She is making me so confused if she likes me back or not.

[clueless_one]

Can someone please annotate (in bold) what are the signs of her liking me or if you feel she likes me back. The signs are so confusing and I hope you people can help. You don't have to annotate just tell me if you think she still likes me back.


SIGNS TO ME SHE LIKES ME

I had asked out a girl who said yes but lied about wanting to go out with me. The girl I like now was surprised that I asked out a girl saying that I have a girlfriend but now, she doesn't know that the girl I asked out lied. On the same day a boy told me that the girl I asked out was lying about wanting to go out with me. This girl (who I like now) said "Talk to her and find out if she has mutual feeling for you and if she actually wants to go out with you. Just to make sure. She is a nice girl, I don't think she will be lying." saying it with a sad face and tone. On the same day, she said she wondered why guys don't ask her out. (She said this when I was close to her but not directly to me).

The day or two after finding out I asked out a girl, she was talking about our essay project to me and another girl. She read one of the paragraphs and she looked at the girl 3-4 times and to me 7-8 times when reading it. I told her that I thought it was a good paragraph and she was smiling a bit.

Before she found out I asked out a girl she showed signs that to me told me she likes me...

When talking to me about my schoolwork, she touched/tapped my arm and later my back (this has never happened with other girls). Also her hand was close to mine and she didn't move her hand away and when passing pencils and pens to each other, she always made a way for me to touch her hand or her to touch my hand.

She talks to me and asks questions about my life (If I have brother or sisters) and random questions (If I can do cross eyes, How many children I want when older, about the sport we both like)

She looks at me a lot. She also leans backwards towards me when sitting in class (she sits in front of me).

We were talking in a group and I did something and she said we have to have dinner before we go there and was laughing/smiling

she yelled my name out in a public place (school excursion) when she was with her girl friends and also in class (when in class she yelled my name out a lot throughout the lesson). It was also someones birthday on that same day as the excursion and her friend offered me some cake and she said that she made it.

She also enjoys the sport I like and the girl I asked out doesn’t really talk about the sport. (Seems to have things in common to me)

One of her good girl friends stare/look at me in one of the classes I'm in with her. When I walked passed her group, one of her girl friends looked at me as I walked passed.

I have been having exams and every time I see her after the exam she looks/stares at me. One time she was in her group and I saw her looking at me but I walked passed her. After I saw her with another guy (might has kissed on the cheek) (this guy has a girlfriend) and she looked at me. The next day of exams, she walked passed where I was standing and her eyes seemed to follow where I was standing.

When in class one time, I sat next to this girl and randomly she asked how many kids I would like to have when older. I said how many my partner wants to have but below a certain amount. Without me asking her she just randomly said she wanted a certain amount of children. She was sitting next to one of her girl friends in the class and she didn't really notice anything happen and the question wasn't directed to her.

After an exam I saw the girl I like looking at me when I was with my group of friends. She wasn't smiling or laughing, but just looking. She looked a couple of times (I caught her) and she told a friend something who looked at me also without smiling or laughing. Then all her friends looked at me and then started talking again.

I walked to where my friends are at lunch and was waiting for my guy friend to come after his exam to talk to him. During this time, I could see the girl I like looking at me from a distance... What does this mean?

I'm afraid I will look desperate by asking out this new girl. I'm also afraid of asking her out and always say that I like her before asking her out a few days later.

Does she really like me back?
Will I look desperate in this situation?
Is it alright for me to tell her I really like her and then ask her out?

[WeAreOneRepublic]

If you are friends then ask her out. Take a step, do something. I can say it will work. Ask her on a date or just ask her to be your gf. Just do it.

[CharlieHorse]

Ask her if she likes you. If she says yes, and you like her too, then that's great for you. Then ask her if she'd like to spend time with you like lunch or something. If she says yes, then that's a date.
Then go make babies.

Simple.

[Justinreesor]

Is this like your 9th thread for the same girl

[clueless_one]

Can someone please annotate (in bold) what are the signs of her liking me or if you feel she likes me back. The signs are so confusing and I hope you people can help. You don't have to annotate just tell me if you think she still likes me back.


SIGNS TO ME SHE LIKES ME

I had asked out a girl who said yes but lied about wanting to go out with me. The girl I like now was surprised that I asked out a girl saying that I have a girlfriend but now, she doesn't know that the girl I asked out lied. On the same day a boy told me that the girl I asked out was lying about wanting to go out with me. This girl (who I like now) said "Talk to her and find out if she has mutual feeling for you and if she actually wants to go out with you. Just to make sure. She is a nice girl, I don't think she will be lying." saying it with a sad face and tone. On the same day, she said she wondered why guys don't ask her out. (She said this when I was close to her but not directly to me).

