Does my bf want sex?

[Samantha1]

I've had sex once before with my ex around 7 months ago, but I've been dating someone new for 3 weeks now, and everytime we're around one of our houses, he's always feeling my ass, and my boobs and I'm not sure if it's because he wants sex or if it's just a boy thing :confused:

I don't want to rush any kind of sexual intercourse because it's only been 3 weeks.

Does this mean he wants sex? If so do I just come out and say 'I'm not read yet'?

[Harry Smith]

From the sounds of it he's probably just trying to test the boundaries, I mean he could want to have sex or he could want to simply see how far you want to go. Try and talk about it to him subtly see what he thinks about it and if he wants to have sex just tell him that you like him but you want the relationship to develop before you take it further

[ovoxo23]

I've had sex once before with my ex around 7 months ago, but I've been dating someone new for 3 weeks now, and everytime we're around one of our houses, he's always feeling my ass, and my boobs and I'm not sure if it's because he wants sex or if it's just a boy thing :confused:

I don't want to rush any kind of sexual intercourse because it's only been 3 weeks.

Does this mean he wants sex? If so do I just come out and say 'I'm not read yet'?

It seems like that's what he wants. You should definitely tell him you're not ready

[Victory]

If you're comfortable with him doing that, fine. If he tries doing anything that makes you feel wrong or uncomfortable, just let him know. If he doesn't like it, you don't have to be with him. If he sticks with the ass and boob grabbing and you're okay with that, I see no reason to take it too seriously.

[Luminous]

Yeah just tell him you're not ready.

[handle with care]

it seems like hes testing the water to see what your comfortable doing

[Gumleaf]

From the sounds of it he's probably just trying to test the boundaries, I mean he could want to have sex or he could want to simply see how far you want to go. Try and talk about it to him subtly see what he thinks about it and if he wants to have sex just tell him that you like him but you want the relationship to develop before you take it further

I have no doubt that this is what he's doing. Basically what is likely to happen is that he will continue going further with the touching etc until you stop him or say something. My advice would be to either talk to him about what you're both comfortable with in the relationship now so boundaries can be set. Or alternatively, you let him keep doing what he's doing and stop him when or if it becomes uncomfortable for you.

[PinkFloyd]

Trust me. He wants sex. If the subject comes up, just tell him you don't feel ready. He has to understand.

[AmandaGurl]

you def shouldnt do anything u dont wana do. if he gets mad that ur not ready then hes not the one for u

[Charara]

I think it's normal for boyfriends to feel their girlfriends up, it's a boys thing! but if you're not ready then tell him.