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Samantha1
August 6th, 2013, 06:37 PM
Don't get me wrong I am attracted to guys, I like nothing more then seeing a topless good looking guy walking down the street but at school in the changing rooms, I'm always tempted to look at the other girls bodies and I've even pictured some of my closest friends naked at times.
Am I bi, or is this like natural or something?

Obsidian
August 6th, 2013, 06:40 PM
I might be wrong but personally I've never thought that attraction is what makes somebody gay or straight. I could think a girl was totally hot and think about seeing her naked but I still wouldn't consider myself bisexual because I'd never want to have sex or be in a relationship with a girl. I think it's normal to notice that people are attractive and have a nice body, regardless of their gender. If you were interested in having sex with them or being in any kind of intimate relationship with them then that would be different. But I don't think finding them attractive makes you bisexual.

khaos14
August 6th, 2013, 08:32 PM
I ask myself, "would I like to be in a committed relationship with them?" and that answers my question. Sexual curiosity is normal and easily confused for established sexuality.

Pierce
August 9th, 2013, 11:16 AM
Don't get me wrong I am attracted to guys, I like nothing more then seeing a topless good looking guy walking down the street but at school in the changing rooms, I'm always tempted to look at the other girls bodies and I've even pictured some of my closest friends naked at times.
Am I bi, or is this like natural or something?

It's completely normal, I really don't know what to say except that like most teens picture their friends of the same gender naked at times. I'm basing that on what I have read on this site.