Gf is pregnant

[imy234]

Soo by the name of the post my girlfriend is pregnant We ave been going out for a month she had sex before with her ex and now she is 22weeks left my question is what should I do shud I break up or stay. Prersonally I'm not ready

[justinglives]

Soo by the name of the post my girlfriend is pregnant We ave been going out for a month she had sex before with her ex and now she is 22weeks left my question is what should I do shud I break up or stay. Prersonally I'm not ready
Might I suggest u check my post "she.s pregnant"
I got lots of help there.
I bolted.

[Harley Quinn]

We cannot tell you what to do, if you don't feel ready, tell her that. If you want to leave, leave. If you feel like you should stay, stay. Don't let a pregnancy keep you in a relationship. However, personally I think you should at least try to adjust yourself and if you still can't do it, break up because she doesn't need someone who won't take care of her properly.

[Zarakly]

In my opinion, if it is you who got her pregnant then you should adjust your new lifestyle. That would be kind of dickish to get a girl pregnant then just abandon her. If, how I understood it, its her ex's baby then you should probably try and get them to talk and work it out. That probably wont work in the long run because they ended up breaking up, but you should just try and stick with it and help her.

It is ultimately up to you what you want to do. You can leave, if you want, I just don't think I would be able to.

[Danny_98]

It would be really harsh to leave her seeing as youwere the one to get her pregnant...

[imy234]

If it was my child I windy need to ask if I shud stay

[Cece14]

Girls dont want the guy to leave, she will want someone there to support here, and be there for here, sometimes, the guy just walks away, never to be seen again and girls hate it!

[xxbiohazzardxx]

Get a test to see its yours
Also go to the doctor and if you do the timing correctly you can track back to when she last had sex with her ex
If it is his you could step up and help her
If your not ready however try talking to her and maybe work something out. Like where does she stand
Does she wanna keep it. If so support her through it
Be there for her :) good luck

[ovoxo23]

Soo by the name of the post my girlfriend is pregnant We ave been going out for a month she had sex before with her ex and now she is 22weeks left my question is what should I do shud I break up or stay. Prersonally I'm not ready

I mean if it's your baby, you shouldn't even be questioning whether or not you should stay. If it's the ex's, I'm not sure. I mean it's pretty harsh to leave her... I think you do need to talk to her and tell her that you're not ready.

[teen.jpg]

You guys can't read, he said it's her ex's baby.

You can support her if you want, but you aren't forced to do so.

[Gumleaf]

I've seen a situation like this with people I know. What happened there was that the new bf (so in this case you) suggested first to the girl that she try and make things right with her ex (the father) for the good of the baby when it comes so it can at least start out with a stable family environment. I found that approach a good perspective. However, I haven't seen these people for nearly 2 years (happened in my last year of school) so i'm not sure what happened after that.

[thatcountrykid]

Soo by the name of the post my girlfriend is pregnant We ave been going out for a month she had sex before with her ex and now she is 22weeks left my question is what should I do shud I break up or stay. Prersonally I'm not ready

I belive that if i was in the situation i would stay with her because if i really cared about her and the ex was out of the way, and even if he wasnt, i would be there to support her in all ways possible. But thats what i would do. It's all up to you bro.

In my opinion, if it is you who got her pregnant then you should adjust your new lifestyle. That would be kind of dickish to get a girl pregnant then just abandon her. If, how I understood it, its her ex's baby then you should probably try and get them to talk and work it out. That probably wont work in the long run because they ended up breaking up, but you should just try and stick with it and help her.

It is ultimately up to you what you want to do. You can leave, if you want, I just don't think I would be able to.

It would be really harsh to leave her seeing as youwere the one to get her pregnant...

Get a test to see its yours
Also go to the doctor and if you do the timing correctly you can track back to when she last had sex with her ex
If it is his you could step up and help her
If your not ready however try talking to her and maybe work something out. Like where does she stand
Does she wanna keep it. If so support her through it
Be there for her :) good luck

I mean if it's your baby, you shouldn't even be questioning whether or not you should stay. If it's the ex's, I'm not sure. I mean it's pretty harsh to leave her... I think you do need to talk to her and tell her that you're not ready.

It cant be his. its her ex's baby.


Please don't double post, use the edit button instead. ~Bacon.

[Luminous]

Since it's her ex's baby you aren't really obliged to stay or go or take care of the kid. If you don't want to take on role as dad you can tell her you would rather be there to support and love her as a friend not boyfriend. She'll probably freak out or cry no matter what you say so be prepared (it's called pregnancy hormones!!)

[Jess]

You don't have to stay, but maybe it's best if you do to support her and be there for her even if it's not yours. Support her in whatever she decides, like whether or not she wants to keep the baby

[xxbiohazzardxx]

At this point right now she needs the moral support
She needs to know somebody is there for her
Even if you aren't willing to support the baby Then at least you can be there for her :)

[Camazotz]

Soo by the name of the post my girlfriend is pregnant We ave been going out for a month she had sex before with her ex and now she is 22weeks left my question is what should I do shud I break up or stay. Prersonally I'm not ready

That's your answer. If you're not ready to be in a relationship with someone who is pregnant with someone else's baby, do not feel obligated to stay. There really isn't a right or wrong decision here, you just have to do what you feel is right for you, whether you think you should try and support her or if you feel incapable/ uninterested. No one should judge you either way.

[handle with care]

At this point right now she needs the moral support
She needs to know somebody is there for her
Even if you aren't willing to support the baby Then at least you can be there for her :)

i agree completely even if you aren't ready at least be there for moral support

[CharlieHorse]

Soo by the name of the post my girlfriend is pregnant We ave been going out for a month she had sex before with her ex and now she is 22weeks left my question is what should I do shud I break up or stay. Prersonally I'm not ready

Is the pregnancy caused by the Ex?
if so get out of there now.

[laurakoller0815]

i wont sentence anybody in such a situation but ppl in such a situation should stay together and face the consequences. making up their minds and decide what to do. just running away makes me speechless

[Extreme586]

If you love her and you want to be with her, then stay with her. If you think taking on a baby is too much for you then break up with her. After all it isn't your baby anyways and it is asking quite a lot of you to just take on this role as dad. Ultimately, don't force yourself into a situation that you have no obligation to be in. You HAVE a choice, do what feels right for you.