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Inzanethingy
August 4th, 2013, 02:03 AM
Every now and then I get complents from girls like "your funny" "your dimples are cute" "you have pretty eyes" and I dont know how to respond! Sad I know but I dont have many female friends and I rarely talk to them. I feel my social skills with girls are just above the guys from Big Bang Theory barely. All advice would be appriciated!

chezhans
August 4th, 2013, 02:16 AM
Dont worry. Is it just me or are you pree lucky? Lol

Inzanethingy
August 4th, 2013, 02:25 AM
So lucky I dont know what to do. If I were lucky I would have a sweet gal and finaly have a girlfriend like all the guys in the group of friends I have!

Vocabulous
August 4th, 2013, 02:31 AM
at least your existance is recongnised, mate

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August 4th, 2013, 02:39 AM
So lucky I dont know what to do. If I were lucky I would have a sweet gal and finaly have a girlfriend like all the guys in the group of friends I have!
Dont rush yourself into a relationship. You're friends may look happy now, but you'll be the happy one when all their relationships fail.

TEAM SINGLE!

Inzanethingy
August 4th, 2013, 02:56 AM
Dont rush yourself into a relationship. You're friends may look happy now, but you'll be the happy one when all their relationships fail.

TEAM SINGLE!

Well its not bad to be in a relationship. You need to keep searching and find the one for you I feel I need to look and Find the right person and be ready for it. To find the perfect relationship you need to fail a few time too. Well that goes for a lot of things

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August 4th, 2013, 03:00 AM
Well its not bad to be in a relationship. You need to keep searching and find the one for you I feel I need to look and Find the right person and be ready for it. To find the perfect relationship you need to fail a few time too. Well that goes for a lot of things

You won't anyone searching for someone. As much as we hate to admit it, our own judgements on each other will block us from who might be the one.

Which is why love works when you aren't looking for it. Sooner or later our selfish standards won't even matter :)

WeAreOneRepublic
August 4th, 2013, 04:44 AM
You won't anyone searching for someone. As much as we hate to admit it, our own judgements on each other will block us from who might be the one.

Which is why love works when you aren't looking for it. Sooner or later our selfish standards won't even matter :)

By what you say before and a bit in this it sounds like you are anti-relationship unless it is 'the one'. Having other relationships before 'the one' will help you create a better relationship in the future as you are finding your mistakes and learning from them. It's not all that bad. Right now I am going for someone and hopefully the mistakes I make from this can help me somewhere else.

Now back to the OP's question...
If you are complimented probably say something along the lines of 'Thanks' and flash them a little smile. Then if you want to go further, give them one back. Don't make it so it is totally different. eg.
GIRL: You are funny!
YOU: Thanks, you have a totally hot body.

That probably wouldn't work that great.

haydy :)

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August 4th, 2013, 08:39 AM
By what you say before and a bit in this it sounds like you are anti-relationship unless it is 'the one'. Having other relationships before 'the one' will help you create a better relationship in the future as you are finding your mistakes and learning from them. It's not all that bad. Right now I am going for someone and hopefully the mistakes I make from this can help me somewhere else.

Now back to the OP's question...
If you are complimented probably say something along the lines of 'Thanks' and flash them a little smile. Then if you want to go further, give them one back. Don't make it so it is totally different. eg.
GIRL: You are funny!
YOU: Thanks, you have a totally hot body.

That probably wouldn't work that great.

haydy :)

Why would you want to be in a relationship set up for failure?

And when I say "the one", I don't literally mean one person, I mean the right person for them.