Need Someone 2 Talk To help appreciated bros :)

[anonymouslyseductive]

Hey Guys (:

What's up? Thanks for clicking on my thread - its amazing that perfect strangers want to help out worried teens (:. Faith in humanity restored haha.

Anyway, about me. I'm 15 years and 8 months old, of Indian ethnicity, 5'7 tall. I'm in Tanner Stage 3 and a good way through it. My pubes are getting quite thick around my penis, and you can clearly see the 'head'. I'm about 4.2 inches erect, but that's being generous.

The only problem I'm having is that I can't ejaculate. I used to masturbate when I was younger and nothing would happen, I'd get bored and stop. I guess that's cuz I wasn't developed enough. Now, however it feels great, and I get to a stage where I get a strange feeling in my penis that prompts me to stop. I try to push through it sometimes but it doesn't feel nice so I stop.

Do I have a problem? Should I go to a doctor? I haven't heard anyone report a problem such as this yet, so I'm not sure what exactly I'm going through.

Also, I will be doing my GCSEs next year and my and friends and I are planning a holiday afterwards. Now I'm sure you all know what happens on a lads holiday, but for me its a serious issue.

I need to be taller and just generally be more developed be it muscle growth or shoulder width. I can't enjoy a holiday like that as a child.

I don't know. Childhood was cool, but frankly I'm done with it and want to grow up now. Am I just a late bloomer, or is there a more serious underlying issue?

Your thoughts and ideas are appreciated!

-A.S.

[Johnisbi]

No issue at all. You'll cum when you're ready too. You can, however, speed it along. Make sure you're jacking off to porn, and that the volume is up (women groaning can be very arousing). Also, lube and condoms can help too, as using them makes the masterbation feel more like an event, rather than an earge. Above all, relax. You're not gonna cum when your stressed an anxious.

Also, remeber to try for at least 10 mins. Durinh sex, 10 mins is the average time for men to last without ejaculating, so if you're not done in 3 mins, don't worry, thats normal, and the ladies will appreciate it if you last longer.

Contact me (I have Skype and you can email/message me on here) of you want more information.

Hope I helped, and good luck :)

[harley95]

Hi and welcome to VT!
I think your just a late bloomer but if it really concerns you you can go see a Doctor.
As for the feeling in you penis when you masturbate, I used to get that but shortly after that I started ejaculating. Your penis is just too sensitive now and it has to get used to the use lol
Hope I helped! :)
Harley

[anonymouslyseductive]

No issue at all. You'll cum when you're ready too. You can, however, speed it along. Make sure you're jacking off to porn, and that the volume is up (women groaning can be very arousing). Also, lube and condoms can help too, as using them makes the masterbation feel more like an event, rather than an earge. Above all, relax. You're not gonna cum when your stressed an anxious.

Also, remeber to try for at least 10 mins. Durinh sex, 10 mins is the average time for men to last without ejaculating, so if you're not done in 3 mins, don't worry, thats normal, and the ladies will appreciate it if you last longer.

Contact me (I have Skype and you can email/message me on here) of you want more information.

Hope I helped, and good luck :)


Thanks bro that was really reassuring. If I need help I'll be sure to hit u up? Feel free to return the favour BTW I'll try to help u if u need anything (:

[anonymouslyseductive]

Hi and welcome to VT!
I think your just a late bloomer but if it really concerns you you can go see a Doctor.
As for the feeling in you penis when you masturbate, I used to get that but shortly after that I started ejaculating. Your penis is just too sensitive now and it has to get used to the use lol
Hope I helped! :)
Harley

I think I'll hold off on the doctor until I'm 16. These things seem to sort themselves out so no need to make a big deal I guess.

The feeling I have only comes right at the end, until then it all feels amazing. Its like a tightening feeling up the shaft of mynpenis Idk how to describe it. Was yours similar? How long does it last?

