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DDAx
August 9th, 2013, 11:11 PM
We started talking in feb I think and we met each other around march, She was honestly, perfect. She liked the same things as me and by the end of march, I became her best friends leaning toward boyfriend.
We started dating around july and it was amazing, I felt as if it was only me and her in the world...
Moving away from the mushy gushy stuff..
She one day turned around and said: 'I fucked *classified* last night, I'm sorry.
I just turned away and walked off, later I said that we no longer together.
I still have feelings, rather strong ones, AND not to mention, we were best friends so I really miss her but on the other hand, she did that... so, I'm asking any of you, What should I do?
I appreciate all and every reply! Thanks everyone, in advance :D x

CharlieHorse
August 9th, 2013, 11:25 PM
Talk to him/her and be honest.
Communication is the only way to make anything happen regarding relationships.

Plasma
August 9th, 2013, 11:47 PM
That sucks man. Even though she's perfect she's shown that she can't really be trusted. She did tell you about it though, which means she felt bad and cares about you. I guess its really your call. If you choose to end it, there probably is another girl out there who is better for you

DDAx
August 9th, 2013, 11:57 PM
Talk to him/her and be honest.
Communication is the only way to make anything happen regarding relationships.


I did, but she always seems to divert from answering: why? so it's quite hard to communicate to her :/

That sucks man. Even though she's perfect she's shown that she can't really be trusted. She did tell you about it though, which means she felt bad and cares about you. I guess its really your call. If you choose to end it, there probably is another girl out there who is better for you

I guess you're right! thanks a million guys! :D

Gumleaf
August 10th, 2013, 01:37 AM
That sounds really casual to come out and say 'btw, i slept with joe blow last night, sorry'. When you are in an exclusive relationship, that's what it is and persumably you were. As the person earlier said, when trust is an issue, the relationship is an issue. We can't tell you what to do, but when you've effectively been cheated on, you're well within your rights to end the relationship.