Asking a girl out

[TheRealMe]

Theres this girl at my school whos got a great personality, and I want to ask her out. The problem, is that I only have a class with her for a week, so I can get to know her really. Is it weird to just ask a girl out up front? And how should I do it?

[RIP_banana]

are you like good friends with this girl?
like do you talk much?

have you thought of talking to her more at lunch so you do get to know her better?

[TheRealMe]

Ive only run into her in the hallways, and in my last class. She knows me, but would notice me if I didn't say hello.

[RIP_banana]

well make sure you do say hello.
to be honest. you probably have more of a chance of getting her to say yes. if you wait a while. and let her get to know you. then if you just ask her out. just talk to her.
and make and effoert to see ehr at lunch and stuff. and once you know her more. then ask her out :)

[TheRealMe]

Thats the problem! I only have a week before I probably wont see her again D:

Should I ask her if she wants to hang out? Or just talk to her while I can?

[RIP_banana]

well.
just talk to her for a couple of days. and then after that. ask her to hand out or something.
grab her contact numbers.
and make sure you keep in touch. and if you seem like you have hit it off before you can't see her. ask her out.

but why wont you see her?

[TheRealMe]

Ive been at my school for 3 years, and only seen her 3 times D:

Plus, Im really shy unless someone else sparks up a conversation with me. And I never know what to say, like, if its to strong or not funny. Pretty much, I put my self down, and if I think about talking to her for to long, I start to feel retarded.

[RIP_banana]

just go up to her and talk to her.
or if you feel like you can't. then get a friend to come up with you. so then its not just one on one. and then you may get more confitent.
if you really like this girl then you will just go up to her and talk to her. just say what you think is natural and whats not lame.
haha

[TheRealMe]

I guess I can just build up the courage to talk to her I guess. Thanks

[RIP_banana]

good on you.
that is all you have to do.
:)

[TheRealMe]

I didnt even say hello yet D:
I cant do it, I just get really nervous around her, or any girls for that matter.

[Gumleaf]

I didnt even say hello yet D:
I cant do it, I just get really nervous around her, or any girls for that matter.


well when you go to talk to a girl, don't think of her as a potential girlfriend or someone you are trying to impress or anything like that. just treat it like meeting a new person and getting to know them. just relax, and be your self.

[TheRealMe]

Ive tried, but I cant even talk to her, the most Ive ever said is hi. I can talk to every one else like I always do, even people I dont konw, but Im just so self conscious.

[Gumleaf]

well the only other thing i can think of is to grab another friend and get them to start a conversation for you with her and then you join in and once your comfortable your friend can quietly leave and then you 2 can chat. otherwise i really don't know.

[TheRealMe]

Sorry if I seem disparate, Im just not good at this ^_^;

I could try it, my friends all know her.

Thanks

[The Batman]

here's what you do if your scared to talk to her try and make her want to approach you first thats what i did with this girl i see everyday after school i walk right beside her and we start talking(but she been dating a guy for 7 months who is actually one of my friends so i can't really try to get to close to her) but anyway it works and sadly I'm starting to like her more but anyway back to you just try to make a situation where she can start the conversation

[RIP_banana]

maybe try not to think of her as a girl you want to impress. just think of her as one of your mates and you are just having a normal conversation. because i am sure that you will act more like yourself that way.

and if you are really that shy about talking to her. i think the best thing to do is take me advise. and walk up to her with another one of your friends. because you may feels more comfortable that way. just to know that there is like support.

dude. you just need to get your confidence up and you will be great. just go for it. and try not to be selfconcious, but there probably isnt anything to worrie abut any way, just be your normal self. and you will be fine

:D:D

[marine_sniperman35]

uhhhh....unless u know her pesonally and u like her, then ask, if u have talked to her once, dude...get to know her. Or don't get to know and screw your love life over completely. My apologies for the sarcastic remark, but recently i learned from experience.

[TheRealMe]

I dont mind sniperman, I was going to try talking to her, but she wasnt there! and shes not going to be there tomorrow ether D:

[The Batman]

i hate when that happens it seems you finally get the courage and then all of a sudden she's not there

[hardcore-smile]

just go up to her and say hi i like you,. and i was wondering if you wanted to go out with me. :)

[racy]

I think the only way you can say "hi" is if you are close enough to talk to her. So you have to arrange to be near her. Then it is polite to greet anyone close to you, so say hi right away when it is just a courtesy greeting. Then no one gets embarrassed about it being a come-on.