Thanks bro again :)

[harley95]

Ya mine was just about the same. If you have any more questions feel free to email me! :)

[anonymouslyseductive]

Ya mine was just about the same. If you have any more questions feel free to email me! :)

You have no idea how relieving that is. Can you tell me a bit more? How old were you? How big was your penis - did it grow a lot afterwards? Were u far thru puberty? When did the feeling go away?

The reason I'm posting this instead of emailing u is that maybe it can help someone else in my position after all, I couldn't find anything like that on the interwebz.

[HAYES]

Most likely, your a late bloomer. In about a year if youre still in the same problem i would go to a doctor

[ChrisA1998]

Hey Guys (:

What's up? Thanks for clicking on my thread - its amazing that perfect strangers want to help out worried teens (:. Faith in humanity restored haha.

Anyway, about me. I'm 15 years and 8 months old, of Indian ethnicity, 5'7 tall. I'm in Tanner Stage 3 and a good way through it. My pubes are getting quite thick around my penis, and you can clearly see the 'head'. I'm about 4.2 inches erect, but that's being generous.

The only problem I'm having is that I can't ejaculate. I used to masturbate when I was younger and nothing would happen, I'd get bored and stop. I guess that's cuz I wasn't developed enough. Now, however it feels great, and I get to a stage where I get a strange feeling in my penis that prompts me to stop. I try to push through it sometimes but it doesn't feel nice so I stop.

Do I have a problem? Should I go to a doctor? I haven't heard anyone report a problem such as this yet, so I'm not sure what exactly I'm going through.

Also, I will be doing my GCSEs next year and my and friends and I are planning a holiday afterwards. Now I'm sure you all know what happens on a lads holiday, but for me its a serious issue.

I need to be taller and just generally be more developed be it muscle growth or shoulder width. I can't enjoy a holiday like that as a child.

I don't know. Childhood was cool, but frankly I'm done with it and want to grow up now. Am I just a late bloomer, or is there a more serious underlying issue?

Your thoughts and ideas are appreciated!

-A.S.

I'm the same as you, I'm 15 yo and half, and I still dont cum yet. But I am wel ladvanced into puberty.
the doc told me usually ejaculating comes during the beginning of puberty, but sometimes it can be the last thing, so I guess there is nothing wrong with you, but if you want to be sure, go see a doctor, he can check it out and will have you do exams if necessary, so you will know exactly where you're at ;-)

[Sam.l]

I think I'll hold off on the doctor until I'm 16. These things seem to sort themselves out so no need to make a big deal I guess.

The feeling I have only comes right at the end, until then it all feels amazing. Its like a tightening feeling up the shaft of mynpenis Idk how to describe it. Was yours similar? How long does it last?

Thanks bro again :)



i am the same hope it goes away soon

[justin 13]

Dude Im 13 and i don't have a single lame pube in my willy and my dad told me he got his at 15..so welcome to the club of late bloomers.

[Steven1]

You're probably just a late bloomer. Some can ejaculate at 9, some not till 19. There's nothing you can to do speed it up, despite what others have said. At 15 the average stage is 4, so you're not dramatically behind the average. Tanner Stages 3/4 are where most of the growth takes place, so even if you do only get to 4 then you should at least be taller and have broader shoulders. If you start to really hate it or think something is seriously wrong then a trip to the doctors wouldn't hurt.

[Jaiv6]

Speak to me

[ComfortableInChaos]

I wanna grow up too haha I loved my childhood, but I'm over it. I don't think you're too much of a late bloomer, or ahead of schedule. I just think you're about on pace. I think I'm about the same around where you are and I'm about 15 and 5 months

[unknown1234]

when i first started to ejaculate (cum) i was 12 and i had the same feeling but i think its just because it is your first proper ejaculation and i wouldnt worry.

[MrTyphoon]

yeah hey man im 15 two if you need any help just pop me up on my page and ill send you my email or whatever, here if you need anything

[Buckeyefan11]

If you are that worried just see a doctor