Girlfriend keeps making comments about my penis being small?

[internetuser123abc]

So we have been together for about 3 months and we're both 16. We have only done oral once on each other (and that's all) but ever since we did it 2 weeks ago she has been making sly comments about about my it being small. She doesn't say it straight up, she just makes comments and then gives me this look, so that I know what she is talking about.

Now, I didn't think I was that small, I'm just above 6.5" long and 5.5" around. Is that small? This is the first girl I've done anything with and every time she says something it just breaks my confidence more. She is so beautiful and I don't want to break up with her but she is really hurting my feelings. I need some advice. Thanks.

[Harry Smith]

I think this is more in place here since it's about your relationship

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[Harley Quinn]

She's being a dick for the sake of it. Personally, I would tell her she needs to either say it properly and get it out of her system or shut up about it. You're not small at all, if she's making you feel like shit, she needs to know. You need to talk to her about it and if it continues, I suggest you may want to think about breaking up with her as she's being rude for no reason.

[justinglives]

Tell her how u feel. She may think she is being funny and cute. Girls dont seem to understand the whole undermining confidence vs. Being funny stuff.

[Gumleaf]

She's being a dick for the sake of it. Personally, I would tell her she needs to either say it properly and get it out of her system or shut up about it. You're not small at all, if she's making you feel like shit, she needs to know. You need to talk to her about it and if it continues, I suggest you may want to think about breaking up with her as she's being rude for no reason.

I agree. You are indeed average size so for a start, you're not small and if she seriously expecting more, there is only a small minority that will be good for her in bed...... I would talk to her about it first, she may just be joking or whatever. But if that doesn't work, then I would consider breaking up, as Siobhan said, because this relationship will go nowhere while ever she is making you feel uncomfortable about your body.

[PinkFloyd]

You need to straight up ask her if she thinks you're small. If she says yes, tell her that you're average adult size and that she's been watching too much porn.

Something like that shouldn't be judged anyways.

[blackskinhead]

you got to show her who is boss and put her in a place, say something insulting like your breasts are small(something like that) or i guess you can express yourslef but dont be to emotional

[ovoxo23]

So we have been together for about 3 months and we're both 16. We have only done oral once on each other (and that's all) but ever since we did it 2 weeks ago she has been making sly comments about about my it being small. She doesn't say it straight up, she just makes comments and then gives me this look, so that I know what she is talking about.

Now, I didn't think I was that small, I'm just under 6" long and 5" around. Is that small? This is the first girl I've done anything with and every time she says something it just breaks my confidence more. She is so beautiful and I don't want to break up with her but she is really hurting my feelings. I need some advice. Thanks.

You need to ask her if she's just messing around or if she's serious. You need to tell her that she is hurting your feelings and it really isn't funny. If she's being serious then maybe you should break it off, because that's fucked up.

[Abyssal Echo]

She's being a dick for the sake of it. Personally, I would tell her she needs to either say it properly and get it out of her system or shut up about it. You're not small at all, if she's making you feel like shit, she needs to know. You need to talk to her about it and if it continues, I suggest you may want to think about breaking up with her as she's being rude for no reason.

I agree. You are indeed average size so for a start, you're not small and if she seriously expecting more, there is only a small minority that will be good for her in bed...... I would talk to her about it first, she may just be joking or whatever. But if that doesn't work, then I would consider breaking up, as Siobhan said, because this relationship will go nowhere while ever she is making you feel uncomfortable about your body.

I agree with Bacon and Gumleaf. you are not small and that you need to talk to her about what she's saying and how it makes you feel. If things don't change after talking to her then I would suggest breaking up with her.

[Luminous]

She's being a dick for the sake of it. Personally, I would tell her she needs to either say it properly and get it out of her system or shut up about it. You're not small at all, if she's making you feel like shit, she needs to know. You need to talk to her about it and if it continues, I suggest you may want to think about breaking up with her as she's being rude for no reason.

This.

[internetuser123abc]

OK so I told her how I feel and asked her straight up and she basically said yes she thinks I'm small and that she's just having fun. She said that she could "deal with it" if she has to.

