Touching in school

[rayr2013]

Ok so in school I always see guys grabbing girls asses and tits and I just want to know if u girls mind or what because I have a friend I like and we flirt but I have never touch her ass or tits I mean I'm not sayin I want to but how would I know if its ok for me to do it

[uglyinsideandout]

No, it's not ok. What you're seeing is sexual assault, feel free to step up and do something about it.

[irishmaniac2000]

^^^^

[imaguybro]

No, it's not ok. What you're seeing is sexual assault, feel free to step up and do something about it.

What she said. You can go to jail for it. Dont do it, the people in your school are morons.

[RAGE DJ]

I never do it but I used to see it a lot in middle school, but in high school it mostly stops.

[justinglives]

No, it's not ok. What you're seeing is sexual assault, feel free to step up and do something about it.

Totally agree with her!
Dude......seriously.......do u really have to ask?

[britishboy]

it's not sexual assault if the girl is happy and fine with it and engages positively (maybe grabbing the guys ass etc etc) however it's a fine line. I do not recommend you do it yourself as you will probably get slapped and will look like a perve

[imaguybro]

it's not sexual assault if the girl is happy and fine with it and engages positively (maybe grabbing the guys ass etc etc) however it's a fine line. I do not recommend you do it yourself as you will probably get slapped and will look like a perve

In the United States, its called a Sexual Assault even if a girl likes it. Its not allowed in any school.

[princesscutie]

Omg, no. Dont do that do her.

[trimm_tom]

not cool

[ccof97]

Some of my guy friends will grab my ass and/or boobs while walking down the hall or in the mall and stuff but I don't really mind. I just do it back to them. It's just playful. They aren't trying to be overly sexual. But I think it depends on what kind of relationship you have. I wouldn't just walk up to her randomly one day and do it. You have to establish that it is okay first. I don't have good advice on how to do that though.

[ovoxo23]

Ok so in school I always see guys grabbing girls asses and tits and I just want to know if u girls mind or what because I have a friend I like and we flirt but I have never touch her ass or tits I mean I'm not sayin I want to but how would I know if its ok for me to do it

I've grabbed girls asses, but I know them really well and I don't do that until they do something to me first like grab my ass or something just so I know they are interested and won't get offended. I would never do it to a random girl or a girl that isn't into me, because that is REALLY disrespectful. And I've never went as far as to grab a girls boods. That is a liitle far, in my opinion.

[jayjay's toocool]

Dang some of you girls are overreacting Where I live girls constantly slap and grab my butt and I do the same.....Lol and you guys are reading what he said "We flirt and stuff" So the worst that could happen is that she doesn't feel comfortable with that and says stop in which you respectively agree. But while everyone's over reacting I have yet to see anyone saying" ask her" or "lead up to it" you never know how they are or what their relationship is and that could be their new norm in the relationship or maybe they'll know each others boundaries what your doing is limiting possibilities because of you feel

[Laquifa]

In the United States, its called a Sexual Assault even if a girl likes it. Its not allowed in any school.

Reece is right.

[Obsidian]

Even if the girl wants it or likes it that's not something you should be doing at school. It's really inappropriate and not the time and place for it. If somebody was seen doing that at my school they would get in a ton of trouble. I've always thought that school is someplace that should be at least a little professional, because it's basically preparing you for when you're older and you have a job or a career. And if you worked somewhere and grabbed a girls ass that you worked with that's considered sexual harassment and you'd more than likely get fired or at least face some kind of consequence for it. Whether or not it's disrespectful or innappropriate depends on how well you know the person and whether or not it would make them uncomfortable. But either way, school isn't the right place for it. Just my opinion though.

[GigglyAbby]

It's very inappropriate when it's being done whether it's wanted or not! Grabbing or touching someone's body parts is good in private where NOONE can see it IF both parties are okay with it.

[Harley Quinn]

This is not appropriate as it is illegal and classified as sexual assault. I advise you not to do that, ever, to anyone. You have all the answers you need in this thread. :locked: