Is it alright to just tell a girl I like her if i'm friends with her for about a year

[clueless_one]

I've know the girl I like now for about a year and have just started speaking to her properly and being friends from the beginning of this year.

There was also an excursion which we had to select the venue of where to go to. When in class, I used to speak about the venue and maybe the girl I like over heard and decided to go to the venue too with her friends. On the bus on the way to the venue, she turned around to me and started speaking to me and even her friends started to talk to me. At the venue, it was a friends birthday of the girl I like. One of her friends offered cake and the girl I like said that she made it.

After an exam (just recently), the girl I like was looking/staring at me and when I caught her she looked away. One of her friends looked also and her full group looked another time. They didn't smile or laugh but just looked at me and then went back to speaking to each other. I was with me group of friends at the time and we decided to sit where we have our lunch. I looked towards the area we had exams and saw this girl sitting on the ground looking at me from a distance (only her at this time).

These events made me question if she likes me back or not. The first event occurred this year before I had asked out a girl who had lied. The second event occurred again this year but after I asked out a girl who lied which the girl I like found out about but doesn't know she lied.

So i've known her a little while now. I really like her now also but i'm not sure if she really likes me back and if I should tell her I really like her. So what should I do, should I just tell her I like her and find out if she likes me back (risk the friendship) or tell her I like her and ask her out (have a possibility of a date) or just ask her out?

[WeAreOneRepublic]

So a 2nd thread about the same girl? http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=187981
We don't need to have more than 1 thread to help you. Please try and keep to 1 thread for the same person, sorry if I sound mean. If you have 1 then we can all reply there

[clueless_one]

So a 2nd thread about the same girl? http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=187981
We don't need to have more than 1 thread to help you. Please try and keep to 1 thread for the same person, sorry if I sound mean. If you have 1 then we can all reply there

No one has told me if she seems interested in me and haven't answered this question So what should I do, should I just tell her I like her and find out if she likes me back (risk the friendship) or tell her I like her and ask her out (have a possibility of a date) or just ask her out?

[ShadowBlade]

I think that she might like you. A girl is a better one to advice you, but in my life I always risk friendships. In my opinion if you like her you should tell it to her. If she doesn't like you back, it is OK. You can always find another girlfriend. And of course, if you try you will keep your friend as well.

[clueless_one]

I think that she might like you. A girl is a better one to advice you, but in my life I always risk friendships. In my opinion if you like her you should tell it to her. If she doesn't like you back, it is OK. You can always find another girlfriend. And of course, if you try you will keep your friend as well.

So you saying I should tell her I like her and also ask her out on the same day?

[ShadowBlade]

That's my way. That's what I do. But before that talk to her a lot for 2-3 days in a row in order to understand that you like her. Then tell it that you want to go out for a coffee , a meal or a drink and during your date tell her that you like her. Tip: If she blows you off don't treat her ;-)

[clueless_one]

That's my way. That's what I do. But before that talk to her a lot for 2-3 days in a row in order to understand that you like her. Then tell it that you want to go out for a coffee , a meal or a drink and during your date tell her that you like her. Tip: If she blows you off don't treat her ;-)



previously I asked out a girl who lied about wanting to go out with me. That time she didn't really know I liked her but I said it when she was close by. Some people said that if I ask out a girl just like that she will think it is a date. Will this work also?

[ShadowBlade]

Why not? Girls like to see that you are not a shy guy! Always remember NOT to act normal but to be normal!
Of course not all girls like the same things but as I said that is my way to approach the opposite sex.
Looking forward to see if you got the girl :-D

[Thephantomllama]

You should try to talk her more, was in exactly that same position as you, and the girl in question and I have been going out for nearly 6 months. Try to become friends with her friends as well, trust me, it helps. Another trick is try to meet up with her outside school, but with one of your friends who she gets on with and then a friends of hers, it really worked for me