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robbyg_55
August 5th, 2013, 03:27 PM
So my girlfriend has been acting very strange recently. We are long-distance during the summer and its nearly impossible for us to see each other. We have been dating for 3 months exactly. The past few days her mood and personality have completely changed. She is not affectionate and she doesn't seem to care about what is going on in my life. When we text she just sends 1 or 2 word answers so it seems like I am having a one-sided conversation. She says she is too exhausted from working hectic hours to be affectionate. It "slips her mind" as she says. I don't know what to do. Help if you can. I much appreciate it.

Obsidian
August 5th, 2013, 03:33 PM
I think you should just ask her what's going on and let her know you're concerned about your relationship. She could have things on her mind or be upset about something. She could be telling the truth and just be really exhausted from work. It could be a number of things, so the best thing to do would be to ask her what's going on and make sure that everything's okay between you guys. I wouldn't jump to the conclusion that she's not interested in the relationship anymore or something just because she hasn't really been herself the past few days. You should find out what's really going on before you stress about it too much.

trimm_tom
August 6th, 2013, 12:55 PM
she is seeing someone else move on she isnt worth it

Thephantomllama
August 6th, 2013, 04:33 PM
Approach her about it, it's probably just because you haven't seen much of each other, I had the same thing a while ago and making an effort to spend more time with her worked

Trace
August 6th, 2013, 04:37 PM
she is seeing someone else move on she isnt worth it

And you figured that up with what evidence?