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[WeAreOneRepublic]

So hi everyone :)

I like this girl who I know and I wanted some opinions on what I have to say.

So I used to be reasonably good friends with her just over a year ago but it turned to nothing because of a previous attempt in which I had 20 people practically forcing me into it. Now I want to try again with a fresh, clear, and peer free attempt. I want to at least be good friends by close to the end of the year so I have a little room to make a move of sorts.

I am not sure though when I get to that stage what I should do. So, here comes my question for your opinions... Should I ask her to be my girlfriend first or take her on a date somewhere and ask her out there? ( 14 atm turning 15 in a month or so). I am just not sure which first or whatever and if you guys have any different advice feel free to give it.

Another item to do with this is that she is Christian while I am not. I am quite an open-viewed person for a lot of things so I would be fine but I am not sure how it would fare on her end with it. Do any of you have an experience with this or have thoughts?

I am not fully sure as most of the other relationships I have had weren't that great so advice would be well accepted.

Thanks everyone and sorry for the mouthful,
haydy

[ovoxo23]

So hi everyone :)

I like this girl who I know and I wanted some opinions on what I have to say.

So I used to be reasonably good friends with her just over a year ago but it turned to nothing because of a previous attempt in which I had 20 people practically forcing me into it. Now I want to try again with a fresh, clear, and peer free attempt. I want to at least be good friends by close to the end of the year so I have a little room to make a move of sorts.

I am not sure though when I get to that stage what I should do. So, here comes my question for your opinions... Should I ask her to be my girlfriend first or take her on a date somewhere and ask her out there? ( 14 atm turning 15 in a month or so). I am just not sure which first or whatever and if you guys have any different advice feel free to give it.

Another item to do with this is that she is Christian while I am not. I am quite an open-viewed person for a lot of things so I would be fine but I am not sure how it would fare on her end with it. Do any of you have an experience with this or have thoughts?

I am not fully sure as most of the other relationships I have had weren't that great so advice would be well accepted.

Thanks everyone and sorry for the mouthful,
haydy

I would ask her to dinner as a date. And I wouldn't worry about her being Christian. I am Catholic, which is a stricter branch of Christianity, and I don't really care if someone I date isn't Christian or whatever, so I doubt she cares....but all people are diffeent

[WeAreOneRepublic]

I would ask her to dinner as a date. And I wouldn't worry about her being Christian. I am Catholic, which is a stricter branch of Christianity, and I don't really care if someone I date isn't Christian or whatever, so I doubt she cares....but all people are diffeent
I was thinking of taking her to the beach or movies since it will be summer/ close to summer if I do it

[ovoxo23]

I was thinking of taking her to the beach or movies since it will be summer/ close to summer if I do it

DON'T TAKE HER TO THE MOVIES! Honestly, I think that the movies is the lamest first date ever. Everybody does it. If you want to impress her, take her to somewhere she's never been or doesn't go to a lot. The beach might be a good place to take her if u want to take her as a friend and ask her to be your gf there

[WeAreOneRepublic]

DON'T TAKE HER TO THE MOVIES! Honestly, I think that the movies is the lamest first date ever. Everybody does it. If you want to impress her, take her to somewhere she's never been or doesn't go to a lot. The beach might be a good place to take her if u want to take her as a friend and ask her to be your gf there
Your advice has been well noted :) And should I ask her out or take her on a date first?

[ovoxo23]

Your advice has been well noted :) And should I ask her out or take her on a date first?

Honestly, I would just cut right to the chase and ask her on a date first bro