Dealing with sport...

[Half Angel]

Do any of you do "manly" sports but are also gay/bi. I'm bi, I tell my friends in school that I am and they deal with it extremely well. However, I play rugby and if my friends there found out that I was bi, I'd be driven from the team even though a lot of them I'm really close to them. It's so annoying, constantly worrying that one of them will find out. Some go to my school but they're too close to me to tell them anyway.

How do you deal with "manly" sports with out being rejected?

[MoveAlong]

Well I'm in my advanced weight training class (yea, lots of jocks there) and I'm gay, but I don't have a problem with it because I don't act girly and I haven't told anyone who goes to the school. I feel the same way as you, feeling like I'd be rejected if anyone found out or if I told them. I'd rather stay in the closet. It just makes things less complicated.

I don't know what advice I can give you about your situation, but I can relate

[gaykid]

i dissagree withmove along i play soccer and i told them bbut most of them are realy close friends of mine a am gay and out of the closet being in the closet jest makes thing more coplated.shure thay might rejest u i told my 6 grade year and the entire school is y friends.if thay dont exept that thay arnt true friend

[sabin22]

i highly doubt thats true, but alot of those ppl prob didnt even know wat gay meant @ that time