confused

[Envy.]

Hi!

I've always been emotionally attracted to girls, and until this year, I never had a crush on a guy. However, I've always been attracted to guys sexually, and always when I masturbate it's been to fantasies with guys (with the exception of a Kate Upton pic (; ). I'm really confused about my sexuality.
-I am emotionally attracted to both females and males.
-I am primarily sexually attracted to males, but I can be sexually attracted to females.
-I only jack off to males.
-I can imagine having a family with either a male or a female.

I don't want to be bi or gay. I really don't. I'm hoping this is a phase?

[Obsidian]

I don't know how old you are, but I think it's normal at a certain time in your life to go through phases like that, especially when you're at an age when you're starting to become more aware of your sexuality. I went through a phase where I really believed that I was bisexual, but now I have no attraction to other girls whatsoever. At one point in time I wasn't as interested in guys as I was girls, and I really saw myself being with a girl. But now I'm 100% attracted to guys. So I think you should just give it time, and don't stress yourself out too much trying to figure it out. As you become more comfortable with your sexuality you'll become more aware of what you're attracted to and who you want to be with. You really shouldn't worry too much.

[Annonymous1997]

im not an expert, if you can see yourself having a family with both then you're probably Bi but it could be a phase

[NikosamA98]

Well, if you say you're attracted physically and emotionally to men and women, then you're bi, but the only way to know what you really like is experimenting with both genders (since you like both)

P.D: If you're not sure enough to label yourself as gay, bi or str8 then don't do it. Consider yourself as curious and that will give you the chance of your "guy attraction" to be just a phase

[Jungle]

Bisexual is my guess. If I was looking for a prime example of bisexuality, what you have described is it. but I am sure other people have other ideas and say that you're 'going through a phase' or that you're 'just bi-curious', but I mean.... Doesn't sound like it. Whatever you are just be happy with it!

[Jungle]

"P.D: If you're not sure enough to label yourself as gay, bi or str8 then don't do it. Consider yourself as curious and that will give you the chance of your "guy attraction" to be just a phase"


You assume that this person does not want to be gay? if so then why?!

[chargersfan]

Hi!

I've always been emotionally attracted to girls, and until this year, I never had a crush on a guy. However, I've always been attracted to guys sexually, and always when I masturbate it's been to fantasies with guys (with the exception of a Kate Upton pic (; ). I'm really confused about my sexuality.
-I am emotionally attracted to both females and males.
-I am primarily sexually attracted to males, but I can be sexually attracted to females.
-I only jack off to males.
-I can imagine having a family with either a male or a female.

I don't want to be bi or gay. I really don't. I'm hoping this is a phase?

Well I don't want to be the bearer of bad news, but you are more than likely bisexual based on the information you gave me.

[trimm_tom]

ya you are confused

[NikosamA98]

"P.D: If you're not sure enough to label yourself as gay, bi or str8 then don't do it. Consider yourself as curious and that will give you the chance of your "guy attraction" to be just a phase"


You assume that this person does not want to be gay? if so then why?!

Because he said it. Quote: "I don't want to be bi or gay. I really don't. I'm hoping this is a phase"

[shadynorm333]

Hi!

I've always been emotionally attracted to girls, and until this year, I never had a crush on a guy. However, I've always been attracted to guys sexually, and always when I masturbate it's been to fantasies with guys (with the exception of a Kate Upton pic (; ). I'm really confused about my sexuality.
-I am emotionally attracted to both females and males.
-I am primarily sexually attracted to males, but I can be sexually attracted to females.
-I only jack off to males.
-I can imagine having a family with either a male or a female.

I don't want to be bi or gay. I really don't. I'm hoping this is a phase?

Honestly pretty much my life, except for the last one- can't even imagine a family :(