This guy i know. I NEED ADVICE PLEASE.

[mazingperson]

i dont know how to ask him if he is gay can i pleasssssssse have some advice.

[Ezz]

hmm?
get his email and email him
this would become more simple

in the email you ask the question
just chat with him about 5 or 6 emails
and starting to talk sex or puberty about him

and then you try to ask him if he is gay
thats all for my idea

but can i know, are you gay?
sorry if i am insulting you

[mazingperson]

your not offending me, i'm bisexual and he's like my best friend.

[Kev*]

the worst that can happen is no

[mazingperson]

but i fancy him i think

[Kev*]

then tell him

[Tal]

Hmmm, I agree.

Well, he IS your best friend, so what do you think... You must know him fairly well, so if you think he would say yes, then go for it, but if you don't think so, then maybe reconsider it, or be prepared to shrug it off if and when you ask. If you have ANY doubts (which you obviously do - you did ask our opinions) it'd be best if you don't just go up to him and ask "Are you gay?", as you'll be immediately screwed if he says no. (not the good one)

Simply, the best advice I can give you is: Expect the worst, and be prepared.

[Ezz]

i doesnt agree
maybe that would break the relationship between you and him

just slowly enter the chat to tell him
but not straight

[kevin]

i dont know how to ask him if he is gay can i pleasssssssse have some advice.

Well if your gay-dar is screaming at you then ask him. Have a serious talk with him and if he's really your best friend he'll be fine with you asking. No harm done with that.

[Tal]

Yeah, actually screw most of the first paragraph.

Really, just don't ask straight up ask "Are you gay?" as this will completely wreck any chances of him not making a huge thing of it if he says no. Just approach it lightly, and be prepared for the answer.

Really though, you ARE best friends, you SHOULD have some idea.

[Kev*]

if hes your best friend then tell him and if he says no then say can we please keep this between us
if hes your best friend then he should
1 respect u and your feelings
2 keep it btween u and him like u asked him 2
3 not blow you (fall out with you not give you a blowjob.heha) off just because of your feelings

[Ezz]

Yeah, actually screw most of the first paragraph.

Really, just don't ask straight up ask "Are you gay?" as this will completely wreck any chances of him not making a huge thing of it if he says no. Just approach it lightly, and be prepared for the answer.

Really though, you ARE best friends, you SHOULD have some idea.

i agree anyways
ok i am in hurry now
i will modify this post if i do remember

[Jagador]

To be honest, i would never ask someone up front. If i really had to, i'd take him off to the side where no one will eavesdrop and then ask him. but thats completely optional. The other best way to know is through email or IM. For me, i have this instinct that i can tell if someone is gay or not.. so if you can look for clues or hints to see if he is or isn't, most of the time, guys are straight

[Zazu]

This thread is 4 years old. Facepalm. Please DO NOT bump old threads.

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