Girl sleeping on my shoulder

[Azmate]

Today at school we went on an excursion to the city and our class went with another class in which was one of my female friends. (I have only liked her as a friend btw) On the bus told me to sit next to her and I did. We spoke for the bus trip as you would and she also had her leg touching mine.

Everyone had to be in groups of 3-5 and she was in our group. As we walked around she would grab my arm though she asked me if I was ok with it after a while and I said yes. At one point she started to hold my hand but I was a little uncomfortable doing that so we didn't. She also very lightly touched my cheeks with her fingers a couple times and didn't say anything about it.

On the bus trip back she said she was getting tired and asked me if I'd be ok with her sleeping on my shoulder which she said was comfy. I said she could and she did as well as having her arm on mine. After we got off the bus she asked if I was ok with her sleeping on me. She also called me after school and we just spoke about school and stuff but at one point she asked me if I usually hang out in this one location at school. Also she asked me for the third time if I was fine with her sleeping on my shoulder.

Does any of this mean anything?

P.S. When she spoke to other people today I usually heard my name come up. Also there is a possibility that she wasn't actually sleeping. Before she did she asked if I could see whether her eyes were open or not through the sunglasses she had been wearing (which were mine btw) and she kept them on while sleeping. At one point she seemed to look up at me while she was "sleeping".

(I should also note that we haven't been friends for very long and it was only today when we first had a proper conversation with each other.)

[thatcountrykid]

Well in my expert (exagerating) opinion, shes into you bro!

[ovoxo23]

Today at school we went on an excursion to the city and our class went with another class in which was one of my female friends. (I have only liked her as a friend btw) On the bus told me to sit next to her and I did. We spoke for the bus trip as you would and she also had her leg touching mine.

Everyone had to be in groups of 3-5 and she was in our group. As we walked around she would grab my arm though she asked me if I was ok with it after a while and I said yes. At one point she started to hold my hand but I was a little uncomfortable doing that so we didn't. She also very lightly touched my cheeks with her fingers a couple times and didn't say anything about it.

On the bus trip back she said she was getting tired and asked me if I'd be ok with her sleeping on my shoulder which she said was comfy. I said she could and she did as well as having her arm on mine. After we got off the bus she asked if I was ok with her sleeping on me. She also called me after school and we just spoke about school and stuff but at one point she asked me if I usually hang out in this one location at school. Also she asked me for the third time if I was fine with her sleeping on my shoulder.

Does any of this mean anything?

P.S. When she spoke to other people today I usually heard my name come up. Also there is a possibility that she wasn't actually sleeping. Before she did she asked if I could see whether her eyes were open or not through the sunglasses she had been wearing (which were mine btw) and she kept them on while sleeping. At one point she seemed to look up at me while she was "sleeping".

(I should also note that we haven't been friends for very long and it was only today when we first had a proper conversation with each other.)


I definitely think she is into you, but is nervous because you think you guys are just friends and she may be scared of you rejecting her because you just want to be friends.

[teen.jpg]

Sure, you can go after her. But from what I just read, I think you're just letting your hopes get the best of you.

[chezhans]

She likes you. How about that? Who knew that sleeping on a shoulder could make a massive difference?? Good luck, and go for it :)

[laurakoller0815]

just ask her how she feels about you :)

[WeAreOneRepublic]

Read. If it had only been friends before that day and she had never done any of that before then I must say, she is into you. Ask her out. Guaranteed yes from most of us here.

[Azmate]

Thank you to everyone here for sharing your opinions!

[Thephantomllama]

I agree with everyone else, theres defininetely something there, but I wouldn't as her out just yet, I'd try and stay friendly for a while and don't rush into anything. The one thing I'd say is only be as close as you want to be, you never actually mentioned whether you want to go out with her

[clueless_one]

Today at school we went on an excursion to the city and our class went with another class in which was one of my female friends. (I have only liked her as a friend btw) On the bus told me to sit next to her and I did. We spoke for the bus trip as you would and she also had her leg touching mine.

Everyone had to be in groups of 3-5 and she was in our group. As we walked around she would grab my arm though she asked me if I was ok with it after a while and I said yes. At one point she started to hold my hand but I was a little uncomfortable doing that so we didn't. She also very lightly touched my cheeks with her fingers a couple times and didn't say anything about it.

On the bus trip back she said she was getting tired and asked me if I'd be ok with her sleeping on my shoulder which she said was comfy. I said she could and she did as well as having her arm on mine. After we got off the bus she asked if I was ok with her sleeping on me. She also called me after school and we just spoke about school and stuff but at one point she asked me if I usually hang out in this one location at school. Also she asked me for the third time if I was fine with her sleeping on my shoulder.

Does any of this mean anything?

P.S. When she spoke to other people today I usually heard my name come up. Also there is a possibility that she wasn't actually sleeping. Before she did she asked if I could see whether her eyes were open or not through the sunglasses she had been wearing (which were mine btw) and she kept them on while sleeping. At one point she seemed to look up at me while she was "sleeping".

(I should also note that we haven't been friends for very long and it was only today when we first had a proper conversation with each other.)

If you just became friends now/recently then I won't rush into asking her out. Take it slow, she definitely seems interested in you. But if it was me, If I was in your position I would feel scared of doing this but if there was room to put your arm around her shoulder, you could have gently touched/played with her hair (sign of flirting and to show caring) she will then know you are interested. But from then I would play it slow and then ask her out.

[Dimas KM]

Maybe she's like u cause she's comfortable with u

[Azmate]

Just a small update on the situation:
At lunchtime today she was on an iPad app in which you can make these characters and you can pose them in photos to save. She made characters for each of her friends including me. Also you can make the characters do different actions with each other. She was then doing something and was hiding the screen from me but I just saw the corner of the screen and saw our two characters kissing and my other friend who was standing next to me also saw it.

[Azmate]

I agree with everyone else, theres defininetely something there, but I wouldn't as her out just yet, I'd try and stay friendly for a while and don't rush into anything. The one thing I'd say is only be as close as you want to be, you never actually mentioned whether you want to go out with her

I think that I've started growing an interest in her but I think I would just like to get to know her some more before doing anything.

[liptonlee]

but somehow if she keeps checking on whether its okay to but *that* cloase to you, it may be a sign she wants to remain friends and not to get into too much....lol

[handle with care]

she definitely seems to like you

[Gumleaf]

I think she is more likely then not interested. By doing these things she is trying to show you that she is interested and trying to guage for herself whether she thinks you might be interested in her. You said that you just want to be friends, so perhaps if this esculates further and she starts doing other things, maybe have a casual convo with her and see where she stands?