I think I will break up with her. But now she has told her friends and I'm getting messages about it from them on fb. I don't know how many people know about it and I don't know what to say to them when they ask about it. This is just wrong :(. I would start a rumour about her but I still really like her and I don't think she deserves that.
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[Gumleaf]

OK so I told her how I feel and asked her straight up and she basically said yes she thinks I'm small and that she's just having fun. She said that she could "deal with it" if she has to.

I think I will break up with her. But now she has told her friends and I'm getting messages about it from them on fb. I don't know how many people know about it and I don't know what to say to them when they ask about it. This is just wrong :(. I would start a rumour about her but I still really like her and I don't think she deserves that.
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That's not good dude. For a guy, that's about the worst rumour that can be spread about you, especially when this girl assumes all guys must be hung like a horse. Hopefully most people will forget about it soon enough and you can all move on.

[CharlieHorse]

So we have been together for about 3 months and we're both 16. We have only done oral once on each other (and that's all) but ever since we did it 2 weeks ago she has been making sly comments about about my it being small. She doesn't say it straight up, she just makes comments and then gives me this look, so that I know what she is talking about.

Now, I didn't think I was that small, I'm just under 6" long and 5" around. Is that small? This is the first girl I've done anything with and every time she says something it just breaks my confidence more. She is so beautiful and I don't want to break up with her but she is really hurting my feelings. I need some advice. Thanks.

Did asking her about it or talking to her about it ever come to mind?

General relationship advice. ALWAYS keep good communication about everything in your relationship.

[blackskinhead]

something isnt right......the only thing i can say is have sex with her and then you will see if your still "small" to her. this is wrong. girls cant do that to me. you just gotta take charge

[laurakoller0815]

well that really mean to tell somebody his is "too small"

[teen.jpg]

It shouldn't even matter. It's a relationship, not friends with benefits. She may not be worth your while, bud.

[Camazotz]

OK so I told her how I feel and asked her straight up and she basically said yes she thinks I'm small and that she's just having fun. She said that she could "deal with it" if she has to.

Your girlfriend is a moron; whether or not you could "deal with it" is up to you, but personally, she sounds like she's more trouble than she's worth.

But now she has told her friends and I'm getting messages about it from them on fb. I don't know how many people know about it and I don't know what to say to them when they ask about it. This is just wrong :(

It's very wrong. That's not how you treat a boyfriend/girlfriend, and that's definitely not something to share with "friends." At this point, it's not even worth "discussing". Just tell her that she's being a jerk, a bully, and her drama isn't worth your time.

I would start a rumour about her but I still really like her and I don't think she deserves that.

Be the mature one and your reputation will get better. People respect that sort of thing. Starting your own rumors and drama would be the low thing to do, although I will admit saying something would probably be effective and make her feel guilty and take away some "validity" from her rumor. Don't tolerate her behavior because "you still like her," she obviously doesn't feel the same way if that's how she treats you, and you deserve better than that. If it were me, I'd be the bigger person and walk away.

It shouldn't even matter. It's a relationship, not friends with benefits. She may not be worth your while, bud.

Exactly. A relationship is about being with someone that makes you feel good and vice-versa, and if neither of you are satisfied with the relationship, it's not worth your time.

[justin.nel3]

If she thinks your penis is small then the only thing that is smaal is her brain , and no girl can judge you by your size of your penis!!

[marrisa]

My god I would take her out with the trash.Your size is fine.She is just trying to hurt you I guess.

[Josh from SoCal]

She can't say too much with your dick in her mouth.

Seriously, as far as size goes, you are average but most girls who are worth anything don't care about it as much as we do.

If she doesn't have even the smallest amount of respect and feelings for you, which it sounds like she doesn't, then she isn't much of a girlfriend. Ditch her and move on. Ik willingly giving up oral sex seems crazy but believe me you will meet someone worthy of your skills. ;)

[justin 13]

Dude Im not into grils at all, but I wud say first try to listen to her maybe she has the wrong information about dicks and sizes. try to care your relation with her. and BTW you r not small.