Should I do it?

[Curious buddy]

My bi bf asked me if I wanted to do a threesome. I have already had sex twice with him and I loved it but I'm not bi. Also. I feel pain in my breasts and they only feel better when he massages them

[Taryn98]

If you have a 3some it will likely change your relationship forever, and usually not for the better. If you're ok with that, then go ahead.
3somes are best left for when you're not in a relationship and it's all casual between all participants.

[SammyG17]

If you have a 3some it will likely change your relationship forever, and usually not for the better. If you're ok with that, then go ahead.
3somes are best left for when you're not in a relationship and it's all casual between all participants.

This

[Luminous]

I think people usually do threesomes when they aren't commited because you never know who will get too attached or leave. Only do it if you're really confortable.

[Mollypop]

If you have a 3some it will likely change your relationship forever, and usually not for the better. If you're ok with that, then go ahead.
3somes are best left for when you're not in a relationship and it's all casual between all participants.

Exactly :yes:

[teen.jpg]

He's probably trying to say something without actually saying it. What he's saying I don't know, but it's significant. Ask him about it.

[ovoxo23]

My bi bf asked me if I wanted to do a threesome. I have already had sex twice with him and I loved it but I'm not bi. Also. I feel pain in my breasts and they only feel better when he massages them

If you don't feel comfortable with it tell him no. Just tell him that u like having sex with him and u like hiw he touches u, but u really just want him and not a third peraon.

[Harley Quinn]

Because two boys have already posted in this thread with advice, I'm going to move this :arrow: both. I would just like to you remind the guys though, you can't post in the girls section in the future.

[laurakoller0815]

do the right thing what your feeling and your heart tells you what feels right :) dont do anything what you think is not working for you:)

[irishmaniac2000]

Simple. if you're unsure dont do it. if your ok with it go for it

[1_21Guns]

if you honestly feel fully comfortable, then sure why not, some people have found it helps their relationship, but if you have any doubts, at all, even small ones, don't

[ElliEvens]

I agree that everything I've heard or people I've talked to say it will change the relationship. Also, you said you aren't Bi, so I'm assuming that your BF is suggesting a 3some with you and him and another girl? I wonder how he'd feel if it you suggested a 3some with him and another boy? I'm not saying you do it but I'll bet he'd be like hell no! Just wondering.

[Trace]

I wouldn't do it. You'll probably be a third-wheel.

[denisss]

lots of problems lurking in there. just wait a bit and see how the whole thing will work out...

[Obsidian]

I agree with everybody else that it could complicate things within your relationship. And I also think that you shouldn't do anything you're not completely comfortable with. Just because it's something your boyfriend wants doesn't mean you should go along with it or feel pressured into it. It's totally up to you, and you shouldn't feel obligated to do something you're unsure about.

[Catholic Guy]

Well has he asked you to be with two girls one guy or two guys one girl? I think if you are comfortable enough to let him have sex with someone else at the same time he's having it with you then go for it

[Zelder]

Sure why not

[Lost in the Echo]

I'll keep this simple: If you want to do this, do it. If you don't, or are really having second thoughts about going through with this, then don't. And don't let anyone pressure you into this. This is your decision, it's up to you, nobody else.

[graci]

they can be enjoyable but tricky with your significant other

[trimm_tom]

is he asking for another guy or girl to join u?

[ElectricRose]

Having anyone but one extremely committed & emotionally bound partner touch me scares the Heck outta me. Personally, me or my partner would never do anything intimate with anyone but each other, cause if I find a partner then we'd be soul mates for life.

[trimm_tom]

if u are not bi i am assuming he is asking u for a guy since he is bi

[gandolf]

ask for 2 guys :L

[GigglyAbby]

It's your choice and if you don't feel comfy with it -- then you can say no. Though -- I'm curious if he wanted you to be with another guy NOT a girl.

[Sarah_Ward]

I haven't actually gone like all the way with a boy yet but I don't think I would do it if someone else was there with us, even if it was another girl coz I don't think 3somes work out and you will end up h8ting each other.

[roadwarrior]

sure why not?? there's no problem in it, and you liking with each other...