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sixguy6
August 8th, 2013, 11:36 PM
Ive been feeling very sad lately but I mean like I still laugh and stuff but when I start thinking about things and it just gets me worked up and tears run down my cheeks but I dont like cry cry I just tear and I think about what my life would be like if I just ran away from home and itsnot bbecause my parents are mean its just I need something in my life to change if not I fear I might slip into depression or something and I just cant I would love to run away but I fear losing family and people I know but I would like to but idk I just dont know:( tel me your opinions about this or something please and maybe we can talk or idk but seriously answer back need help im lost

Extreme586
August 9th, 2013, 02:48 AM
Something in your life is bothering you, it almost seems like you have a whole in your heart and something is missing. I feel like running away too sometimes but it is usually a result of friend issues or relationship issues? I could probably help you more if you get more into detail with your life because right now your a bit vague.

1_21Guns
August 9th, 2013, 05:56 AM
It sounds like everything's getting on top of you, maybe lots of little things? Like Austin said you're a little vague. You sound very anxious of the future, like you feel like you're not getting anywhere? Find a hobby you enjoy, try new things, open yourself up to new possibilities, embrace life and don't let yourself run and hide from things that might never happen

sixguy6
August 9th, 2013, 09:22 AM
Something in your life is bothering you, it almost seems like you have a whole in your heart and something is missing. I feel like running away too sometimes but it is usually a result of friend issues or relationship issues? I could probably help you more if you get more into detail with your life because right now your a bit vague.

Oh hey yeah I do feel like there is something missing you know like I feel really down and I try to hold it back and I can and nobody notices idk I juat know its something

It sounds like everything's getting on top of you, maybe lots of little things? Like Austin said you're a little vague. You sound very anxious of the future, like you feel like you're not getting anywhere? Find a hobby you enjoy, try new things, open yourself up to new possibilities, embrace life and don't let yourself run and hide from things that might never happen

Yes I think all the small things are just piling up and creating a big problem and sorry I am vague but thats what I felt and I am anxious about the future like if I dont have one and I dont open up with people so I never tell my family im down or something I just keep it to myself I never discuss it with anybody this my first time I dont have that comunication with my parents I love them very much but I just cant tell them

ShadowBlade
August 9th, 2013, 01:52 PM
I am in a same phase. But I think it is a temoparly situation. For me (yes, I allow you to judge me :P) a glass of a good bourbon, music and a lot of thinking helpes me cope with it.

1_21Guns
August 9th, 2013, 02:47 PM
Yes I think all the small things are just piling up and creating a big problem and sorry I am vague but thats what I felt and I am anxious about the future like if I dont have one and I dont open up with people so I never tell my family im down or something I just keep it to myself I never discuss it with anybody this my first time I dont have that comunication with my parents I love them very much but I just cant tell them

I think you need to pluck up the courage and talk to them about it, you must have a good relationship with them and I'm sure they'd be happy to help you figure out where you want to go in life and how to get there :)

sixguy6
August 9th, 2013, 10:40 PM
I think you need to pluck up the courage and talk to them about it, you must have a good relationship with them and I'm sure they'd be happy to help you figure out where you want to go in life and how to get there :)

I dont know I just can't I dont tell them things like that but I just feel like there is something missing you know I just feel like crying for days but hold it back

I am in a same phase. But I think it is a temoparly situation. For me (yes, I allow you to judge me :P) a glass of a good bourbon, music and a lot of thinking helpes me cope with it.

Well I am going to judge you thats not a good way to deal with problems its just really no offense stupid that people do that I dont drink to hide my feelings I just dont talk about it if im mad I just workout more if im sad I watch a funny movie and stuff like that but this sadness isn't just sadness its sorrow

1_21Guns
August 10th, 2013, 05:40 AM
I dont know I just can't I dont tell them things like that but I just feel like there is something missing you know I just feel like crying for days but hold it back

Try to stop telling yourself you can't and just try to, maybe write it down instead so you don't actually have to say it? You shouldn't really hold back feeling like crying, it'll be partially to blame for your build up feelings so try not to, sometimes you just have to let yourself cry, you never know after you've had a good cry you might realise what's missing :)

sixguy6
August 10th, 2013, 09:58 AM
Try to stop telling yourself you can't and just try to, maybe write it down instead so you don't actually have to say it? You shouldn't really hold back feeling like crying, it'll be partially to blame for your build up feelings so try not to, sometimes you just have to let yourself cry, you never know after you've had a good cry you might realise what's missing :)

Idk im not going to tell them and I feel like if one more thing happens im just going to break down and start crying its to much

1_21Guns
August 10th, 2013, 09:59 AM
Idk im not going to tell them and I feel like if one more thing happens im just going to break down and start crying its to much

Then let yourself, like I said holding it back only makes things worse

sixguy6
August 10th, 2013, 10:16 AM
Then let yourself, like I said holding it back only makes things worse

I know thanks for the advice I really apreciate it:yummy:

And the I didn't know the smiley face was doing that sorry and maybe I will cry I just is to hard idk I need someones help

1_21Guns
August 10th, 2013, 10:39 AM
I know thanks for the advice I really apreciate it:yummy:

no problem :)

ShadowBlade
August 10th, 2013, 02:02 PM
Well I am going to judge you thats not a good way to deal with problems its just really no offense stupid that people do that I dont drink to hide my feelings I just dont talk about it if im mad I just workout more if im sad I watch a funny movie and stuff like that but this sadness isn't just sadness its sorrow

I am not drinking to get drunk. I found out that a little alcohol helps me concentrate and find better solutions, e.t.c.

sixguy6
August 10th, 2013, 11:22 PM
I am not drinking to get drunk. I found out that a little alcohol helps me concentrate and find better solutions, e.t.c.

Oh ok whatever you say man thanks for the advice