mind, and then rethink what you have to do.

Peace and good luck. You shouldn't need it, but if you keep this up, you're going to need a bit more than that just to de-stress yourself.

your whole post is most likely going to be completely ignored because it's not what the OP wants to hear. that's what he does, besides making a whole problem out of small things. he should have asked this girl a long time ago but somehow refuses to, and theres no rational excuse for that.

[Plasma]

I've given up!

There. I'm a weak person who wants to be exact about things and it doesn't go my way at all. I hate it.

If you thought that he just added me just like that... HE RE-ADDED me.

WHEN YOU ADD SOMEONE OF FACEBOOK THAT PERSON CAN NOT BE SEEN BY YOU UNLESS YOU SEARCH FOR THEM MANUALLY. I ALREADY KNOW THAT.

This guy had sent me a request on Facebook a long time ago. So by re-adding me, I obviously thought that she might have been talking about me to him and therefore he wanted to make sure on exactly which person, he searched me, noticed I didn't accept him yet and he sent a request again. It couldn't be anything else. But if thats how you take it with your advice... I've given up :( :cry:

You're asking for our opinions. Why try to convince us to tell you something that we don't believe? Prove us wrong. TALK TO HER

[clueless_one]

Its called an ANXIETY PROBLEM! This is why i'm asking for more and more help.

[uglyinsideandout]

You're not asking for help you're asking for us to agree with you about what you wish was happening. You lash out at anyone whos opinion doesn't match what you want to hear. Ask the guy 'why did you friend me?' ask the girl 'Do you want to go out with me', but for fuck's sake stop asking us what their actions mean, if you're there and you don't know how could we?

[MoonMan]

Its called an ANXIETY PROBLEM! This is why i'm asking for more and more help.

And this gives you the right to shoot people down and act like an asshole when all they're trying to do is help?

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Fuck this shit. Fuck my life. kills self

There's no excuse in the world to make me get over the fact that you said that. That's a dick move.

[Hawk1248]

Don't just give up... If she don't like u then give time... Or she's not the one for u... There is always the right match out there... But don't just give up... Trust me:)

[Hawk1248]

Also I think u should calm down a bit