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Walking_in_Shadows
August 6th, 2013, 07:11 PM
(First of all Im sorry if you dont understand something, I still need to pratice my english)
Well, I have been going to this camp for 1 week and 2 days and like the second day I saw this really cute guy :P, as the extremely shy girl as I am, I just convinced myself that I could never talk to him, I just spend all day looking at him and awkwardly looking away when he turned around (Which I think its pretty sad, for me xD) Anyways, I did start noticing that sometimes I would catch him looking at me when I turned around (because he would instantly look somewhere else) On friday I gathered enough courage to say hi (which was really hard, I spent, no joking, 20 minutes deciding what I should do when he sat next to me) Anyways, I have been talking to him to bits and discovered that he is extremely shy too, and he likes books, so I lend him one that I had that was a good one, I really think that Im starting to like him more and I catched him several times looking at me, one time he even smiled before looking away >////< Ill keep talking to him but I need advice! what can I do when both of us are extremely shy? (theres still like 4 weeks of camp so I have some time) thanks for the help! :D
please?
ShadowBlade
August 7th, 2013, 03:22 PM
Dont't be shy! How old are you? Have you ever been in a relationship?
ovoxo23
August 7th, 2013, 03:25 PM
(First of all Im sorry if you dont understand something, I still need to pratice my english)
Well, I have been going to this camp for 1 week and 2 days and like the second day I saw this really cute guy :P, as the extremely shy girl as I am, I just convinced myself that I could never talk to him, I just spend all day looking at him and awkwardly looking away when he turned around (Which I think its pretty sad, for me xD) Anyways, I did start noticing that sometimes I would catch him looking at me when I turned around (because he would instantly look somewhere else) On friday I gathered enough courage to say hi (which was really hard, I spent, no joking, 20 minutes deciding what I should do when he sat next to me) Anyways, I have been talking to him to bits and discovered that he is extremely shy too, and he likes books, so I lend him one that I had that was a good one, I really think that Im starting to like him more and I catched him several times looking at me, one time he even smiled before looking away >////< Ill keep talking to him but I need advice! what can I do when both of us are extremely shy? (theres still like 4 weeks of camp so I have some time) thanks for the help! :D
Try to open up a bit to him and try nit to be shy. And just be yourself.
xxbiohazzardxx
August 7th, 2013, 03:27 PM
Just try and talk to him
Don't be shy. You said he's shy
Put two and two together you both go well in hand
Try and talk to him and get to know him better
Find out his hobbies and interests etc and see if you guys have anything in common.
Who knows maybe he likes you too
Harry Smith
August 7th, 2013, 03:28 PM
Just talk to him about literally anything so that you can start to develop a friendship and then maybe move it up if your interested in a relationship, from the sounds of it he likes you
Walking_in_Shadows
August 7th, 2013, 04:32 PM
Dont't be shy! How old are you? Have you ever been in a relationship?
2 actually, both of them were online with guys from another country, of course its not the same :p Im 16
Try to open up a bit to him and try nit to be shy. And just be yourself.
Thanks! Ill try ^^"
Just try and talk to him
Don't be shy. You said he's shy
Put two and two together you both go well in hand
Try and talk to him and get to know him better
Find out his hobbies and interests etc and see if you guys have anything in common.
Who knows maybe he likes you too
Well thank you, Ill do my best to start a friendship with him
Just talk to him about literally anything so that you can start to develop a friendship and then maybe move it up if your interested in a relationship, from the sounds of it he likes you
You really think so? Im not getting my hopes too high anyways :p
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ShadowBlade
August 8th, 2013, 01:50 PM
2 actually, both of them were online with guys from another country, of course its not the same :p Im 16
You might be shy because you are afraid or something! Show him your feelings. Talk to him. Or maybe even kiss him. He will like it, I gurantee!
Gumleaf
August 8th, 2013, 07:23 PM
Just talk to him about literally anything so that you can start to develop a friendship and then maybe move it up if your interested in a relationship, from the sounds of it he likes you
I agree with this. Try and forget about a possible relationship right now and try to develop a friendship. You both seem to have some common interests, so you should have things to talk about. You have 4 weeks left. Plenty of time to develop your friendship. Then if things keep going well then maybe things will go further. But my advice now is to develop a friendship first. :)
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