Does sex hurt?

[hipster_girl19]

Ok so I'm only 13 and not planning on having sex anytime soon but I want to know doesn't sex like hurt or putting a dildo in you? I would think but most girls seem to like it..

[princesscutie]

For the first time having sex, Yes it will hurt. After that, it wont hurt anymore. Most girls do use dildos because its kinda like the ''real'' thing but without any guys. But your only 13, so you dont need to worry about sex or anything yet.

[conniption]

My friend said it hurt a lot, but being aroused and properly lubricated 'down there' should make penetration easier.

[emily-candace]

I've heard it hurts if you still have your hymen intact. I guess but if it isn't, then it isn't suppose to hurt or at least not much I don't think. I still waiting for my first time too and not planning on it for a while either.

[SammyG17]

Sex CAN hurt. Even if you aren't a virgin. It really depends on the type of sex you are having, and how rough the person is.

If you masturbate regularly, like objects inside, and sometimes like a bigger object that "stretches" what you are used to, then sex for you probably won't hurt. On the flipside, if nothing has ever been inside and you decide to "just go for it" it will hurt really bad.

Proper lubrication, proper relaxing, and honestly, the right person, will all contribute to whether it will hurt or not. I was 11 my first, and the guy I was with was by no means small. It was the most loving and enjoyable times I've ever had with sex, and didn't hurt at all. Even anal my first time was only slightly uncomfortable, but in both circumstances I knew what to expect, things went slow, and I was really relaxed.

So it really just depends...

[beautiful__disaster]

It can if you are not turned on enough.

[kitten13]

i'm 13 and yes it did hurt.but when the hurt passed omg.

[laurakoller0815]

take your time pls. in your age its not all about sex....

[ElliEvens]

Well i think it can be either. If you have been masterbating for awhile and especially if when you masterbate you actually penetrate with fingers or something else and don't just rub then it can make the first time you have sex less painful. also, the more aroused and wet you are.

Like most things sexual, i don't think there is any one answer, it's a pretty individual thing.

[carmen97]

when i lost my virginity it was like a pinch in my vagina and after he broke my hymen it was very very enjoyable. but take your time and have sex when you are ready

[Harley Quinn]

Please don't bump old threads. :locked: