I am not sure

[ANASOPHIA]

My boyfriend ask me to have 4 some with another pair....with my
friend and his girlfriend....they want too but i am not sure is that dangerous? Mybe my boyfriend likes that girl and thats why he want to do that....
Does anyone of you had 4 some? What do you thing about that and how it was? Thanks a lot

[uglyinsideandout]

If you're not comfortable with the idea you shouldn't do it. I've never done a 4some and I don't think I really understand all the people involved. How everyone feels and why they are doing it is going to be important to figure out if you should or shouldn't do it even if you want to.

For me it would not be the right thing to do though, so if that's all you want to know there it is. :)

[Harley Quinn]

Only ever do something that you're completely comfortable with. If you aren't, you need to tell him otherwise he'll proceed anyway. I wouldn't go as far as to say it's dangerous, but do remember you're all friends and there is the possibility that feelings could be entered at this stage. It could also damage that friendship and or relationships too. But, you have to do what you want to do and not what someone else does.

[princesscutie]

If you dont feel comfortable about it. Dont do it. ''Mybe my boyfriend likes that girl'' sometimes that might be the answer to why a guy would like to have a 4some or even a 3some. But dont let other people encourage you to do something in which you may not want to do. Hope I helped.

[ElliEvens]

Seems pretty simple to me. If you are asking, "why" and if it's normal or a good idea then you probably shouldn't cause you are questioning whether it's a good idea. I would definitely say that if you aren't totally up for it then don't do it. Don't be pressured into it.

[carmen97]

if you are not comfortable doing it then dont do it, if you want to try it come up with guide lines or rules so you feel more comfortable and if you are worried that your bf is doing it just because he likes the other girl i wouldnt join because that could confuse the relationship

[Harley Quinn]

Please don't bump old threads. :locked: