Is it wrong or not wrong?

[imaguybro]

To the Mods: I just want an answer, about his puberty and if I should help him or leave him alone and let him find these things on his own. Sorry, if this seems like a sexual post or something.

Alright so, maybe when I was 16 and my brother was 11 we did stuff. My parents were on vacation and left us with your grandma at our house. We both came in our room and sat on my bed and took off our clothes and touched each other penis's because I was curious what his looked like. But a month later we were having lunch with my sister and he told her about that day, but I did a quick response and said ''no that didnt happen'' and gave him a dirty look like ''why did you tell''.

Now, im 19 and hes 13 and i'm in that curiosity mood again. He never watched porn, nor seen girl nude unless in a movie. I was wondering if I could let him know about porn and also masturbating.

I read on other forums on sexual advice and puberty advice. Girls with there sisters teach there sister or sisters about masturbating and porn at a young age. And they keep is a sister and sister type of a deal. And I was wondering if this could happen with a brother and brother type of a deal.

Note: No sex will be involved at all.

Is is wrong or not wrong?

[teen.jpg]

It sounds like you want to do it for your own sexual pleasure. And that's pretty messed up.

[imaguybro]

It sounds like you want to do it for your own sexual pleasure. And that's pretty messed up.

No, not at all. What a brother cant teach another brother about porn and masturbating?

[teen.jpg]

No, not at all. What a brother cant teach another brother about porn and masturbating?

Why do you want to? Unless he asks you to, you shouldn't. It's a pretty big age gap.

Besides, he's 13. He can learn on his own.

[ovoxo23]

Listen, he will learn on his own. Like I said in another post, teach him some tips/tricks and what feels best, but I wouldn't go as far as actually showing himgo or touching him. And sure I would show him porn.

[imaguybro]

Why do you want to? Unless he asks you to, you shouldn't. It's a pretty big age gap.

Besides, he's 13. He can learn on his own.

Because his friends are telling him about all this stuff about porn in a wrong way. For example, his friends are telling him hes a pussy in a video game and yet he doesnt know what that is. And I dont want him to look stupid in front or talking to all his friends. And its not a big age gap when it comes to brothers, having him be a friend would be another and different story.

[teen.jpg]

Because his friends are telling him about all this stuff about porn in a wrong way. For example, his friends are telling him hes a pussy in a video game and yet he doesnt know what that is. And I dont want him to look stupid in front or talking to all his friends. And its not a big age gap when it comes to brothers, having him be a friend would be another and different story.

Just send him off on the Wonderful World of the Internet :)

Just kidding. I was 13 only a couple months ago, and I figured out everything on my own. If he has questions, he can use google.

[Lost in the Echo]

Why do you want to? Unless he asks you to, you shouldn't. It's a pretty big age gap.

Besides, he's 13. He can learn on his own.

This exactly. ^^^

He's significantly younger than you, and the both of you may regret "fooling around" one day. I highly suggest you don't do this. Honestly, it's just creepy and wrong.

[imaguybro]

This exactly. ^^^

He's significantly younger than you, and the both of you may regret "fooling around" one day. I highly suggest you don't do this. Honestly, it's just creepy and wrong.

How is 6 years difference creepy when your brothers? Creepy would be if your dad came up to you, and said hey.. Do you want me to teach you these things. That would be creepy.

[Lost in the Echo]

How is 6 years difference creepy when your brothers? Creepy would be if your dad came up to you, and said hey.. Do you want me to teach you these things. That would be creepy.

Well hey, i'm just giving you my honest opinion.
I strongly suggest against you doing this, but if you really want to, I can't stop you. All I can do is give you my perspective.

[teen.jpg]

How is 6 years difference creepy when your brothers? Creepy would be if your dad came up to you, and said hey.. Do you want me to teach you these things. That would be creepy.

It's creepy because you're an adult and he's a kid and you're approaching him, instead of him approaching you.

[Camazotz]

He's significantly younger than you, and the both of you may regret "fooling around" one day. I highly suggest you don't do this. Honestly, it's just creepy and wrong.

The age difference is way too big to do the things you're talking about. It's not hard to learn these kinds of puberty things from the Internet or friends. He doesn't need you to teach him those things, it's definitely wrong to do the things you're suggesting.

[Lost in the Echo]

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