coming out stories!!

[GAYCHO]

Hey this is my first post woop lol
anyway i practically no im gay and to be honest i lyk bein gay i men i have the odd day when i find myself sayin r u reli nd stuff lyk tht bt then agen im fine with it
ive cm out to 4 of my friends and they were all fine i told myself tht they would reject me and i wldnt hv tht many friends afta bt i do so im happy for the mo
id love to hear anyones comin out stories and see how bad/ good they can go
im thinking at the moment wether 2 cm out 2 my family. This thing with that is tha
1. my family is christian and our church says homosexuality is a sin etc which i so dont believe bt yeh thts 1 thing
2. My dads homofobic and literaly says all gay people shld b put on an island
3. My mum told me a few months ago tht i was born and brought up 2 be a boy and i will be and as long as she lives i wont be gay
4. If i do come out i am very strongly awear that my parents may ask 2 take me to a phyciatrist or sumthing lyk that or just chuck me out of the house this i one of my worst fears and if it happened i dont no wat i would do
5. i was thinking of waitin until afta or befor uni sorri i forgot 2 say im 15 and im a boy btw erm yeh
6. i no this is a long list sorri erm i am very depressed at the moment e.g not going a day without crying and if i go out wit my frineds i cont get excited and be happy
finaly 7. i havent had a boyfriend its hard enough covering up hu i am without trying 2 find a guy and i dont have any gay friends which isnt bad bad bt id luv 2 tlk 2 sum of u gay people on hear and see how ur comin out stories went

thnx for any replies

GayCho

[Zephyr]

I'm not homosexual myself, but my best friend's coming out story is something else.

He got in a fight at school with a straight guy who was calling him fag in the cafeteria and throwing pieces of his muffin at the both of us. My friend got super irritated so he went over to this guys table and had him pinned down and was getting ready to beat the crap out of him. At this point, I left the cafeteria because I didn't want to get in trouble. Now, you have to know that on my friend's behalf of staying in the closet, we pretended that we were dating whenever we were at his house. Well, the vice principal, Mr. Johnson, had called my friend's parents,(who are very conservative, republican and christian), and told them the whole story. He ended up coming out to them after he got home from school that day, I went with him for support. They came very close to kicking him out. Finding out that your son is gay through a vice principal... I can only imagine how his parents felt about that. His parents were really disappointed because they thought that we would end up getting married, lmao.

[chris__robin]

yeah that's a long list.

i think that if your parents are THAT against homosexuality you might want to hold off telling them until you are a bit older ... so that if they do kick you out you will be able to support yourself a bit better.

i came out to my friends through a text message lol because i was too scared and tongue tied to say it in person but they were all really accepting of it which was great. my mum found out through my cousin, who found out through someone from my school lol. so that was complicated but yeah she just wanted me to be happy. .. she suggested seeing a psychologist but i told her no i was sure and she was fine with that. but yeah haven't told my dad because we are not that close.

good luck

[GAYCHO]

yeah that's a long list.

I came out to my friends through a text message lol because i was too scared and tongue tied to say it in person

well thtts like me but i told 3 over msn and 1 by text i feel a bit moer confident because ive been able to tlk to them about it and im happy with it atm it is jst worrying about people findidng out im almost parranoid tht il say sumin

thnx for the reply

[SamWam]

I never came out, really. I made out with a guy and he told everyone and it was such a complicated story it was very hard to denounce so I just accepted it lol. Havn't told my parents yet though. They won't mind but I still don't really want to say.

I agree with Chris Robin: wait til you're a bit older, I think but at the end of the day its up to you ;).