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Polo2847
August 10th, 2013, 02:54 AM
Sexual feelings for guys, emotional relationship for girls. Anyone else feel this way? How do you KNOW, or FIND OUT your sexuality? People keep saying "You'll know when you get older." I guess you just have to experiment, get close with people, and ride along?
Eddie.37
August 10th, 2013, 04:21 AM
I get the same feeling. They say it's hormones in your teens, but maybe if it stays when you get older, then you can decide if you're gay or bi
Harley Quinn
August 10th, 2013, 08:17 AM
P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality.
Laquifa
August 10th, 2013, 09:14 AM
If it doesn't change as you get older, then you're one of the few whose romantic orientation and sexual orientation are completely different.
teen.jpg
August 10th, 2013, 09:31 AM
Who the hell told you you'll know "when you get older"? Thats bullshit. If they were sure they were straight, then we can be just as sure.
jaci2017
August 10th, 2013, 11:18 AM
I'm the same way. But since I'm a girl it's lust for girls love for guys. Right now I just think of myself as bisexual, but when I'm ready I think I'll "experiment" to see if I can develop romantic feeling for a girl or sexual feelings for a guy.
Lovelife090994
August 10th, 2013, 05:31 PM
If it doesn't change as you get older, then you're one of the few whose romantic orientation and sexual orientation are completely different.
That's possible? That sounds like my case. I like what I like but I don't love what I like as in I feel emotionally attached with girls but only get physical attraction to them if I like them, but I feel physical attraction to guys sometimes. I know that is odd but that's me now.
Luminous
August 10th, 2013, 05:44 PM
If it doesn't change as you get older, then you're one of the few whose romantic orientation and sexual orientation are completely different.
That sounds right to me. If it's correct I'm warning you now you could have a challenging life ahead of you. However you could end up lusting after someone you love as well. Sometimes you don't know. It seems to be a very unique situation.
collapsing_rain
November 9th, 2013, 06:53 PM
I feel the same way too. Its nothing wrong
Nottoocool
November 9th, 2013, 11:46 PM
I feel the same exact way. I feel more biromantic though but still, it's tough. I like a girl in my grade but am holding back because of my homo thoughts
satarra3180
November 9th, 2013, 11:57 PM
This is exactly how I feel too. I think its perfectly normal.
workingatperfect
November 10th, 2013, 12:04 AM
I'm similar in that I lust after both sexes, but am only romantically drawn to men. I prefer not to label it. I like who I like and I'll date who I like regardless of what they are and that's that.
But I knew how I felt for sure when I got a little more mature and could really separate feeling of attraction to actual romantic feelings. I dated the only girl I ever had a true crush on and although she was best friend and I loved with all my heart, I couldn't be with her that way. And that was when I knew, a girl will never be enough for me, emotionally or physically.
petr970
November 10th, 2013, 03:19 PM
Sexual feelings for guys, emotional relationship for girls. Anyone else feel this way? How do you KNOW, or FIND OUT your sexuality? People keep saying "You'll know when you get older." I guess you just have to experiment, get close with people, and ride along?
I was feeling the same way few years ago.I wanted to have sex with boys,but i couldn't picture myself in a relationship with boy.So i experimented once or twice(not sex just HJs) with a friend and the more i experimented the more i started to develop feelings for boys.Now i know for sure that i am gay.I want to marry a boy, i want to live with a boy and etc..I am not saying that this will happen to you ,i am simply saying to experiment with someone(if you have a chance) and wait to see what will happen.It may be just a fase,but you may turn out to be gay.I wish you good luck.
P.S.I am sorry for my bad english,not my mother language.
Amazerful
November 10th, 2013, 04:21 PM
I'm the opposite
Connor.
November 10th, 2013, 04:58 PM
In some cases I like how boys look, but I couldn't see myself in a relationship with a boy. I have had the feeling I should experiment with them, but no relationships. I see my future relationship with a girl and a family.
Hausofpop
November 29th, 2013, 10:19 PM
I've sexually experimented with a guy, but I can't see myself being in a relationship with one.
Elysium
November 29th, 2013, 10:24 PM
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