sister found out

[Hermes96]

i was i n oxford the other week and i sudnly got this call of my sister so i picked up and she yells down the phone "What Is Virtual Teens and why do you have an acount?" so i freeze and drop my phone and it turns off. when i turn off my phone i have like a million missed calls and texts asking if im gay and i'm sat on the floor crying hours away from my friends and my home lost on what to do. so when i get home i go and ring my mates amy and abby and have a masive long covo finaly i get a text off my sister saying that i'm to young to no and that shes pissed that i didnt tell her. we now talk to each other but that friendship we used to have is lost and i cant help but hate myself for letting her find out from the web but on the other hand i don't have to lie to her any more

[NikosamA98]

Well, you just have to talk with her and be honest. She knows you have an account on VT so she could see everything you post. On the other hand, do your parents ands friends know about this? Could she tell your parents? I don't think it is that bad that your sister knows if you trust her and vice versa. If you want to recover the friendship with your sister (you said it wasn't the same) just talk and do nice things together :D

[ElliEvens]

It might not have been the way you would have preferred her to find out but if you are close and want that relationship to be fixed I would suggest taking advantage of the fact that she now does know and talk with her and be open with her. In the end not having to hide might make the relationship stronger.

[melskerz]

This isn't a Gay site. WTF tell her to back off.

[Pierce]

Don't blame yourself for having an account on this site. The right thing for her to have done would not bring it up or talk to you about it calmly regardless of how she felt about you being gay. I try to put the least amount of personal info possible on this site because I'm paranoid and think someone I know will figure out who I am. Best of luck with this man. She'll come around eventually you just got to give her time.

[Hermes96]

thanks and yes my parents do know that im gay

[teen.jpg]

Tell her to mind her damn business and not rush you out of the closet. It was none of her business to check your VT, or ask you those kind of questions until you were ready and sure you wanted to tell her.

[janman1]

bumped. But if still on then I got one question for her. How did she find out about your profile here?

[NikosamA98]

bumped. But if still on then I got one question for her. How did she find out about your profile here?



Its not that hard when you have photos and a skype. Also, she could have read the webs visited on the PC.

I'm totally unprotected since every profile/account I have is NikosamA98 and I have photos D:

But c'est la vie and if someone finds out, what's the matter? Unless is one of my homophobic uncles or conservative aunts or my dad

[Hermes96]

i don't know some sent her the link over ask fm and thanks for all your help we are getting back to our old selves thanks again for posting

[Josh from SoCal]

This isn't a Gay site. WTF tell her to back off.

I totally agree.