The day or two after finding out I asked out a girl, she was talking about our essay project to me and another girl. She read one of the paragraphs and she looked at the girl 3-4 times and to me 7-8 times when reading it. I told her that I thought it was a good paragraph and she was smiling a bit.

Before she found out I asked out a girl she showed signs that to me told me she likes me...

When talking to me about my schoolwork, she touched/tapped my arm and later my back (this has never happened with other girls). Also her hand was close to mine and she didn't move her hand away and when passing pencils and pens to each other, she always made a way for me to touch her hand or her to touch my hand.

She talks to me and asks questions about my life (If I have brother or sisters) and random questions (If I can do cross eyes, How many children I want when older, about the sport we both like)

She looks at me a lot. She also leans backwards towards me when sitting in class (she sits in front of me).

We were talking in a group and I did something and she said we have to have dinner before we go there and was laughing/smiling

she yelled my name out in a public place (school excursion) when she was with her girl friends and also in class (when in class she yelled my name out a lot throughout the lesson). It was also someones birthday on that same day as the excursion and her friend offered me some cake and she said that she made it.

She also enjoys the sport I like and the girl I asked out doesn’t really talk about the sport. (Seems to have things in common to me)

One of her good girl friends stare/look at me in one of the classes I'm in with her. When I walked passed her group, one of her girl friends looked at me as I walked passed.

I have been having exams and every time I see her after the exam she looks/stares at me. One time she was in her group and I saw her looking at me but I walked passed her. After I saw her with another guy (might has kissed on the cheek) (this guy has a girlfriend) and she looked at me. The next day of exams, she walked passed where I was standing and her eyes seemed to follow where I was standing.

When in class one time, I sat next to this girl and randomly she asked how many kids I would like to have when older. I said how many my partner wants to have but below a certain amount. Without me asking her she just randomly said she wanted a certain amount of children. She was sitting next to one of her girl friends in the class and she didn't really notice anything happen and the question wasn't directed to her.

After an exam I saw the girl I like looking at me when I was with my group of friends. She wasn't smiling or laughing, but just looking. She looked a couple of times (I caught her) and she told a friend something who looked at me also without smiling or laughing. Then all her friends looked at me and then started talking again.

I walked to where my friends are at lunch and was waiting for my guy friend to come after his exam to talk to him. During this time, I could see the girl I like looking at me from a distance... What does this mean?

I'm afraid I will look desperate by asking out this new girl. I'm also afraid of asking her out and always say that I like her before asking her out a few days later.

Does she really like me back?
Will I look desperate in this situation?
Is it alright for me to tell her I really like her and then ask her out?



can anyone please help. I should add that she has been my friend from the beginning of this year and i've known her since last year.

[unnamed94]

can you just grow some balls and ask her already? it's been some months now and all you do is look at 'signs' and ask people here what do we think about it. are the replies you get here actually going to make you go out there and ask her directly, or are going to keep on asking yourself if she likes you while you ruin any chance with her you might actually have (or maybe she already waited long enough)?

[clueless_one]

can you just grow some balls and ask her already? it's been some months now and all you do is look at 'signs' and ask people here what do we think about it. are the replies you get here actually going to make you go out there and ask her directly, or are going to keep on asking yourself if she likes you while you ruin any chance with her you might actually have (or maybe she already waited long enough)?

Does this look like she is losing interest in me...

After an exam I saw the girl I like looking at me when I was with my group of friends. She wasn't smiling or laughing, but just looking. She looked a couple of times (I caught her) and she told a friend something who looked at me also without smiling or laughing. Then all her friends looked at me and then started talking again.

I walked to where my friends are at lunch and was waiting for my guy friend to come after his exam to talk to him. During this time, I could see the girl I like looking at me from a distance... What does this mean?

I am planning to ask her out to the sports game which we both like (we both like the same team too but the team that I want to watch is not really her favourite but when talking to her about the sport I said I was addicted to it and she said she was too).

But when I ask her out will she think its a date and also will me asking her out mean i'm asking her to be my girlfriend? This is the only question I have left. Then I will wait for my exams to finish and ask her to the game.

[Meganium]

Does this look like she is losing interest in me...



I am planning to ask her out to the sports game which we both like (we both like the same team too but the team that I want to watch is not really her favourite but when talking to her about the sport I said I was addicted to it and she said she was too).

