i need some help im confused

[Hawk1248]

I have a boy friend... I'm gay and well he never talks to me unless he well wants me or needs something what does this mean??

[Gumleaf]

Generally speaking, whether it's a relationship or otherwise, that sort of treatment on a regular basis indicates you are being used by that person.

[laurakoller0815]

hello:) what nice opportunity to reply as first. take your guts and ask him streight forward what you have in your mind. i think thats a good way to get the picture you are asking for. hopefully you get an answer you will like.

[Hawk1248]

The thing is I can never hay ahold of him, he always cancels everything and its hard for me to be my self around him like I used to be able to

[Abyssal Echo]

Generally speaking, whether it's a relationship or otherwise, that sort of treatment on a regular basis indicates you are being used by that person.

I have to agree with Gumleaf you are being used

[Hawk1248]

:'( ok

[Gumleaf]

Sorry dude, I realise it's not what you want to hear. But I really do think you are just being used. But it's better you come to that realisation now then later on.

[Hawk1248]

Ok thanks

[Extreme586]

Maybe you should talk to him before jumping to conclusions. Everything you told us is a bit vague for starters. It sounds like your being used but for what exactly? When he wants something, what does he want?

[Hawk1248]

I'll get in trouble for saying

[NikosamA98]

Well...il I'm not expert in relationships but maybe he is being socially pressured. I mean...does everybody knows you both are boyfriends? Do they know he is gay? (his friends). I remember I had a friend with benefits who likes me (yes, he still does) and I never wanted to be around him because I was scared of my friends and people at school so we were together only when there was no one around. I couldn't even talk with him like friends. Is he in the same situation, maybe?

P.D.: I talk more with my ex-friend with benefits now than when we were a "couple"

[Hawk1248]

Hmm this could be it...

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Dump him.