But when I ask her out will she think its a date and also will me asking her out mean i'm asking her to be my girlfriend? This is the only question I have left. Then I will wait for my exams to finish and ask her to the game.

If she's REMOTELY interested, then that interest is damn sure going to disappear soon if you don't do something. This whole time you've been pointing out things she may out may not do, as well as her friends, trying to calculate every little wink you can get out of her, but you are focusing way too hard on this. It will not help in the slightest, and the only way to push this a step further, into what may be a good relationship, is to actually ACT. If not now, then VERY soon.

And to answer your final question, no. It's not a date unless you make it one. If you asked your closest female friend out to a candlelit dinner, it can all be for shits and giggles. It's not romantic if you don't make it, and it doesn't need to be on your first date or just hanging with her anyway. She's not your girlfriend just because you asked her to go see a game. If that were true I'm sure many of us would have like 12 simultaneous girlfriends right now.

[clueless_one]

If she's REMOTELY interested, then that interest is damn sure going to disappear soon if you don't do something. This whole time you've been pointing out things she may out may not do, as well as her friends, trying to calculate every little wink you can get out of her, but you are focusing way too hard on this. It will not help in the slightest, and the only way to push this a step further, into what may be a good relationship, is to actually ACT. If not now, then VERY soon.

I have exams on so therefore can't ask her out due to concentrating on something already. I will ask her after the exams are over to watch the sports match we both like. I will just have to ask her out just like that without telling her I like her before hand.

[Meganium]

I have exams on so therefore can't ask her out due to concentrating on something already. I will ask her after the exams are over to watch the sports match we both like. I will just have to ask her out just like that without telling her I like her before hand.

Since that's your earliest convenience, then it's fine. Again, I was just hoping that this wouldn't interfere with your exams. But putting it off shouldn't be a problem until exams end.

[clueless_one]

Since that's your earliest convenience, then it's fine. Again, I was just hoping that this wouldn't interfere with your exams. But putting it off shouldn't be a problem until exams end.

Only problem is the team playing is not her favourite but another one of the teams she goes for is also a team who I go for. I also spoke to her about the sport and said that I was addicted to it, after she said she was also addicted.

Will this go my way if I ask her to the game even though the team is not one she goes for...

[Meganium]

Only problem is the team playing is not her favourite but another one of the teams she goes for is also a team who I go for. I also spoke to her about the sport and said that I was addicted to it, after she said she was also addicted.

Will this go my way if I ask her to the game even though the team is not one she goes for...

It should, seeing as though you both like the sport...

[clueless_one]

It should, seeing as though you both like the sport...

So is it alright to tell her "I know you like the [team 1 which we both like] but there is a [team 2 which i like] match on this weekend. I was wondering if you would like to go with me to watch it"

Is this alright to say or should I say it differently.

[Meganium]

So is it alright to tell her "I know you like the [team 1 which we both like] but there is a [team 2 which i like] match on this weekend. I was wondering if you would like to go with me to watch it"

Is this alright to say or should I say it differently.

You don't even need to say that. But yeah, it works. Whatever you say to get the message out that you want to go to the game with her works.

[clueless_one]

You don't even need to say that. But yeah, it works. Whatever you say to get the message out that you want to go to the game with her works.

sweet. Better get ready from now so i'm not that nervous when i tell her.

[Meganium]

sweet. Better get ready from now so i'm not that nervous when i tell her.

Glad to see your worries wear down some.

Best of luck on your exams and asking her. I'm sure it'll be fine.

[clueless_one]

Glad to see your worries wear down some.

Best of luck on your exams and asking her. I'm sure it'll be fine.

Wait can I just tell her "Have you watched an [name of sport] match live", wait for reply and say "Would you like to watch the [name of team which I like] match this weekend with me?"

[unnamed94]

Wait can I just tell her "Have you watched an [name of sport] match live", wait for reply and say "Would you like to watch the [name of team which I like] match this weekend with me?"

are you asking permission? just say what you think is right. answering your reply: i wouldnt know. i got bored of reading all of it after realizing its the same girl. the new signs are probably that she stared at you for a few seconds somewhere.

[Meganium]

Wait can I just tell her "Have you watched an [name of sport] match live", wait for reply and say "Would you like to watch the [name of team which I like] match this weekend with me?"

*a-HEM*

You don't even need to say that. But yeah, it works. Whatever you say to get the message out that you want to go to the game with her works.